Aquarius - FAQs

Hi Aquarius,

I have few big questions which I'm not sure what Topic title should be.

1. When you commit to someone (relationship, married..):
- would you ever fall out of love (I mean, friendship)?
- you meet someone else so perfect that can flow your mind (perfect = intelligent + beautiful + great heart +...), what would you do?
- you thought your partner was perfect, but you found out your partner cheat on your hundred times. What would you do?

2. How do you break up? Just disappear?
3. How much attention that you need from your gf/bf?

1. Yes, I did fall out of love in my last relationship, so it happens.

If I meet someone else who is perfect but I'm still in love with my boyfriend (it has also happened to me) I don't do anything and stay with my boyfriend. What actually happened is that I became very good friends with the guy, and that was the thing to do: I "solved his puzzle" and lost interest. And was still with my bf.

If he cheats, I break up, and he can forget about "staying friends". It's a question of principle.

2. No, I don't disappear on people. I told him I wasn't in love anymore, and that I thought it would be too cruel to stay with him in that state of mind. We tried to stay friends because of friends in common, but as soon as he got a new girlfriend he's the one who stopped talking to me.

3. Haha, good question! I like attention but I don't like clingy. Let's say I enjoy my own private life and being independent, but still seeing my man from time to time. And it doesn't mean we can't text or call each other as well! I just need to have my own life on the side 🙂

1. When you commit to someone (relationship, married..):

would you ever fall out of love (I mean, friendship)?
I have actually but honestly I gave it all my best and in the end I think it was a mutual falling out, I mean it lasted for 5 years and I loved every second of it. We really did try to make it work but in the end we both just let go. We're still really good friends now after a year apart after that to gather ourselves.

you meet someone else so perfect that can flow your mind (perfect = intelligent + beautiful + great heart +...), what would you do?
I think back and realise they are all the qualities that my partner has 🙂 Otherwise I would've have chosen to be with her. I have met someone like this before in a relationship before but in the end I stuck to the one I chose and probably be really glad GOOD people out there exists. If however they DO like me, for instance it happened back in college, I'll make it clear the admiration is mutual but I'm respectfully taken.

you thought your partner was perfect, but you found out your partner cheat on your hundred times. What would you do?
Well I would have a lot of questions for her! But then really I can only blame myself for being so oblivious to it. I admire her acting skills and putting up with me for the time, dust it off and never talk or trust her again. Maybe write a hate letter or two but you know 😛

2. How do you break up? Just disappear?
Was pretty straight forward. I really hate dragging things out. I'd be happy to answer her as to why and everything so it'll really depend on what she has to say if I decide to just disappear. I just think staying depending on the circumstances of a breakup might give the other person the wrong impression.

3. How much attention that you need from your gf/bf?
If they make it to the girlfriend level it's really whatever she's comfortable with. There are definitely days where I'd like to do my own thing without constantly doing things as a couple. I love spending time with my girl, she knows I have my time out and she'll have hers as well! If she needs me I'll be there no questions asked.