Forced Breakup/Separation by his parents

Posted by lilokia

So my Aqua man and I have to stop talking to each other because they said I damaged their only son... We have been together for over a year, and I found out that he has been hiding some details from his family about the event that happened recently.

Even if his family separated us, will he ever come back on his own time..?

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Posted by STILL

Posted by lilokia

So my Aqua man and I have to stop talking to each other because they said I damaged their only son... We have been together for over a year, and I found out that he has been hiding some details from his family about the event that happened recently.

Even if his family separated us, will he ever come back on his own time..?

This sounds troll-ish. How old are you two?

How does it sound kinda trollish? I'm 22, and I found out that he was 21. His family is a prestigious and has a military background. I'm just an average low-income family _._ I felt like maybe we rushed it too fast without considering what will go wrong...

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Posted by lilokia

he said I wasn't clear on the direction. So he thought I didn't want to see him,

*ugh 😷 immature 💩 btw is calling not a thing there?*

So he told his family that because of me, he turned back and got into an accident...

*irresponsible, he needs to learn to take responsibility for his actions, clearly so overprotected that he has never done so*

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Posted by lilokia

Posted by dilettante

question:

have yall met irl?

i read your previous posts & noticed he is in canada. you are in california?

We did for a little bit. Then we planned on the big dream...

... this all seems very vague & strange.

somethin fishy this way wafts

i dunno why, but for whatever reason, i do not believe you. & i think the dude is a catfish.

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Posted by Arielle83

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Posted by Arielle83

Ya he’s got all these issues he’s dealing with and you just care about a “dream”.

It’s not going to work

This dream was planned by him with me agreeing to it. And as a Capri, dreams and goals are very valuable to us.

Ya goals are valuable to you, and you will pressure him to meet those goals.

Will you ask him to abandon his family, to be with you and your dream?

Can you support him?

Who moves and what visa are you going for?

We already lost everything due to the plan failing... We are not just trying to go on with our lives. I'm picking myself back up, while his family is taking care of him. He knows I will never let him chose me or his family.

As far as I know, I will always support him and his decisions. It's what makes him happy the most because I'm not judging him or anything. I'm accepting his knowledges and creativity. Sometimes when we argue, it's to understand outside of the situation. Since we lost everything, I'm just staying here, and his family is taking him to Korea... I don't want his mother to be upset if I see him.

Do you think suffering for love makes the experience more authentic?

I think growing from our mistake and for love makes it more genuine because it helped us understand each other more and feel more comfortable together.

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