Can Aquas be obsessive?

Well...... can they? I've dealt with an obsessive Sag. And now for the past month I've dealt with an Aqua that I have no interest in dating. She seems nice and all but uh.. she ain't my type. she's too much of a try hard and she's looks stupid with her dyed hair. So yeah. Deal is though she's my Gem friends cousin. And I think he's the one who's been telling her that I was interested because every time I show up at his house, she's there. Best friends, what will you do without them? He basically tells her that I will be there at his house and she shows up. I'm not comfortable with it, but I don't want to upset him considering him and his cousin are close and he's been trying to get her with someone for years and he doesn't want his plan to fail. But, still though- Can Aquas be obsessive and are they good with rejection?

1.do what a man would do...tell her you are not interested...it's her business if whe's ok with it or not...you do the right thing...otherwise it's just a stupid game and everybody is free to understand what they can/want

2.if you've already dealt with sb who showed some obsessive behaviour and now you sense that happening again...it might be sth wrong with you, don't you think? i think you should analise abit what kind of signals you send

No, she's not obsessed with you, she sounds interested in you, though. Just tell her straight up that you're not interested. It'll sting a bit but she'll get over it. Most of us value the truth/honesty more than how it might make us feel.

Plus she'll respect you for being honest. Absolutely no hard feelings.

Posted by AquaMermaid
You're deluded. Aqua is not obsessing over you. Your Gemini friend is filling ideas in her head and you aren't denying it. Why blame her for the misunderstanding? Just confront both of them that you're not interested and get it over with.

Makes sense there. Though I've recently told him that I'm not interested in her he still insists. He keeps saying do it as a favor for him. I will do everything to get this over with. But I'll expect the expected if anything bad should come forth.

Posted by ZelaleZ
Of course. i've dealt with a couple of stalkerish-obsessive Aquarians. One had a Scorpio moon. They were both mean as hell and incredibly dangerous. I had to contact the police about one of them to keep him away from me.
( he sent me an engagement ring and called my friends and he even went on to find and stalk my exces, a real nut job).
he thought I was cheating all the time. I could be with my mother and he thought I was hiding a man. Hahha a total psycho.
He was paranoid and completely insecure and was verbally abusive.
So yes, obsessive people come in all shapes and zodiac signs, even Aquarius can't get away with it.

Which moon did the other one have? I'm an aqua with a scorpio moon & I'd rather eat broken glass than stalk anyone. There's a thread about it on the moon sign forum, where we all agree that we are too proud to stalk. "We" = scorpio moons.

I can be very mean, though. You're right about that one lol.

Tell your friend as well that you're not interested.

Come on, you're a cap, sniper. You can do this with class and handle it with dignity. 🙂

Posted by truecap
Tell your friend as well that you're not interested.

Come on, you're a cap, sniper. You can do this with class and handle it with dignity. 🙂

You're right. Thanks Truecap. 🙂

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Which moon did the other one have? I'm an aqua with a scorpio moon & I'd rather eat broken glass than stalk anyone. There's a thread about it on the moon sign forum, where we all agree that we are too proud to stalk. "We" = scorpio moons.

Lol I understand. However, I'm not sure if that Aquarius with Scorpio moon person was completely sane. The other Aquarius, I don't remember his moon sign. They both wanted to get close to me, I didn't want to.

But I'm surrounded by 'sane' Aquarians and they do tend to have more ppl obsessing over them than the other way around. So it is rare with obsessive Aquarians but they do exist nevertheless...

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Very true. I'm surrounded by creepy people, as well. Been stalked once. Others just dont take "no" for an answer or simply refuse to let me go. It's ego boosting 😄 But can be scary when they seem real psycho lol.

@sniper

I would say "HEY SHIT HEAD. I DO NOT WANT TO DATE HER. SO STFU ABOUT IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

🙂 hehe

Very true. I'm surrounded by creepy people, as well. Been stalked once. Others just dont take "no" for an answer or simply refuse to let me go. It's ego boosting 😄 But can be scary when they seem real psycho lol.



Lol sounds like a capricorn trait

Posted by highlyclassified

Very true. I'm surrounded by creepy people, as well. Been stalked once. Others just dont take "no" for an answer or simply refuse to let me go. It's ego boosting 😄 But can be scary when they seem real psycho lol.



Lol sounds like a capricorn trait



Which part 🙂?

Well I dealt with it. My friend said he's sorry and and things are good between me and him. But the Aqua wasn't too happy that I turned her down. She said I was going to regret it, and afterwards he called me gay. I laughed but I think I'm going to watch my back because the last I saw her she looked like she had rabies frothing at the mouth with anger. That really did not end well.

Posted by Sn1p3r187
Well I dealt with it. My friend said he's sorry and and things are good between me and him. But the Aqua wasn't too happy that I turned her down. She said I was going to regret it, and afterwards he called me gay. I laughed but I think I'm going to watch my back because the last I saw her she looked like she had rabies frothing at the mouth with anger. That really did not end well.

You're lying. I don't believe this STORY one bit unless she's been getting weekend passes from a mental institution when you all meet. No self respecting, sane woman would ever say something like that. Frankly, I think you're the crazy one here. Haluccinating, much? Lay down the crack pipe, bro.

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Well I dealt with it. My friend said he's sorry and and things are good between me and him. But the Aqua wasn't too happy that I turned her down. She said I was going to regret it, and afterwards he called me gay. I laughed but I think I'm going to watch my back because the last I saw her she looked like she had rabies frothing at the mouth with anger. That really did not end well.

You're lying. I don't believe this STORY one bit unless she's been getting weekend passes from a mental institution when you all meet. No self respecting, sane woman would ever say something like that. Frankly, I think you're the crazy one here. Haluccinating, much? Lay down the crack pipe, bro.

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No I'm for real. I dealt with this yesterday night. And that's what she said. I'm serious. By frothing I meant she was very angry, I didn't literally mean she had rabies. Maybe she's self respecting or maybe she's not. But either way she was pissed. Do not accuse me of being a liar because that's not what I am.

Posted by Sn1p3r187
Well I dealt with it. My friend said he's sorry and and things are good between me and him. But the Aqua wasn't too happy that I turned her down. She said I was going to regret it, and afterwards he called me gay. I laughed but I think I'm going to watch my back because the last I saw her she looked like she had rabies frothing at the mouth with anger. That really did not end well.

That's a rather strange trait for an Aqua girl, usually if the feelings are not mutual, she will be the first one to leave and move on.

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Well I dealt with it. My friend said he's sorry and and things are good between me and him. But the Aqua wasn't too happy that I turned her down. She said I was going to regret it, and afterwards he called me gay. I laughed but I think I'm going to watch my back because the last I saw her she looked like she had rabies frothing at the mouth with anger. That really did not end well.

You're lying. I don't believe this STORY one bit unless she's been getting weekend passes from a mental institution when you all meet. No self respecting, sane woman would ever say something like that. Frankly, I think you're the crazy one here. Haluccinating, much? Lay down the crack pipe, bro.

No I'm for real. I dealt with this yesterday night. And that's what she said. I'm serious. By frothing I meant she was very angry, I didn't literally mean she had rabies. Maybe she's self respecting or maybe she's not. But either way she was pissed. Do not accuse me of being a liar because that's not what I am.

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Still not believing your "facts", though. "You'll regret it", come on now. LMAO. Maybe she's a delusional Pisces or your fellow Cap. Caps be cray-cray sometimes too. This is not how aquas handle rejection. I promise you.

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Well I dealt with it. My friend said he's sorry and and things are good between me and him. But the Aqua wasn't too happy that I turned her down. She said I was going to regret it, and afterwards he called me gay. I laughed but I think I'm going to watch my back because the last I saw her she looked like she had rabies frothing at the mouth with anger. That really did not end well.

You're lying. I don't believe this STORY one bit unless she's been getting weekend passes from a mental institution when you all meet. No self respecting, sane woman would ever say something like that. Frankly, I think you're the crazy one here. Haluccinating, much? Lay down the crack pipe, bro.

No I'm for real. I dealt with this yesterday night. And that's what she said. I'm serious. By frothing I meant she was very angry, I didn't literally mean she had rabies. Maybe she's self respecting or maybe she's not. But either way she was pissed. Do not accuse me of being a liar because that's not what I am.

Still not believing your "facts", though. "You'll regret it", come on now. LMAO. Maybe she's a delusional Pisces or your fellow Cap. Caps be cray-cray sometimes too. This is not how aquas handle rejection. I promise you.

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Well that's how she did. Not every Aqua is the same. Some can handle the rejection and some can't, she didn't handle like the way you'd think she would. Maybe Water moon or something, but either way she didn't handle all too well. But I'm not too worried about it. Hell I shouldn't be. What's the worst that could happen?

Honestly,

I could see an Aqua being pissed haha!
Yes, typically an Aqua will act like it's no big deal if they have not made it clear they are interested but I'm sure she felt like she was putting herself out there and he knew it.

The rejection would be pretty bitter. You know you ladies can't stand that shit.

The ego would be like "Does not compute" hahaha

Anyhow, sniper she probably was just trying "hard" as you say because she thought you were too shy to come on to her.

Ehh, w/e Capricorns ... at least the men, are probably more attracted to women they have to work hard to be with.

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Anyhow, sniper she probably was just trying "hard" as you say because she thought you were too shy to come on to her.

Ehh, w/e Capricorns ... at least the men, are probably more attracted to women they have to work hard to be with.

Hehe. Nah man. I understand, but I'm interested in someone I'll make the move. If I'm not, I don't. I don't know what she perceived as me liking her, I think I was too nice or something.

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Posted by Sn1p3r187
Well I dealt with it. My friend said he's sorry and and things are good between me and him. But the Aqua wasn't too happy that I turned her down. She said I was going to regret it, and afterwards he called me gay. I laughed but I think I'm going to watch my back because the last I saw her she looked like she had rabies frothing at the mouth with anger. That really did not end well.

I am water moon but I agree with watercup.I will never react that way to rejection. I would quietly move away without a word. When I am hurt I retreat in the Aqua shell. My dignity means the world to me.This is very unlike an Aquarius behaviour. I am guessing she has a fire moon. You said what you felt so move on. Aquarians don't take revenge like Scorps. You have nothing to worry about imo.

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Sorry bout that. Wasn't trying to offend or anything.

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Been stalked once. Others just dont take "no" for an answer or simply refuse to let me go. It's ego boosting 😄 But can be scary when they seem real psycho lol.

What were their signs (moon or mars, I guess?)?

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The stalker was a Taurus, never knew his year of birth. My libra ex (scorpio moon & leo mars) still holds a torch. My aries ex (aries moon & aries mars) still lives with me. It could be because of our son, though. IDK. He never says anything sexual to me, but will lay his head on my lap when we're watching tv. The scorpio (cancer moon & mars in scorpio) IDK because I changed my number soon after we broke up. But he did try to fight my date at the xmas party. We worked together. He transferred soon after the party scene & I've met him twice since then...nothing much. Just told me he had stopped drinking. He always acted like an arse when drunk. Trying to make me jealous & accused me of bullshit lol. Got really tired of him & broke it off.

My aqua ex (don't remember his moon/mars but had pisces venus) cheated, but I never had problems with him after we broke up. He just spoke to me for almost 4 hrs, trying to explain his cheating, apologising etc. He is the one I respect out of all my exes. His honesty. He told me himself that he cheated. The aries too, much respect... never lied to me. The other two...headaches lol.

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Posted by AquaMermaid
You're deluded. Aqua is not obsessing over you. Your Gemini friend is filling ideas in her head and you aren't denying it. Why blame her for the misunderstanding? Just confront both of them that you're not interested and get it over with.

Makes sense there. Though I've recently told him that I'm not interested in her he still insists. He keeps saying do it as a favor for him. I will do everything to get this over with. But I'll expect the expected if anything bad should come forth.

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AquaMermaid is right if she knows you are not interested she will not be acting this way. Oh and her cousin is going to get hell when she finds out that he is trying to pin her off to someone that is not interested in her.
Man up to your friend and stop all of this nonsense. Aqua women are not stalkers. If you dont like us we move on fairly quickly.

I guess the way people perceive the way we "entertain ideas" could come across as obsessive??_??_Ive been known to shake hands with women I meet for the first time and wonder how our babies would turn out.

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Well I dealt with it. My friend said he's sorry and and things are good between me and him. But the Aqua wasn't too happy that I turned her down. She said I was going to regret it, and afterwards he called me gay. I laughed but I think I'm going to watch my back because the last I saw her she looked like she had rabies frothing at the mouth with anger. That really did not end well.

You're lying. I don't believe this STORY one bit unless she's been getting weekend passes from a mental institution when you all meet. No self respecting, sane woman would ever say something like that. Frankly, I think you're the crazy one here. Haluccinating, much? Lay down the crack pipe, bro.

No I'm for real. I dealt with this yesterday night. And that's what she said. I'm serious. By frothing I meant she was very angry, I didn't literally mean she had rabies. Maybe she's self respecting or maybe she's not. But either way she was pissed. Do not accuse me of being a liar because that's not what I am.

Still not believing your "facts", though. "You'll regret it", come on now. LMAO. Maybe she's a delusional Pisces or your fellow Cap. Caps be cray-cray sometimes too. This is not how aquas handle rejection. I promise you.

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I agree with WC! I've never seen an aqua woman deal with rejection badly but I can see this if she has water placements because those guys fear rejection, and that's the worst thing for them.