ToeThumbs
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Posted by LethalFantasia
But my advice is that you can't put your life on hold for this person. I mean, disappears for 9 months and you welcome him back with open arms? Do you know how many possible relationship opportunities you may have missed out on because you're so attached to this person who literally offers nothing to you.
Time to wake up imo x



Posted by ToeThumbs
Someone, anyone, please help me figure out my Aquarius friend.
I think he may have developed some feelings for me, however, he’s giving off these wishy washy vibes. When I go to ask him how he feels, he goes completely silent or is very vague with his answers. He’ll say things like, “I care for (or about) you” and “You’re always on my mind.” He’s constantly complimenting me and asks to see me all of the time. When we do spend time together, we don’t have sex. We hang out, talk, snuggle and kiss. However, he’s disappeared on me a few times. And that’s where it gets confusing for me. I’m not used to a guy being into me one minute and just vanishing the next. The longest he’s been MIA was 9 months. A couple of reasons he gave me were he was dealing with depression and needed time alone and he gets so caught up in his personal life that he often forgets to reach out to people. I give him his space when he up and disappears, but I can’t help but feel that he’s just using me. I do really like him, which is the reason why I keep allowing him to come back after he has disappeared. I guess I just need some advice from other Aquarius men on what this situation might be. Does he actually care? Is it worth continuing?

Posted by STILLPosted by AerialView
Let me guess, another confusing Aqua with Cap Venus?
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Posted by AerialViewPosted by STILLPosted by AerialView
Let me guess, another confusing Aqua with Cap Venus?![]()
Does that mean I was right hahaclick to expand
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I think he may have developed some feelings for me, however, he’s giving off these wishy washy vibes. When I go to ask him how he feels, he goes completely silent or is very vague with his answers. He’ll say things like, “I care for (or about) you” and “You’re always on my mind.” He’s constantly complimenting me and asks to see me all of the time. When we do spend time together, we don’t have sex. We hang out, talk, snuggle and kiss. However, he’s disappeared on me a few times. And that’s where it gets confusing for me. I’m not used to a guy being into me one minute and just vanishing the next. The longest he’s been MIA was 9 months. A couple of reasons he gave me were he was dealing with depression and needed time alone and he gets so caught up in his personal life that he often forgets to reach out to people. I give him his space when he up and disappears, but I can’t help but feel that he’s just using me. I do really like him, which is the reason why I keep allowing him to come back after he has disappeared. I guess I just need some advice from other Aquarius men on what this situation might be. Does he actually care? Is it worth continuing?