Are Aquarius men honest

I'm a Virgo I'm pretty shy I never had a boyfriend or anything so I don't get out much so I went on this chatting site to chat with people. I got to meet this Aquarius we started talking in July all the way up to January when he deleted his Gmail we would talk about everything he would tell me about his past and ask me stuff to. Then after a while he would show interest in me one day by giving me complements flirting then the next day just is to himself.

He started freaking out later I kept trying to get it out of him but he said nothing. Later he said he was better and it went back to normal so then I told him that I loved him he asked where did that come from I told him I had felt that way towards him for a while. Then he started talking about his ex cause she was calling him I asked him why they broke up he told me the whole thing and how he never stopped loving her then he also told me the other thing that were going on.
Then later he was talking about how he had to move cause his house was being foreclosed and flirting with me again so I deleted my Gmail for a while because I just wanted to get over him but I missed him too much and just added him back. Then we started talking more he told me everything was better now . Then he stopped message me for a while because he got busy with work and stuff. When he came back on we got closer I asked him for another pic of him cause we already exchanged pic before earlier. He sent me some and I sent him one and he said I looked amazing and how he would love to be with me then I asked why he keeps playing with my emotions.

He said sorry and that he truly does like me it just that he has had a lot going on and how he had to get himself right first before he has a woman in his life.I asked him if he only like me cause how I looked he said no that he like me because I show care and how I look is just a bonus to the heart I hold and that if we don't ever make a relationship that he just happy that he got to chat with me and that were friends. Then later he told me how he was moving back to Alabama from north Dakota because he has more friends there and feel as though he belongs and how he want to better himself. He had some doubt about going back down there cause he love his job in north Dakota but I talked him in to moving down there I asked him if there any way we could meet before he goes he said that he has to figure his plan out before he make other and that we will talk about it later.

To answer your question yes if they trust you. In your case he thinks of you as a friend cant say either way if he wants more. My gut reaction is no. Take notice that the online thing isnt the best way to meet guys. Get out into the sunlight put your best smile on and live your life.

I believe Aquas are very honest people, but the problem is so many women don't believe them when they tell them "I'm not good at relationships" or "I don't want a relationship" or "I have to get my life in order". So many women ignore this and then get upset because the aqua disappears. My advice is take it as an on-line friendship and leave it at that. My gut says he doesn't want a relationship. How can he? He's got to get his life in order.

My question is: How can you love someone you've never met?

My brain doesn't comprehend that and his probably doesn't either. Sorry. You can have an attachment, fantasy, what ever you want to call it, but, you can't truly love someone until you see them face to face for a while (months, years). You have to know whether there is physical chemistry. You have to accept their faults, bad habits and they have to accept yours. You have to know them on a day to day basis.

Not saying you will do this, but you said you are very inexperienced so I'm going to throw this out there just in case. People can be whatever they want to be on-line. Be very, very careful on-line!!!! Beware of what you tell people and don't ever get the idea to move somewhere for someone you've never met or only met a few times!!!!! You seem really sweet and I don't want to see you get hurt. (Hope I didn't insult you with that, but it would be a disservice to you, not to be told).

I agree with evilturtle, get out there and get involved locally - meet people through friends - just try getting to know someone the old fashioned way!!

Yeah, they are honest if they want to be but they also like playing with the "amount" of honesty given. They tell you some bits and pieces and leave some out.