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Posted by analyticalaqua
Constantly find yourself baffled by actions of significant others? I feel like I'm always trying my hardest to be open-minded and understanding; I really am striving to comprehend WHY my SO acted or felt a certain way. I'm not being intrusive or accusatory! Any similar experiences? How do you alleviate this...if you have been able to?
Not so much and very rarely. I think it might have to do with your placements though!
Posted by analyticalaqua
Constantly find yourself baffled by actions of significant others? I feel like I'm always trying my hardest to be open-minded and understanding; I really am striving to comprehend WHY my SO acted or felt a certain way. I'm not being intrusive or accusatory! Any similar experiences? How do you alleviate this...if you have been able to?Baffled in what way? I feel like I'm always baffling others lol.
In what way has your SO acted that's confusing?
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You know, I think you're actually spot on...I think I'm just baffling others with my eccentricities; things that I say seem to come off incredibly strange and quirky, when it's just my normal thought process. Then, their astonishment is written all over their face, and I feel like I need to clarify myself! haha! I suppose I don't realize how off-putting I can be...or maybe it's just this scorpio I've been seeing who somehow manipulates me into thinking I'm tactless. He's too sensitive.
Alot of times with my SO, I feel like I haven't expressed just how much I care about them, and they need reassurance, and, all too frequently, I'm too late in expressing myself.
Posted by BalmyTigress
This isn't really SO specific, but I'm sometimes baffled when I've said something that was apparently insulting, and I can't for the life of me understand why. I suppose it isn't quite being baffled by their behavior, but their reaction to me.
+1 lol! Story of my life.
Posted by analyticalaqua
Constantly find yourself baffled by actions of significant others? I feel like I'm always trying my hardest to be open-minded and understanding; I really am striving to comprehend WHY my SO acted or felt a certain way. I'm not being intrusive or accusatory! Any similar experiences? How do you alleviate this...if you have been able to?Baffled in what way? I feel like I'm always baffling others lol.
In what way has your SO acted that's confusing?
You know, I think you're actually spot on...I think I'm just baffling others with my eccentricities; things that I say seem to come off incredibly strange and quirky, when it's just my normal thought process. Then, their astonishment is written all over their face, and I feel like I need to clarify myself! haha! I suppose I don't realize how off-putting I can be...or maybe it's just this scorpio I've been seeing who somehow manipulates me into thinking I'm tactless. He's too sensitive.
Alot of times with my SO, I feel like I haven't expressed just how much I care about them, and they need reassurance, and, all too frequently, I'm too late in expressing myself.
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How's that scorpio relationship been going over all?
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Constantly find yourself baffled by actions of significant others? I feel like I'm always trying my hardest to be open-minded and understanding; I really am striving to comprehend WHY my SO acted or felt a certain way. I'm not being intrusive or accusatory! Any similar experiences? How do you alleviate this...if you have been able to?