Crazy AQUA guy?

We have dated briefly before we broke up because I had to move out of state. But for the short time we have dated, he kept on hugging me, holding my hands and tried to kiss me even though I did not feel comfortable with it. I felt it was too rushed and he called me "cold" and "pushing him away" because if I really liked him, I would have kissed him.

When I moved out of state, he was the one that always initiated conversation over Facebook and phone messages, stating he cannot stop thinking about me and that he is thinking of the kids and the future. I told him I haven't even thought about kids yet (and it was creepy. We only dated for like a few weeks and he talked about kids?!) and I have no desire to have sex with him and that if we ever had kids we had to do it by IVF. I also told him I am asexual (Which I think is not the case. I just think I am not sexually attracted to him, and he is shorter than me by a lot). I also was the first to end the conversation to which he replied that I never answer him.

When I came back, he was the one that wanted to see me. We were okay and talking about work when suddenly, out of the blue, he asked me what I liked about him. I told him that he is cute, honest, intelligent and had a direction in where he is headed in life when others don't. He then proceeded to call me desperate, saying he would date me back in high school because he was desperate back then. He also told me that we have many other people in our lives and that there is not only me. He also claimed I forced him into a relationship when he was the one that was talking about kids, marriage, forcing me for skinship, etc! The final thing he said was that he does not have any more time to see me during my two weeks stay here at my hometown and stated it was good to see me anyway.

What's HIS problem?

First of all if you are not attracted to him then tell him straight to his face that you don't fancy him at all so he don't have to waste his time or yours. Stop playing games.

You think he can sense that I am not attracted to him?

He doesn't have to be a total impolite and disrespectful asshole to me though! He was mean out of the blue.

His ego was hurt he felt you rejecting him so he became bitter towards you.

I can tell you its not a good match for long term. He will get attracted to you more when you further pushes him away. He will eventually get you in his bed. The only time they will leave you is when you become clingy. I wont be saying this to you but if you want to keep him away then try to get into a conversation and force your opinion on him, they are fixed signs and they hate being pushed. Or just be bad in holding a conversation. Their sex organ is brain so try to put that off.

Lmao, you're doing the same shit my cancer ex did, giving a run around and being subliminal..just be open and straightforward with him, we like bluntness and being told the truth.

It's going to hurt him but in the end both of y'all can peace out of each others life in the most positive way possible.