Dealing with Venus in Pisces

Not until I became older and more mature (and increasingly less selfish) did I notice that matters of the heart make me feel like I'm being pulled in 100 different directions. When I was younger (under 18) I could date someone for months and never even care outside of friendship, I was considered a player even though I just enjoyed company not so much love connections. Now that I am older I cannot do those things anymore. I feel like such a sluggish Pisces. I'm sensitive, can't just dump a guy and never look back. I feel like I've lost my carefree, wanderlust personality when it comes to love.

Recently, I experienced the worst relationship I've ever had with an Aries. He's mistreated me greatly but I still find it so hard to cut him off wholly. After looking at my natal chart I wondered if having Venus in Pisces had anything to do with it. Hm.

Anyone out there feel like this with this placement? Or something similar?

@Busyeyes88- She has this VIP and I think that's it see if she can help...

How do you handle relationship and love seriously? Or go with the flow type of love which could leave you hanging instead?

Hi 🙂 Sounds like my Venus in Pisces. I do best with men who are really safe or let me fly free. All in between is trouble, but I still go for it 🙂 I think it's because we see the good in every person. Doesn't matter how deep down it is and how long it takes to dig it up.
It's very hard for me too to cut people off. I tend to give them too many chances but when my limit is used (and that might take a while) I do send them off.