Confused by aqua man

Ok to make a long story short I’ve met this guy at work about 5 months ago. We talk for basically every day since. Sometimes he talks enough while up until recently he kinda just stopped talking as much. So I gave him space (I’m a cap btw) and we didn’t talk for four days straight. Also during those 4 days I haven’t seen him at work (we work in a big area). So when I went into work he saw me and asked me where I went..? I was so confused because he literally stopped talking to me and was giving me the cold shoulder so I kinda “took the hint” and went on about my life. But since then he’s been better at texting but I see the same pattern happening again. And when I confront him about it it’s like he’s oblivious to what he’s doing? I’m super confused and kinda tired. We had sex multiple times too if that adds to anything

4 straight days not talking and you took that as a hint— Lol 😄

Posted by AerialView

4 straight days not talking and you took that as a hint— Lol 😄

Yeah I mean I figured he wanted my to leave him alone i feel like that’s a clear sign but when he approached me he acted like I was the one creating the space

I mean am I missing something?

Posted by Deadlast

I mean am I missing something?

You don't miss any lol it's all good Houston. Call him and talk about it.

Yeah they do that. I dated one for a few years but honestly it's weird idk if they do it purposely or if thats just how they are. In my experience they will start flaking a lot too after the whole dating/getting to know you phase.

Yeah, when they stop talking to you they either no longer find you interesting or they're in their feels or something. It's a guessing game, you will know when they come back like yours did. Don't tell him you think he lost interest cause he didn't talk to you, I made that mistake.

What are you tired of? Everything looks good.

Don’t think he is trying to make you crazy. He is just an Aquarius