Deal Breakers?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Mamma_Roz on Wednesday, November 29, 2006 and has 30 replies.

What Are Common Deal Breakers in Relationships

Deal breakers are specific qualities or behaviors that individuals find unacceptable in a partner. Common examples include dishonesty, lack of trust, incompatible values, or poor communication. Recognizing personal deal breakers helps in forming healthier relationships and avoiding incompatible matches.

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@Freebird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

a man who cannot keep his word - doesn't brush his teeth - smokes (just had one of those the other night) - is an alcoholic - doesn't know what fun is....shall I go on?

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@Mamma_Roz
20 YearsAquarius

Please continue. I am so bored today.

Bad Hygiene is a big one for me
Bad Manners
Smoking is a big one for me too (just quit so I will not date a smoker)
Bad attitude / Rudeness (towards me or others)

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@Freebird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

I've heard it said that when out on a date with a man - observe how he treats the wait staff or any other people in the service industry because....this is how he will treat you. 😉

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@Mamma_Roz
20 YearsAquarius

"Message posted by: Freebird on 11/29/2006 3:39:14 PM
I've heard it said that when out on a date with a man - observe how he treats the wait staff or any other people in the service industry because....this is how he will treat you"

So true!!! I always pay attention to my date's behavior to others expecially wait staff.

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@whoaitznara
20 YearsScorpio

hmm big no no's....let's see

disrespectful towards my friends or anyone in particular for no reason
liar
too judgemental
bad hygene
shallow and only cares about looks.
takes a longer time getting ready than me
wears dirty clothes
doesn't brush his hair
oily and acne prone face
dirty crooked teeth
too persistent
overly religious
too political
obsessed with work
always trying to be perfect
stubborn
jealous
controlling
sexist
racist
too full of himself

and so on and so on....

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@whoaitznara
20 YearsScorpio

lol okay i see where your going with that, but i'm not shallow to the point where i wouldn't give him a chance if i really like him, however good clean hygene is important...

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@Mamma_Roz
20 YearsAquarius

"Message posted by: Yama on 12/1/2006 2:48:08 PM
If they start gaining weight"

I understand that one. My xhusband gained a bit of weight and became unattractive to me. It wasn't a total deal breaker, but it didn't help matters.