do they usually want the other person to? and why?
Do Aquas Make the First Move or..
That's how I feel. I feel that there is a lack of interest on his part. And then you don't really know if they want to be with you or not or just giving in cuz you've been pursuing them! humm..

i never make the first move in term of relationship
"do they usually want the other person to?"
yes...
"why?"
pride, fear of rejection, I want to be different, and women are not on my top of priority
my top priorities:
1. interests/hobbies
2. education/career
3. woman
4. family
5. ...........
"do they usually want the other person to?"
yes...
"why?"
pride, fear of rejection, I want to be different, and women are not on my top of priority
my top priorities:
1. interests/hobbies
2. education/career
3. woman
4. family
5. ...........
no, aquas don't tend to make the first move/ decision.
they seem to feed off of the other person's feeling/mood at the time
(just what i have noticed)
they seem to feed off of the other person's feeling/mood at the time
(just what i have noticed)
Why do you have to have the other person pursue you, Aquas? Can't you do the pursuing sometimes so the other person knows you have somewhat interest in them? 🙂

we just do it differently, some will give you a mixed signal, some will act strangely in front of you, some will completely ignore you (immature aqua) if they're in love with you
and aquas are known to be a very left brained people
"The researchers believe their findings show that the mental process that women use to deal with emotions is different to and more effective than that used by men.
It is already known that men have fewer connections between the left and right hemispheres of their brain.
As emotion is dealt with by the right side of the brain, and speech by the left side, this could explain why men find it more difficult to talk about their emotions."
and aquas are known to be a very left brained people
"The researchers believe their findings show that the mental process that women use to deal with emotions is different to and more effective than that used by men.
It is already known that men have fewer connections between the left and right hemispheres of their brain.
As emotion is dealt with by the right side of the brain, and speech by the left side, this could explain why men find it more difficult to talk about their emotions."

I dont make the first move either, if the guy is truely interested he will do the chasing, then I will make a couple of moves if Im interested

ooooo i neva make da first move.. maybe thatz coz im a aqua gal... but itz juz not me.. i wud b friendz for yearz n yearz n neva bother abt makin' da first move... but wen da guyz makes da move.. i alwayz give him a chance coz thatz unfair not too...
i personally think all aquaz will give a chance 2 sum1 who askz them out.. coz we like people n we like friendz...so goin out on a date wid a friend is gr8...
i personally think all aquaz will give a chance 2 sum1 who askz them out.. coz we like people n we like friendz...so goin out on a date wid a friend is gr8...

'...we just do it differently, some will give you a mixed signal, some will act strangely in front of you, some will completely ignore you (immature aqua) if they're in love with you
and aquas are known to be a very left brained people...'
thatz soooo true CMAROW... i often give mixed signalz 2... or completely ignore da guy wen i like him....im WAAAAAY left brained 🙂
and aquas are known to be a very left brained people...'
thatz soooo true CMAROW... i often give mixed signalz 2... or completely ignore da guy wen i like him....im WAAAAAY left brained 🙂

I usually don't make moves, but I have had to with my scopio man.

i never make the first move, i wait till....oh shit, wrong thread, SORRY...
Arianlatay,
You're right.. I think regardless of his sign there definitely should be some effort on his part. No matter how aloof or nonemotional someone can be. It's just so hard. 😢
You're right.. I think regardless of his sign there definitely should be some effort on his part. No matter how aloof or nonemotional someone can be. It's just so hard. 😢
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