Do Aquarius men forget their first love? Do they ever try to come back?

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I know this is long, but the main point besides the story is my ex boyfriend who is an Aquarius is in a band (as a hobby.) We broke up in February and have not talked since. I am still following the band page on facebook. Yesterday, I was tagged in a post that was something along the lines of "Check us out live on facebook tonight at 7 as we work on our new EP!" and when I went in to see the post, I had been untagged. I found this odd. They never went live on facebook.

Dated an Aquarius for almost three years. It was sometimes on and off. When things were good, they were great. When things were bad, they were pretty bad. What frustrated me towards the end, was that he did not move in with me, although I had lived by myself for over a year at the point we broke up. I later began to realize I held resentment because of this. He still wanted to live with his parents to save money, although this was the initial excuse when I had first moved out of my parents. I was his first love (as he claimed). We broke up in February after a big fight. I tried to peacefully talk to him after a few days after we had both calmed down, to no avail. I have not tried to contact him again since about the middle of March. After this time, his friends would sometimes try to contact me. We are no longer friends on any social media (I am with his friends still.) His friends would constantly post pictures of all of them hanging out and having fun. One of my best friends is his best friends girlfriend. She told me he quit his stable job as an assistant manager to a laborer for foundation work with his best friend. During the course of our relationship, and ex girlfriend of his used to try to contact him to hang out and "I would never find out." He told me whenever this would happen. They posted a picture of each other hanging out in about May which hurt, but her and me are good friends now. She reached out to me some time later and apologized and told me he is not whom she had thought. She is dating someone now. I know this is long, but the main point besides the story is in a band (as a hobby.) I am still following the band page on facebook. Yesterday, I was tagged in a post that was something along the lines of "Check us out live on facebook tonight at 7 as we work on our new EP!" and when I went in to see the post, I had been untagged. I found this odd. They never went live on facebook.
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It's easy for them to move on; to detach. They don't lose their feelings though. That takes a long time (Aqua = fixed).

If they were in the wrong and they think they have a chance, they will come back. That doesn't mean that they won't leave again though, unless it's obvious from words and actions that they've come back to stay.

But if they think they've been wronged, they'll move along.

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Posted by sultrykitty
It's easy for them to move on; to detach. They don't lose their feelings though. That takes a long time (Aqua = fixed).

If they were in the wrong and they think they have a chance, they will come back. That doesn't mean that they won't leave again though, unless it's obvious from words and actions that they've come back to stay.

But if they think they've been wronged, they'll move along.


thank you for the reply! I'm not sure what he will think. We've both been in the wrong many times in the past, although his wrong caused my wrong this time. I'm just confused now. I did so well moving on from him. Even "talked" to someone since. I'm just confused as to why I was tagged in this. I hate that I'm about 4 steps back now in hoping he will at least contact me again. I did him wrong by asking for my apartment key back. He refused so I tried to get it from him. He shoved me so I punched him
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It's easy for them to move on; to detach. They don't lose their feelings though. That takes a long time (Aqua = fixed).

If they were in the wrong and they think they have a chance, they will come back. That doesn't mean that they won't leave again though, unless it's obvious from words and actions that they've come back to stay.

But if they think they've been wronged, they'll move along.


thank you for the reply! I'm not sure what he will think. We've both been in the wrong many times in the past, although his wrong caused my wrong this time. I'm just confused now. I did so well moving on from him. Even "talked" to someone since. I'm just confused as to why I was tagged in this. I hate that I'm about 4 steps back now in hoping he will at least contact me again. I did him wrong by asking for my apartment key back. He refused so I tried to get it from him. He shoved me so I punched him

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Yeeahhh...

I wouldn't try to read too much into the tagging thing. He could just he playing with you or testing the water to see if it's safe (ie you aren't still mad).



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Posted by libracusp924
Posted by sultrykitty
It's easy for them to move on; to detach. They don't lose their feelings though. That takes a long time (Aqua = fixed).

If they were in the wrong and they think they have a chance, they will come back. That doesn't mean that they won't leave again though, unless it's obvious from words and actions that they've come back to stay.

But if they think they've been wronged, they'll move along.


thank you for the reply! I'm not sure what he will think. We've both been in the wrong many times in the past, although his wrong caused my wrong this time. I'm just confused now. I did so well moving on from him. Even "talked" to someone since. I'm just confused as to why I was tagged in this. I hate that I'm about 4 steps back now in hoping he will at least contact me again. I did him wrong by asking for my apartment key back. He refused so I tried to get it from him. He shoved me so I punched him


Yeeahhh...

I wouldn't try to read too much into the tagging thing. He could just he playing with you or testing the water to see if it's safe (ie you aren't still mad).



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yeah knowing him I kind of figured that but I'm not! I haven't been for a while. I just wonder if he actually cares whether or not I'm still mad. I hope he is not. But now I am mad at myself for caring whether or not he still is. I hope he is well. But now I am curious all over again. I just hope he will contact me in time again. I did try to contact him for about a month after the break up, to no avail. So I had always hope he would try to bury the hatchet with me at some point. Now i am just confused and hoping he will all over again

HE TEXTED ME YALL