Aquarius Temper

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Aquagirl2015
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Ugh, I hate it. There's parts of it I like but a part of me eels that because I try to repress it, when it comes out it's even worse. It's really just emotionally with guys which is the worse thing. Like I try not to be angry or hurt but then I can't stop myself and it's a volcano. It's destroyed so many relationships, I can't even count lol

How do you try to control it?
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Yes, it's amazing to watch but the aftermath is horrific! And yes I would agree 100% , it really takes a lot to get us there (granted, I get there much more quickly than the average aqua because of my fire placement but still).

But I would like to be able to tone it down a bit

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I love when Aquas get pist off; it's the best.



Aquas are usually chill and easy going so when one gets to that point, it's usually because someone took them there. And the explosion is satisfying to watch.
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well. first i don't try to control it or supress it. unless i absolutley HAVE too. I'm fortunate that i have some decent folks that i can vent too, i have been doing this a lot lately and thank god for them as i don't know what would have happened without them

i try to find stuff to relax myself with.. reading, smoking, excersice. long ass drives with the music blasting.

but oddly enough, the thing that seems to calm me the most is art or those adult coloring books. sounds simplistic but it does work. it takes my mind off the stuff that angers me. so it helps to get it out of my system.

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I don't have anyone to vent with that I can really by myself with and of course the few people I do weren't available tonight to help calm me and maybe prevent my blowup. Ugh! Always seems to happen that way. What I said, I don't regret just how I said it.

It's like, I'm so out of touch with my emotions that I don't know how to control them. I feel that they control me. And I'm quick to react, so I think part of the problem is that I don't give myself enough time to really think about how I'm feeling. I just react. And that's when I really need to talk to someone.

When I'm upset, nothing can distract me. I lose my appetite, I'm not sleepy, nothing. It's very hard to focus until I'm over that anger.

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well. first i don't try to control it or supress it. unless i absolutley HAVE too. I'm fortunate that i have some decent folks that i can vent too, i have been doing this a lot lately and thank god for them as i don't know what would have happened without them

i try to find stuff to relax myself with.. reading, smoking, excersice. long ass drives with the music blasting.

but oddly enough, the thing that seems to calm me the most is art or those adult coloring books. sounds simplistic but it does work. it takes my mind off the stuff that angers me. so it helps to get it out of my system.


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And it's like, I have emotions. I'm just not good expressing them lol

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Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
I love when Aquas get pist off; it's the best.



Aquas are usually chill and easy going so when one gets to that point, it's usually because someone took them there. And the explosion is satisfying to watch.


LOL most people stare cause they didn't realzie Aquas had feelings... right? 😛
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1000% true for me. And then when I feel, because it's deep, when someone hurts, it's bad. My brain is telling me to be logically but my emotions aren't listening.

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Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
I love when Aquas get pist off; it's the best.



Aquas are usually chill and easy going so when one gets to that point, it's usually because someone took them there. And the explosion is satisfying to watch.


LOL most people stare cause they didn't realzie Aquas had feelings... right? 😛
Oh I know Aquas have feelings.



I'll often joke that they don't because that's the stigma that they've been given, but I have known my fair share of Aquas and they definitely do feel, and deeply.



They don't expose their emotions to just anyone though. That's probably why so many people think Aquas are emotionless.
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Posted by Aquagirl2015
I don't have anyone to vent with that I can really by myself with and of course the few people I do weren't available tonight to help calm me and maybe prevent my blowup. Ugh! Always seems to happen that way. What I said, I don't regret just how I said it.

It's like, I'm so out of touch with my emotions that I don't know how to control them. I feel that they control me. And I'm quick to react, so I think part of the problem is that I don't give myself enough time to really think about how I'm feeling. I just react. And that's when I really need to talk to someone.

When I'm upset, nothing can distract me. I lose my appetite, I'm not sleepy, nothing. It's very hard to focus until I'm over that anger.

Posted by justagirl
well. first i don't try to control it or supress it. unless i absolutley HAVE too. I'm fortunate that i have some decent folks that i can vent too, i have been doing this a lot lately and thank god for them as i don't know what would have happened without them

i try to find stuff to relax myself with.. reading, smoking, excersice. long ass drives with the music blasting.

but oddly enough, the thing that seems to calm me the most is art or those adult coloring books. sounds simplistic but it does work. it takes my mind off the stuff that angers me. so it helps to get it out of my system.


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I've been there, more times that i like to admit. it has gotten better with age and experience. i have 5 planets in sag in 1st house sooooo i'm quick trigger, brutally blunt, then i regret it.

I have such a unique mix with my chart/personality because i do try to put myself in other shoes.. but when I'm angry fuck that.
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Yes I do have a temper but as I age and have gone through more I've mellowed out some. Well, a lot actually compared to younger idgaf I'll go off got nothing to lose me.

I think maturity and having more to lose has helped with how I manage my temper and I now try to calm myself down before anything escalates.

The thing is, as quick as my temper would come it would just as quickly vanish and I'm over it. Kind of like a George Costanza like fit. Except I was far scarier. Lol
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Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
I love when Aquas get pist off; it's the best.



Aquas are usually chill and easy going so when one gets to that point, it's usually because someone took them there. And the explosion is satisfying to watch.
why would you want to do that??

😕

that sounds like picking and picking and picking at people.

it's very unhealthy. and very incompatible.

how would you like it people picked and picked on you. It's like you are searching for a fight all the time.

wanting people to blow up.

also the topic sounds like also not to pick and pick on a scorpio either. because they will BLOW up too.

and same if you do it to a Taurus, they are easy and laid back but if you pick and pick they will BLOW up and charge.

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I only had two episodes this year, one cost me 400 for kicking in my friends tail light because he smacked the back of my neck, it hurt and I was in shock I had all this anger in me I had to get it out, I didnt want to hurt him so I damaged his car and I payed, sucks when your emotions get the best of you....

I dont describe my anger as fire, im predominately water because my scorpio moon, I definitely feel that my body fills up with acid when im angry, sounds stupid but I think it comes from trying to suppress my anger a lot and trying not to show that im crying, I feel my head fill up with battery acid If I dont have a big cry, and I do mean a big cry, my tantrums are swift, feirce, explosive and straight to the point but when I cry it can last for ages and gets messy, mainly because it feels really good, but I feel extremely vulnerable when I do it and I dont trust many ppl to do it infront of and I distance myself from people who do see me like that.

My family is important to me because they know my true nature and anger issues, its something im dealing with, pretty much I avoid any situation that triggers my but I know I cant do that for long.

Ive seen awesome people react perfectly to situations and ive always known I am able to learn and unlearn things, that is my true nature and I guess im just lazy with organising my emotions
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I'm usually really mellow takes a lot to get me angry it just gently simmers away and if it's left I get over it, if a matter keeps getting pushed then I explode! That's when you should run I can say some really hurtful things but it's usually the truth, I've reduced grown men to tears because I've told them exactly all the things they have done wrong and what I think of them, my ex calls it the wrath of me lol he hasn't spoken to me since and I'm glad of that he hurt me real bad and deserved all the harsh words thrown his way. If it's something that's annoyed me I will ignore you for a bit then get back once I've gathered my thoughts and tell you what's wrong up to them to fix it if not I walk away don't like drama