@aquaglass
13 Years1,000+ Posts
Aquas need space to process forgiveness. It's the forgetting that's hard, its trying to decide if I still want to be friends. It's learning to rebuild trust, and trust is probably the most important thing to the Aqua sign.
Grudges are a waste of time and energy. I can certainly forgive, but don't forget. If the other person does their part to make mends as well then we can be cool. There are few things in life that I genuinely take offense to so if a person decides to hit those buttons I have the ability to forgive, but likely we will not be friends like we once were....probably get dropped to low-priority status.
I usually hold grudges, but it's difficult to get me to that point.
I'll forget it after a few months or once that person has redeemed themselves.
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Or do you hold grudges?