Can I get some help from my fellow aquarians..

Hi everyone,

I posted in the Leo forum a few weeks ago just about a leo man who I have known for a bout 18 months now, long story short, we met online and went on a few dates, which were great and then he pulled back and kind of disappeared but a couple months later we reconnected but it was more of a fwb situation which I was happy about but as time went on it became more of a friendship than a relationship, he would say that I am the girl he spends more time with than any other girl and I have the best personality and loves being around me.

He was married about 6 years ago for 2 years and his divorce was finalised just before we started talking. They have both moved on but are amicable with each other, but he has always had this negative view of marriage and relationships. but sometimes I think he battles with himself, i know he loves being with me but if we get too close he backs off totally, which i why I have guarded myself because its almost like the better things are between us the more he will disappear?? isnt that crazy?

Anyway we had a couple of months that things were great, we were talking and hanging out all the time, I get along with his friends really well so we were having dinners and just being great friends and then out of the blue leo man ripped into me saying I msg him too much and to leave him alone etc etc and then he blocked me on FB! It has been almost 6 weeks and not a peep from him, I sent him 1 msg because his best friend did a tattoo for me (which he was really excited about me getting and organised it with his friend and his friend didn't charge me because 'im a great friend etc etc'-his words) so I sent him a photo of the tattoo and I never heard back from him. His friends ring me every now and then just to say hi and see what im up to I think its to get info from me but I could be wrong.

I guess what I am asking is some advice on how to deal with my feelings, I dont know how to feel, sometimes I am so angry, sometimes I am so upset, other times I couldn't give a butter. I just hate that nothing has been resolved, one day we were cooking together, hanging out all week, the next day he has cut me off because I msg too much (I was just being consistent, he was msging me everyday and then all of a sudden it was a problem that I was a msging him) After 6 weeks I would hope i would feel better but it still really niggles me.

I have to be honest with you. He may have found some one else. Do not listen to these people that is going to come in here, and say that he needs his space, and he will be back...No! I bet he met someone new, mean while talking to you, and he is distancing himself, to feel out this new person.Leo men are relationship jumpers..They jump from one relationship to the next, without a breather...So once this new chick starts getting on his nerves, he will try to work his way back to you...

Haha thank you for your advice, I think I'm more frustrated because we have always said we are friends but this feel like a break up! We were friends when it suited him I guess. When I got my tattoo done I spoke to his friend a little bit just saying he had blocked me off fb and his friend said leo man is a massive commitment phobe and as soon as he sees something heading in the direction of a relationship he freaks out and backs away. And I believe him because the last 2 girls he was seeing, 1 was married with kids and the other lived overseas so he was safe with them because things could never get too serious.

Im just sad because I do miss him, we always had a great time together, we opened up to each 😢 and I just hate that he just ignores me like that.