Why don't Aquarius ever reply back?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by dazedandcofused76 on Wednesday, October 19, 2016 and has 7 replies.

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@dazedandcofused76
10 Years

I am a cancer with a sagittarius moon. So not really clingy, just really into respect. i thought my Aquarius was into me, even though he pops in and out of my life and I know we're just a fling. I believe he should reply back to me. But only when he initiates the conversation he seemes interested or even than replies back. I think I reached my point where I just might cut all ties. If I keep looking interested whenever he hits me up, I look weak and desperate. Out of respect he could at least text back...

He's always the first person to like my pics and look and my snaps but never does he hit me up or think to answer me back. Like go away.. I don't get irritated easily.. but it pushes my buttons. And I'm a cancer, of course I'm not gonna tell him how I feel. He hasn't earned my emotions..

Help me figure this dude out.

Signed,

I ain't got no life ~

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@dazedandcofused76
10 Years

Posted by Moonbutter
I have the same placements... What kind of texts do u send?

Little things like "come over, I wanna see you" I did once.

And than a few months passed and he initiated the convo with the same message and of course I answered. I didn't go. But I answered back.

Even if I'm just a friends with benefits, you shouldn't make your "F---Buddy" pissed ? Yknow 🙂

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@Moonbutter
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by dazedandcofused76

Posted by Moonbutter
I have the same placements... What kind of texts do u send?

Little things like "come over, I wanna see you" I did once.

And than a few months passed and he initiated the convo with the same message and of course I answered. I didn't go. But I answered back.

Even if I'm just a friends with benefits, you shouldn't make your "F---Buddy" pissed ? Yknow 🙂

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Ahh this is why I won't get into FWB or flings... It's that expectation and feeling disrespected my LEo Venus can't handle lol. Problem is you have expectation of respect and he feels he doesn't owe you anything.

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10 Years1,000+ Posts

He sounds disrespectful. Then again, he doesn't have to text u back. It sucks but it's the truth. I'm not into FWB , I tried it out & didn't like it. These people always texted/called me back though. It's the type of person in the situation regardless if it's FWB or an exclusive BF/GF relationship.. Some people just don't give a fuck

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Posted by dazedandcofused76
I am a cancer with a sagittarius moon. So not really clingy, just really into respect. i thought my Aquarius was into me, even though he pops in and out of my life and I know we're just a fling. I believe he should reply back to me. But only when he initiates the conversation he seemes interested or even than replies back. I think I reached my point where I just might cut all ties. If I keep looking interested whenever he hits me up, I look weak and desperate. Out of respect he could at least text back...

He's always the first person to like my pics and look and my snaps but never does he hit me up or think to answer me back. Like go away.. I don't get irritated easily.. but it pushes my buttons. And I'm a cancer, of course I'm not gonna tell him how I feel. He hasn't earned my emotions..

Help me figure this dude out.

Signed,

I ain't got no life ~

what are his placements? he sounds like a wanderer, someone who likes to keep the "gate open" kind of like a wild horse who roams and roams and comes back.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by stopbeingdelusional
If you need to feel respected, you should go find a bf.

The direct translation of FWB is "you are just a piece of ass/meat to me".

BTW, you do sound weak and desparate. You have very unrealistic expecations of him.

What's 'weak and desperate' is your advice that to be respected one must have a bf.

So silly.