Aquarian Decoder Ring

Hi Waterbearers-
Lioness here, drowning in an aquarian daze. Need some advice. I have read some posts to what aq's are about. Some of it seems familiar, other not so sure. My aquarian friend *of 2.5 yrs* has ALWAYS wanted to get married, apparently drives him to succeed in life. He has informed me that he never knows what I am thinking, he misses me, yet he speaks in riddles. He claims he does not mess with anyone's head *right*. I get a hypothetical question from him about being exclusive, followed by a disclaimer of "Wouldn't that mess with your head?" What does this person want from me? He has told me so many times what he wants from a significant other, and it seems as though he voices my innermost wants as well. What do I do? I am a Rules girl and feel strongly that I would be better appreciated if he has to pursue, but this is HARD! I care SO much about him......Please advise. THANKS SO MUCH

Mystery is good for your Aq man...he loves to be surprised! He may not voice it...but, he does. If you were totally predictable and so forth...he would find you boring and would soon be looking elsewhere..

If you really want him to pursue you..be less available...don't give him reason to question whether he can trust you...but, come up with a reason that you have to skip a get-together with him...next time you get together, see if he is more affectionate and doing more of the 'chasing'...

I am with an Aq guy...love him to death! Do I tell him? NO! (I am a female Aq) I let him know some of how I feel and be available and then, I am still his girl, but, not able to get together...

I am not really into playing games...but, it is true that Aq guys like the chase...but, yet need to know some of how you feel...they need to be able to trust you when you are not together...

If they don't get some of the chase...they become bored and don't pursue!

This make me feel like a my sheperd shes allways bark'en up a tree at the pecan eating rodent up in the tree. : ] Ladys are so mean. hahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ; ]

Mean? Hmmm...I don't mean to be mean...

Love is just complicated and sometimes a girl has to make sure things are as they should be...so, everyone is happy! This might mean analyzing the guy and acting accordingly..

I don't think Aq guys like it to be easy...

What's your insight, CB? I'm interested..seriously..

Very complicated I agree with that ever since the end of my second marrage it seems like I am very gun shy. Yes I date and have a good time with the ladys and try to help when its needed either finacialy or labor wise, its like I know she out there and that someday God willing we will meet just ain't happen yet. : ] so needless to say, the ladys I do date what a commetted relate'ship I just can't do this now. Sometimes I think my second X wife put a curse on me. : ] oh well Time To Go Two Step'en. Take care Lady Star
C-B

hey i'm a leo girl who was with an aquarius guy, they make me crazy...my opposite for sure it feels like a love hate relationship...i ended it though, the friendship all of it...being apart for weeks and instant messaging and not having the appreciation said to me doesn't sit well with me...i have regrets but i'm sure that when i meet the right man it'll all have beeen worth it in the end....hasta luego aquarian boy.