Why do I always clash with Aqua?

the males always wrongly assume things about me, or are aloof....
the females are to open,and provocative or damaged and attention seeking....
the one's I've encountered....
Anyone clash with them as well like 9/10 encounters..?

I've got an aqua homegirl and me and her clash alot... but at the same time it's like we enjoy fighting.. it's weird..
There is this aqua now she just annoys the shit out of me.. but she's full blooded native American and I just wanna bang her.. So I'm really trying to to fight with her... I think they are so open and I'm so closed.. it irks me.. and them maybe.. *shrugs*

What do you mean by open?

like an open book of sorts... about their past, their sex life, how they feel about everything... I feel all that info is earned.. and not taken lightly and given away.. I'm not saying aqua's give you their life story or deepest darkest sercects but.....

secrets*

well she's an aqua.. I'm gonna get her but... I just want to chillax and keep it light you know...

we are an open book its true and are easy for us to share information but we are absolutely fathomless and u may think the information aquas freely share with you is enough to form a persona of that aqua but its only the tip of the iceberg....we are def provocative I know I am....I love to stir the pot and I love being in the pot when its stirred.....we need to be who we are because the world needs us to go to war against hyper mediocrity and the norm...I think we are doing a good job so far

Posted by Lobo
well she's an aqua.. I'm gonna get her but... I just want to chillax and keep it light you know...

Here's your problem. You don't want anythings serious... If a Aqua is the same way... your a target too. If the Aqua is not your not gonna have a chance man.... at least not in the way that you think.

Also, If you want an Aquarius to stop assuming shit about you... how bout you not be a closed of pretentious seeming person. Don't you think that is how you would seem if you hide who you are until it is 'earned'. I can imagine that an Aquarius would be interested in the challenge of earning the kinda trust you speak of but when you make it an achievement test like that... you have to be careful because you can't just act any way you like... your obviously going to leave yourself open to assumptions. You should be used to having people make assumptions about you if that is how you are anyway right?

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius

Posted by Lobo
well she's an aqua.. I'm gonna get her but... I just want to chillax and keep it light you know...

Here's your problem. You don't want anythings serious... If a Aqua is the same way... your a target too. If the Aqua is not your not gonna have a chance man.... at least not in the way that you think.

Also, If you want an Aquarius to stop assuming shit about you... how bout you not be a closed of pretentious seeming person. Don't you think that is how you would seem if you hide who you are until it is 'earned'. I can imagine that an Aquarius would be interested in the challenge of earning the kinda trust you speak of but when you make it an achievement test like that... you have to be careful because you can't just act any way you like... your obviously going to leave yourself open to assumptions. You should be used to having people make assumptions about you if that is how you are anyway right?

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Yep I'm real used to it.. doesn't make it any less annoying... and this chic is gonna be a fwb that's it... She's nice enough but eh..... And I don't have to be open.. If anyone cares to know the real me then the earn it.. if not no harm done.. And I work xrta hard not to make snap assessments about someone that I can't read or isn't very forthcoming.. Who am I to try and make them fit into what I need so I'm comfortable.. pssshh.. I look at it like this either they will open up to you in there own time or they won't......

I haven't had too much experience with the Virgo temperament, but what little I do have...resembles the the requisite stick up the proverbial wah-hoo.

I would def hire that Virgo for, you know, housekeeping, schoolmarm or [taskmaster of] something, but that dang attention to details without regard to people's feelings ('how dare you spend that much on THAT brand of laundry detergent? is something wrong with you??' -- true story) gets on my nerves.

But, like I said, not too much experience all in all, everyone is different.




And, yes, the Aqua official statement is that we talk entirely too much about personal information and the inner workings of our minds, and we should be ashamed.

*winks at fellow Aquas who know that it's actually impossible really get the meaty, emotional, private stuff of our personalities by listening to the things we say.

*keeps spouting opinions to keep everything light and airy while we attempt to draw you out so we can read the spit out of you.

^ point taken.....

Posted by aquansidenout
Let me let you in on a little secret just because we talk to you doesn'tt mean you know sh*t about us. We scratch the surface with everybody. And no we're not easy we just tend to find emotionally open people and people who are a mystery inticing so we go there and sometimes they're sometimes they're not then later we either regret it or date temporarily. I personally don't mesh well with virgo men no matter what's in their chart. I find them to be stiff and boring and I have to fight tooth and nail to get a conversation out of them and I don't do well with "so ask me a question" type people. Either you can speak or you can't. We can bang someone and not think twice about them as well as argue but we bore easily soooo....good luck with the chick you wanna bang she's going to forget you come morning.

^^^^This.

*drops mike and walks away*

I doubt it.. and mission accomplished... FYI my goal isn't to be remembered.. (smiles) it's to get a mutual benefit which I did and now we can chillax n hangout or never speak or cross paths again.. *shrugs...

I do I just got side tracked with the status of my intent with this aqua.. but in general I like them and would like to learn more... You ladies seem fun @ a party....

Shit we are fun in whatever we do!!!! We like FUN. But we also like debate too. We think our answers are always the best and for the most part are. Never have meshed well with the Virgos either.

i don't know about aqua women just aqua men so i can't help here LOL.

I had a very very intense relationship with a Virgo Sun Scorpio moon guy. He was ten years older than me and I met him when I was 17. Very black and white, on and off, up and down. I was drawn to his sense of humor, we shared a lot of the same tastes and the sex was good. At first it felt like we were best friends and that's what really got me attached I guess. But man he was crazy. I mean LOCO MIND GAMES. I mean TWILIGHT ZONE. Gaslighting is the term for it I believe? He finally pushed me beyond my limits, was really verbally abusive, threw by belongings, and my cat out on the street because I forgot to turn on a light in the garage?? (I'm sure that was the real reason haha) and by that point I had to cut my losses, as much as I cared about him. And he would always do the "I don't care I don't care" shit to appear tough while he was falling apart inside. I just think he is really screwed up and I wish him the best in life. He's a hot mess. No offense. 😛

he sounds like a coplex guy that feel victim to his emotional control........ and if someone is open with me I don't feel a need to share... as I will on my terms and not because of insecurity.... people open up to me in general I'm just saying a little social decorum is preferred... and if someone is genuinely opening up I usually listen... idk I guess I don't like people opening up for shock value its obnoxious to me....

Yeah doing it for shock value is obnoxious for sure. I think this dude had deeper issues than just his sign.

Posted by Piscescorp
My sister is an Aqua and she is a pain in the a $ $ . lol

never met an aqua female yet that wasn't.... 🙂

Posted by Piscescorp
My sister is an Aqua and she is a pain in the a $ $ . lol

Maybe she doesn't like to use dollar signs instead of letters.