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MY Pisces coworker dated an aqua guy when I was in college. Every week they broke up and got back together. Every other night, The Pisces would be in the back office on the phone crying her heart out complaining about him mistreating her. It was pitiful to watch. I think he really was an ass though. Everytime he came by the job to pick her up, he always had this sinister look on his face
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I love Aquarius as far as having a conversation goes but that's pretty much as far as I would like to take any type of relationship with an Aquarius. For me to sign tends to be too ambivalent whenever it comes to any type of transition from acquaintance into friendship or friendship into relationship. I don't like the awkward middle time whenever you don't know what's going on and it's not very easy to get an Aquarian to tell you how they're feeling so I'd rather just not deal with it. There are several signs that I feel I'm equally, if not more, compatible with that also offer a less resistance that I would typically rather invest my time and effort on as far as building a relationship goes.
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Posted by Aquarelle

Well, what can I say? Six years ago a Pisces came into my life and it has changed me forever. There was a deep, deep connection from day one which probably scared both of us. It was a connection on all levels, which I had never experienced before. He ran though, I came on too strong and he started ignoring me. He never wanted anything serious, so I cut ties. It really broke my heart to let him go and I'm still not over it.


This intrigues me...

I also like to think the two of you will cross paths again. You’ll both be more experienced and tuned in, and it will be a great union☯️ (I don’t just mean on a romantic level)

You’ll think to let me know when and if this happens....won’t you—? 😉
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Posted by Aquarelle

Well, what can I say? Six years ago a Pisces came into my life and it has changed me forever. There was a deep, deep connection from day one which probably scared both of us. It was a connection on all levels, which I had never experienced before. He ran though, I came on too strong and he started ignoring me. He never wanted anything serious, so I cut ties. It really broke my heart to let him go and I'm still not over it.


I'm sorry to hear that aquarelle, you seem like one of the good ones. Did you try dating after that?
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Well, what can I say? Six years ago a Pisces came into my life and it has changed me forever. There was a deep, deep connection from day one which probably scared both of us. It was a connection on all levels, which I had never experienced before. He ran though, I came on too strong and he started ignoring me. He never wanted anything serious, so I cut ties. It really broke my heart to let him go and I'm still not over it.

This intrigues me...

I also like to think the two of you will cross paths again. You’ll both be more experienced and tuned in, and it will be a great union☯️ (I don’t just mean on a romantic level)

You’ll think to let me know when and if this happens....won’t you—? 😉

Wow, you seem to be so sure? I'm not so sure at this point.

The situation was so complicated that I lost hope of things ever being the way they were between us. The experience was so intense, it was like all my hurts and fears came to the surface for me to look at them and release them. I went to through a very dark time, letting the old "me"go.

Frankly, I thought it would be over after I cut ties, but he somehow still lingers in my energy. He appears in dreams, and other stuff happens. And I have a feeling we will come together once again when we both are much older. But for now, I have to move on and try to figure out if this wasn't just some hopeless, strange case of unrequited love. I can't think clearly when it comes to this.
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I wouldn’t so that I’m so sure. Everything is an experience. Did you guys ever consistently hangout or how far did it go? You speak as if you made the decision to part ways recently, yes?
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Posted by Aquarelle

Well, what can I say? Six years ago a Pisces came into my life and it has changed me forever. There was a deep, deep connection from day one which probably scared both of us. It was a connection on all levels, which I had never experienced before. He ran though, I came on too strong and he started ignoring me. He never wanted anything serious, so I cut ties. It really broke my heart to let him go and I'm still not over it.


You're basically mutable with that chart... lol....



Did he ever come back?? I did the same with pisces and he ran off just to come back and chase me for 5yrs...

But when he left, it felt so bad, I would never allow him to make feel like that ever again....

Sigh lol

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Posted by MothToFlame

I attract Aquarius men often, and they seem to adore me pretty quickly but I can’t handle how possessive they get right away. Pisceans don’t do well with that, you need to give us time. However, I won’t lie, there is some sort of connection there.


I wanna take all scorpio moons and lock em away for my purposes ONLY........

lmao

Sike nah 😁😈🤣🤭
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Posted by Aquarelle
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Well, what can I say? Six years ago a Pisces came into my life and it has changed me forever. There was a deep, deep connection from day one which probably scared both of us. It was a connection on all levels, which I had never experienced before. He ran though, I came on too strong and he started ignoring me. He never wanted anything serious, so I cut ties. It really broke my heart to let him go and I'm still not over it.

I'm sorry to hear that aquarelle, you seem like one of the good ones. Did you try dating after that?

No, I sort of gave up on the idea of love for now.
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Ive been reading about pisces running off on this site, but in real life i haven't met any scared of commitment or behaving like that. Not to cuss on your partner but maybe that was a low vibrational pisces? Sometimes when we develop feelings for someone we decide(not fail) to not see their bad traits, i know that very well. Were you only dating or more like a situationship? What were you asking of him that made him run away? You don't have to answer if it's too personal mind you.

Anyhow, i hope eventually you can close that chapter and be able to move forward. From the comments you've made on this site that i've stumbled upon i can tell you are a sound person. You deserve better aquarelle.
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I find this pairing either works flawlessly or not at all! Most RL examples I can think of involve(d) Aqua F and Pisces M couples, and what I found as interesting as much as endearing is that their respective relationships/marriages were wrapped in this cozy blanked of mutual respect, understanding & deliberately sustained affection for each other even decades into their marriages.

Personally, I seem to have attracted Aquas especially, on both romantic as well as friendships plane, I must say, for the most part, I foster genuine appreciation for them.... unless their turn dogmatic. In which case... adios!!! But the same goes for any sign. 🤷🏻‍♀️
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What are some thoughts on there being a delightfully powerful connection between Aquarians and Pisceans?.? Friendships and romance...I’d appreciate some personal experiences 🙂

My expirences with Pisces people :

1. I was friend with one Pisces girl for 18 years. We knew each other since we were kids. I always wanted to be her friend, and eventually we became one. During our friendship I got from her everything that other women wouldn't want to get from her female best friend - she was jealous, verbally abusive, I could never depend on her.

She took my friendship for granted, because I never give up on people I care about and love, to the end I'm always trying to save relationships. She was stealing openly men from me, constantly, whenever she noticed if she has any chance. When we became andult, she started to have problems with alcohol, drugs and sex. She was drinking heavily, fucking everything what was moving and was really unpleasant to deal with. No other friend of mine ever liked her, but I always was on her side, to a point where I understood how badly she infected my life.

When I was trying to help her, she was using me for entertaint, and at the end of a day she was even screaming at me, calling me names and dragging me down because she was pissed I'm not dancing as she plays.

I stopped talking to her as we used to. She move out to other city with her fucked up Sagittarius mefedron user boyfriend and she was calling me in the middle of the night to cry how bad he's treating her. I couldn't stand that so I stopped picking up phone.

We met last summer but I think it was final closure.

2. On the other hand I was working with other Pisces woman for 2 years, and it was the best co worker I ever had. Open minded, flexibile. I could always find compromise with her. I still call her sometimes to ask how she is.

3. The longest Pisces man I knew was my brother in law. He is totally fucked up. He was 12 years with my sister. He was manipulating her, make her feel guilty about anything. Jealous about her career, so he was trying to make her feel insecure about if she's good enough, although she was more successful than him.

After 12 years of marriage, she find out he was cheating on her and after he got everything - great wife, kids safe home - he left just like that and his last words was - I don't love you, I never was loving you.

4. My last expirence is with guy I was dating long time ago. We were dating for a year. We were spending great time together. Going for night walks, drinking, talking to a strangers on the streets, cooking and watching movies, go for concerts.

The biggest issue he had was money complex. He had really rich friends and back then he was doing everything to impress them. He was dealing with low self esteem because of that. Exept that Everything was great.

One time we went for a drive, we had amazing sex in car, then went to eat something. After that he drove me home, and while we were talking in car, he just poured out everything he was dealing with crying.

I tried to make him feel better, I told him his young and will achieve everything he wants, because he can and gave him a lot of hugs and kisses. When he calm down, we said goodnight and I went to home. After that he never spoke to me again, never messaged me back or call back. Month later he was dating someone else.

He is checking me out though on instagram till today.

I don't think it's Pisces or Aquarius fault though. People are different because they are going thru different things in life. I learnt my experiences are far from normal.
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It’s safe to say that when a person, no matter what sign, isn’t emotionally mature or healed from whatever life experiences; can cause so much emotional chaos within their relationships. With a Pisces it is so intense either in a positive or negative way because we are passionate people. Unfortunately, they may not even see this until much later that they have done damage due to their lack of self awareness. Everything is an experience. You grow through what you go through. Timing is key, and we don’t always get to pick when people cross our paths. I personally love the thought of having “unfinished business” with someone...

I always dread hearing how a Pisces becomes manipulative. It is such a misuse of all the amazing qualities that should be loved about us.