Aquarius men.....Aries or Libra?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by ImaPinkLibra on Thursday, January 3, 2013 and has 9 replies.

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
16 Years5,000+ Posts

i find some libras do my head in and aries can tire me out and be too overbearing when we hang out too much......i like how i can talk about different things with librans....and i like going on adventures with aries.....pros and cons to both but id choose aries if i had to

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@firewaterearthpiscesvenus
13 Years

If it comes down between an evolved Libra vs. an evolved Aries, then I think that the Aries is gonna win out. An evolved Aries can support an Aqua in their life vision. In other words, an evolved Aries can make the Aqua's proverbial kite fly high and help him detangle it from the treetops should it ever get stuck there.

An evolved Libra will ease his mind and let him be. If he is a super laidback live for today type of Aqua then this is perfect for him. In my view, it really comes down to where the Aqua is in his life and where he wants to go. If he starts out from humble beginnings and wants to go to the next level then, he should go with the evolved Aries. If he is content to live a simple lowkey life then he should go with the evolved Libra.

I am dating an Aqua and he is very successful in his career and I am also established in mine. He's one of the few men whom I have seriously dated that makes more money than I do. In addition, he has also traveled more places than I have and I am pretty well-traveled!

My 2 other Aqua exes probably would have been better off dating an evolved Libra. My energy was overwhelming to them. One of them stated that he felt that I was so much more evolved than he was that he felt like he couldn't measure up to being with someone like me. My energy compelled him to go to new heights but, he needed the more tranquil Libra energy.

Basically, different strokes for different folks!

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@DoubleAquaMan
13 YearsAquarius

I agree different strokes for different folks. But from my personal experience Libras are a much better fit for Aquarians than Arians, I have dated two Aries women and maybe it was just them but they were just looking for a man to take care of them, they are social, fun and everything but that is about it, on a deeper intellectual level we Aquarians love to share with our mates Arians just don't meet that need.
I would pick a Libra lady over an Aries in a second, my mom is a Libra and my dad is an Aquarius and they have been very happily married since 1973 I am trying to date a very intriguing Libra woman at the moment she is so stubborn and I love it we talk for hours its electrifying, she is indecisive and I love how she weighs her options and outcomes, she is interested in things that go on with others she is a true humanitarian, she helps others to help themselves.
This is my true comparison from experience, I have a goal I want to reach and this how the two differ for me:
Aries: oh really that sounds cool and when you achieve it you can do so on for me, and while I am trying to reach this goal she wants to whine about how I'm not putting her first and goes MIA when things go south but when things pick up she acts like shes been by my side the whole time.
Libra: Listens to what I want to achieve, helps me come up with different ways to achieve my goal and when things don't turn out as planned they are there to help pick up the pieces and come up with new ideas for an equal partnership to reach better heights. Aries is more of a temporary fit while a Libra women is a lifetime partner.