Aquas, what does romance mean to you? (Page 2)

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by truecap on Thursday, October 17, 2013 and has 13 replies.

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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
I do to others what I find romantic. LoL, I'm actually quite pathetic when you've actually got me.
-I'd take you for a walk in the park just the two of us and feed the ducks, geese, egrets, cranes, and w/e the hell else they'd have there.
-I'd surprise you with a cooked dinner or have picnic by the lake or shoreline. Just because I like that one on one quality time. Obviously it could maybe get be too much but I dunno a lot of times for me it never seems to be enough.
-I actually find it romantic when a women doesn't necessarily make it her goal to "change me or mold me" but accepts me just the way I am. And actually appreciates the way I am. IF you can do that and just be a women. THEN
-Chances are you'd inspire my creative side and I may just write you a song to play and sing to you.... yes I have done this before. Sadly at times I feel that when I did this and it didn't work out... Its Almost like the words and expressions that were poured out were wasted or even fake :/
for surely if I was moved to do this she must BE THE ONE
Ahh well I suppose I am a bit idealistic.
-I can be quite over the top when I am intentionally trying to be romantic because I will be a perfectionist about it.
-BUT if you have my heart in your hands there's almost nothing I wouldn't do for you: hold the door, open the door, pull your chair out, play with your hair, always let you win an argument (unless I'm in a playful mood), I'd be your personal chauffeur, your free on call handy man, your bodyguard, I'd give you the shirt on my back.

Oh, that's awesome stuff!!! It would be a lucky woman to get all that.

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Posted by Aqualad
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Not txting me everyday xD

So, giving space is romantic to you?

Yup pretty much I feel too pressured that way. I guess just keep it natural don't force things, be yourself that turns me on 🙂

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I understand it, it's human nature. But that's not romantic AT ALL! No offense intended.

Maybe you just haven't been in love yet with "the one". I bet when the right woman sweeps you off your feet, you will be doing things for her you've never imagined doing like spoiling her rotten, etc.

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CEU - My first thought when I met him was actually two simulataneous thoughts. One, heck yeah, he is one good looking man and Two, he has the kindest eyes I've ever seen.

Then I was drawn to his humor, his integrity, his kindness, his morals, he seemed loyal to his family and friends, his logic and rationality, his calmness, his stability and he seemed dependable (which he is). I'm also extremely sexually attracted to him for some reason, more so than any other I've ever dated - even more than the man I was married to.

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Posted by truecap
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Not txting me everyday xD

So, giving space is romantic to you?

Yup pretty much I feel too pressured that way. I guess just keep it natural don't force things, be yourself that turns me on 🙂

I understand it, it's human nature. But that's not romantic AT ALL! No offense intended.

Maybe you just haven't been in love yet with "the one". I bet when the right woman sweeps you off your feet, you will be doing things for her you've never imagined doing like spoiling her rotten, etc.

🙂

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I guess you right truecap 🙂

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Posted by LIQUIDCELL
Don't ask Aquarius' sun sign on romance. Ask people's venus sign.

I hear what you're saying. By the same token, I could ask the Mars as well. I was just basing the question on the fact that everywhere I read, it says Aquarius is not romantic.

Wanted to see what yall thought about that and if you could blow the theory out of the water.

I personally think what is romantic depends on the person. If someone needs, say all the bells and whistles and huge guestures, they're not going to be happy with someone who thinks of romance on the simplest, most basic terms. And visa versa.

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Posted by ceu
he has the kindest eyes I've ever seen." Were you already falling in love?

How long did it take for him to invest in building in a relationship with you? I imagine you may have been frustrated and somewhat confused by his timeline.

What have been some of the challenges in your relationship with the Aquarius man you are seeing?

We are taking it slow. Took him a year and half to tell me he loves me. But that's okay.

The most frustrating part was not knowing how he felt and what he was thinking.

I'll just PM you.