Aquarian boyfriend going on vacation...

My long distance boyfriend is going to visit his family from Thanksgiving through to the New Year.

It's 42 days.

I see him about twice a year, and we talk every night. But... while he's visiting, he will be busy spending time with his family and friends and we won't be able to carry on like we usually do. He has gone back to visit his family last Christmas and I had some complaints about how he handled his time. He basically tells me he doesn't have a lot of time, but it is my opinion that if you loved someone, you MAKE time for them.

So I have had many conversations with him in the past week telling him how I feel, and he has said that he will do his best to call me each night and make me a bigger part of his time spent there.

My problem is... I get hurt easily. I get jealous and I feel left out and abandoned and I don't want to fight with him this time.

I just want these 40 days to blaze on by so I can go back to having him :\. He might even have to hang out with his ex-girlfriend because she is still a part of his circle of friends. And I have told him I will NOT like it if he even spends a minute in her presence, basically. I barely see him, and to think that she gets to when I don't just makes me fume.

What do I do? I don't want to be a nuisance, but if I don't want to leave him alone and feel hurt that he doesn't contact me.

And on a side note... are all Aquas really bad at the whole gift giving thing? .... My bf didn't get me anything for Christmas last year...I guess he felt bad and send me an electronic gift card... :\

Are you a Pisces?

I'm a Scorpio/libra cusp