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So last week I got into an argument with my aqua guy. I must say i was very calm and collected and told him we're done and deleted his number and him on social media. He didn't say anything and couple days after he also deleted and unfollowed me. But I'm not blocked anywhere. Only I forgot I have him on facebook because we just recently added eachother and I had just posted a video of myself but he watched it and didnt delete me of facebook.

I usually don't do the whole deleting thing, but he doesn't want to take any responsibility whatsoever. He can never admit he is wrong in any kind of shape or form.

He'd rather lose me than admit he is wrong.

So i'm wondering why didnt he delete me of facebook? Will he ever take responsibility?

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So last week I got into an argument with my aqua guy. I must say i was very calm and collected and told him we're done and deleted his number and him on social media. He didn't say anything and couple days after he also deleted and unfollowed me. But I'm not blocked anywhere. Only I forgot I have him on facebook because we just recently added eachother and I had just posted a video of myself but he watched it and didnt delete me of facebook.

I usually don't do the whole deleting thing, but he doesn't want to take any responsibility whatsoever. He can never admit he is wrong in any kind of shape or form.

He'd rather lose me than admit he is wrong.

So i'm wondering why didnt he delete me of facebook? Will he ever take responsibility?

maybe he forgot he has you on the facebook as well, as you said you just recently added each other

how you know he watched your video on facebook? did he like it? I dont think there is any other way to find out if he watched it

so he forget it, like you

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So last week I got into an argument with my aqua guy. I must say i was very calm and collected and told him we're done and deleted his number and him on social media. He didn't say anything and couple days after he also deleted and unfollowed me. But I'm not blocked anywhere. Only I forgot I have him on facebook because we just recently added eachother and I had just posted a video of myself but he watched it and didnt delete me of facebook.

I usually don't do the whole deleting thing, but he doesn't want to take any responsibility whatsoever. He can never admit he is wrong in any kind of shape or form.

He'd rather lose me than admit he is wrong.

So i'm wondering why didnt he delete me of facebook? Will he ever take responsibility?

maybe he forgot he has you on the facebook as well, as you said you just recently added each other

how you know he watched your video on facebook? did he like it? I dont think there is any other way to find out if he watched it

so he forget it, like you

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On facebook when someone watches your story their name will appear. And you really have to click on the persons name to view the story. That's why

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So last week I got into an argument with my aqua guy. I must say i was very calm and collected and told him we're done and deleted his number and him on social media. He didn't say anything and couple days after he also deleted and unfollowed me. But I'm not blocked anywhere. Only I forgot I have him on facebook because we just recently added eachother and I had just posted a video of myself but he watched it and didnt delete me of facebook.

I usually don't do the whole deleting thing, but he doesn't want to take any responsibility whatsoever. He can never admit he is wrong in any kind of shape or form.

He'd rather lose me than admit he is wrong.

So i'm wondering why didnt he delete me of facebook? Will he ever take responsibility?

maybe he forgot he has you on the facebook as well, as you said you just recently added each other

how you know he watched your video on facebook? did he like it? I dont think there is any other way to find out if he watched it

so he forget it, like you

On facebook when someone watches your story their name will appear. And you really have to click on the persons name to view the story. That's why

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when you click on the first story (from anyone) it automatically follows to the other stories

but, it seems he is evidently interested in your video, which is understandable, if you just broke up

if you mean seriously the "deleting" thing, delete him from facebook as well

or you just wanted to teach him a lesson?

I didn’t get ‘responsibility’ issue.🤔

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So last week I got into an argument with my aqua guy. I must say i was very calm and collected and told him we're done and deleted his number and him on social media. He didn't say anything and couple days after he also deleted and unfollowed me. But I'm not blocked anywhere. Only I forgot I have him on facebook because we just recently added eachother and I had just posted a video of myself but he watched it and didnt delete me of facebook.

I usually don't do the whole deleting thing, but he doesn't want to take any responsibility whatsoever. He can never admit he is wrong in any kind of shape or form.

He'd rather lose me than admit he is wrong.

So i'm wondering why didnt he delete me of facebook? Will he ever take responsibility?

maybe he forgot he has you on the facebook as well, as you said you just recently added each other

how you know he watched your video on facebook? did he like it? I dont think there is any other way to find out if he watched it

so he forget it, like you

On facebook when someone watches your story their name will appear. And you really have to click on the persons name to view the story. That's why

when you click on the first story (from anyone) it automatically follows to the other stories

but, it seems he is evidently interested in your video, which is understandable, if you just broke up

if you mean seriously the "deleting" thing, delete him from facebook as well

or you just wanted to teach him a lesson?

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At that point I was really done. But It's like I've always been chill and laid back and let him do his thing and I always forgive him. So there was never a consequence. But this time he went too far and I feel like if I dont set boundaries how will he ever respect me?.. I kinda expected him to delete me as well, but it took him like 4 days to do that and in that meantime he was still watching my insta stories etc...

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I didn’t get ‘responsibility’ issue.🤔

When he is at fault and he knows it. He will 1. never admit he is at fault 2. Never take any responsibility whatsoever. I will

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I didn’t get ‘responsibility’ issue.🤔

When he is at fault and he knows it. He will 1. never admit he is at fault 2. Never take any responsibility whatsoever. I will

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So have you ENDED with him OR you willing to continue IF he will take responsibility? This way it doesn’t think like you’ve ENDED...

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So last week I got into an argument with my aqua guy. I must say i was very calm and collected and told him we're done and deleted his number and him on social media. He didn't say anything and couple days after he also deleted and unfollowed me. But I'm not blocked anywhere. Only I forgot I have him on facebook because we just recently added eachother and I had just posted a video of myself but he watched it and didnt delete me of facebook.

I usually don't do the whole deleting thing, but he doesn't want to take any responsibility whatsoever. He can never admit he is wrong in any kind of shape or form.

He'd rather lose me than admit he is wrong.

So i'm wondering why didnt he delete me of facebook? Will he ever take responsibility?

maybe he forgot he has you on the facebook as well, as you said you just recently added each other

how you know he watched your video on facebook? did he like it? I dont think there is any other way to find out if he watched it

so he forget it, like you

On facebook when someone watches your story their name will appear. And you really have to click on the persons name to view the story. That's why

when you click on the first story (from anyone) it automatically follows to the other stories

but, it seems he is evidently interested in your video, which is understandable, if you just broke up

if you mean seriously the "deleting" thing, delete him from facebook as well

or you just wanted to teach him a lesson?

At that point I was really done. But It's like I've always been chill and laid back and let him do his thing and I always forgive him. So there was never a consequence. But this time he went too far and I feel like if I dont set boundaries how will he ever respect me?.. I kinda expected him to delete me as well, but it took him like 4 days to do that and in that meantime he was still watching my insta stories etc...

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so it was a "teaching lesson", the deleting?

and allow him to be on your facebook, to make it sure if he wants to reach out, to apologize, he can?

there are so many posts lately about deleting and ghosting, etc., to gain the Aqua men attention

Aquas are lazy, the Aqua men are idiots with no emotional and social skills, so you better move on 🙂

if you want to go back to him, you can anytime, he is not going anywhere, but he is not going to be better at communication, what you want

just move in with him, thats the only way

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I didn’t get ‘responsibility’ issue.🤔

When he is at fault and he knows it. He will 1. never admit he is at fault 2. Never take any responsibility whatsoever. I will

So have you ENDED with him OR you willing to continue IF he will take responsibility? This way it doesn’t think like you’ve ENDED...

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Tbh. I'm kinda confused atm. I know it will be hard for him to take any responsibility for what he has done. But I have to set boundaries. If he does do it, i'm willing to sit down and have a serious conversation with him about my boundaries etc. I just feel like everything else is going great we have a great connection. And we are so open with eachother but whenever something occurs like a fight or argument he cant admit anything. He has too much pride.

But if he doesn't take any responsibility or at least even try. Then I will have to move on from him

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So last week I got into an argument with my aqua guy. I must say i was very calm and collected and told him we're done and deleted his number and him on social media. He didn't say anything and couple days after he also deleted and unfollowed me. But I'm not blocked anywhere. Only I forgot I have him on facebook because we just recently added eachother and I had just posted a video of myself but he watched it and didnt delete me of facebook.

I usually don't do the whole deleting thing, but he doesn't want to take any responsibility whatsoever. He can never admit he is wrong in any kind of shape or form.

He'd rather lose me than admit he is wrong.

So i'm wondering why didnt he delete me of facebook? Will he ever take responsibility?

maybe he forgot he has you on the facebook as well, as you said you just recently added each other

how you know he watched your video on facebook? did he like it? I dont think there is any other way to find out if he watched it

so he forget it, like you

On facebook when someone watches your story their name will appear. And you really have to click on the persons name to view the story. That's why

when you click on the first story (from anyone) it automatically follows to the other stories

but, it seems he is evidently interested in your video, which is understandable, if you just broke up

if you mean seriously the "deleting" thing, delete him from facebook as well

or you just wanted to teach him a lesson?

At that point I was really done. But It's like I've always been chill and laid back and let him do his thing and I always forgive him. So there was never a consequence. But this time he went too far and I feel like if I dont set boundaries how will he ever respect me?.. I kinda expected him to delete me as well, but it took him like 4 days to do that and in that meantime he was still watching my insta stories etc...

so it was a "teaching lesson", the deleting?

and allow him to be on your facebook, to make it sure if he wants to reach out, to apologize, he can?

there are so many posts lately about deleting and ghosting, etc., to gain the Aqua men attention

Aquas are lazy, the Aqua men are idiots with no emotional and social skills, so you better move on 🙂

if you want to go back to him, you can anytime, he is not going anywhere, but he is not going to be better at communication, what you want

just move in with him, thats the only way

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Okay, yes I will allow him on my facebook. If I go back to him he will have the upperhand and think he still got away with it. I want him to know that this time I'm very serious. And since i've known him the communication has gotten WAAAY better than first.

Meanwhile I will just keep doing me and if he decides to come back, i will sit down and have a serious conversation about my boundaries

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So last week I got into an argument with my aqua guy. I must say i was very calm and collected and told him we're done and deleted his number and him on social media. He didn't say anything and couple days after he also deleted and unfollowed me. But I'm not blocked anywhere. Only I forgot I have him on facebook because we just recently added eachother and I had just posted a video of myself but he watched it and didnt delete me of facebook.

I usually don't do the whole deleting thing, but he doesn't want to take any responsibility whatsoever. He can never admit he is wrong in any kind of shape or form.

He'd rather lose me than admit he is wrong.

So i'm wondering why didnt he delete me of facebook? Will he ever take responsibility?

Nah he's just leaving the window of opportunity for you to come back. My ex Leo did the same thing. He wanted to leave the possibility of communication open. He could always come back and apologize but they are fixed so who knows. I wouldn't worry too much, just let whatever happens happen

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

There's nothing calm about blocking someone instead of talking it out. It's the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and go "lalalalalalalalalala!"

I feel the same way. If I am blocked and deleted, followed by "we're done" it's over for me and no going back. I would be able to see that this was just a ploy to change my ways; I wouldn't, but would move on to someone new.

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So last week I got into an argument with my aqua guy. I must say i was very calm and collected and told him we're done and deleted his number and him on social media. He didn't say anything and couple days after he also deleted and unfollowed me. But I'm not blocked anywhere. Only I forgot I have him on facebook because we just recently added eachother and I had just posted a video of myself but he watched it and didnt delete me of facebook.

I usually don't do the whole deleting thing, but he doesn't want to take any responsibility whatsoever. He can never admit he is wrong in any kind of shape or form.

He'd rather lose me than admit he is wrong.

So i'm wondering why didnt he delete me of facebook? Will he ever take responsibility?

Nah he's just leaving the window of opportunity for you to come back. My ex Leo did the same thing. He wanted to leave the possibility of communication open. He could always come back and apologize but they are fixed so who knows. I wouldn't worry too much, just let whatever happens happen

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Yes, that's what I thought. But how can you expect me to come back when you are in the wrong. Yes, they are very fixed. Till that time I'm just doing me and exactly not worrying!

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

There's nothing calm about blocking someone instead of talking it out. It's the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and go "lalalalalalalalalala!"

I didn't block him. The conversation ended and at that moment I just decided it's best for me to end it by deleting him. After I calmed down I guess I could've gone about it another way. But he is always used to me just being calm and cool about everything. And this time he really went to far, and I really need to set boundaries. Maybe not the best way to make my point clear. But he is very stubborn and never wants to acknowledge he is wrong.

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There's nothing calm about blocking someone instead of talking it out. It's the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and go "lalalalalalalalalala!"

I didn't block him. The conversation ended and at that moment I just decided it's best for me to end it by deleting him. After I calmed down I guess I could've gone about it another way. But he is always used to me just being calm and cool about everything. And this time he really went to far, and I really need to set boundaries. Maybe not the best way to make my point clear. But he is very stubborn and never wants to acknowledge he is wrong.

What's he been doing that he won't admit?

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2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

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There's nothing calm about blocking someone instead of talking it out. It's the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and go "lalalalalalalalalala!"

I feel the same way. If I am blocked and deleted, followed by "we're done" it's over for me and no going back. I would be able to see that this was just a ploy to change my ways; I wouldn't, but would move on to someone new.

I would view it as a tantrum, and the way I reacted to that would depend on a lot of factors, including whether I felt I deserved it on some level. No matter what, I don't think it's helpful for improving a relationship. It's an ending move.

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See I have no patience for tantrums. That's why I don't have kids.

He will delete you lol be patient.

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There's nothing calm about blocking someone instead of talking it out. It's the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and go "lalalalalalalalalala!"

I didn't block him. The conversation ended and at that moment I just decided it's best for me to end it by deleting him. After I calmed down I guess I could've gone about it another way. But he is always used to me just being calm and cool about everything. And this time he really went to far, and I really need to set boundaries. Maybe not the best way to make my point clear. But he is very stubborn and never wants to acknowledge he is wrong.

What's he been doing that he won't admit?

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

Did you confront him about the lie directly and he wouldn't admit it, so then you deleted? I wouldn't be cool with lies either, but it seems like you weren't quite ready to be done talking about this, and now you've screwed yourself because Aquarius is ridiculously good at the silent treatment.

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Yes. I spoke to him. We have spoken about this multiple times and he agreed that he would be honest from now on. We have such a great bond/connection and when he lies it messes it all up. Thats why I reacted the way I did. At that moment I was done, but after calming down I thought things through. But because we already had this conversation about honesty it just frustates me.

So i deleted him and like 4 days later he deleted me too. While he is at fault and he know he is? But he’d rather lose me than admit he was wrong. He is an aqua sun cap venus aries mars if that helps

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There's nothing calm about blocking someone instead of talking it out. It's the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and go "lalalalalalalalalala!"

I didn't block him. The conversation ended and at that moment I just decided it's best for me to end it by deleting him. After I calmed down I guess I could've gone about it another way. But he is always used to me just being calm and cool about everything. And this time he really went to far, and I really need to set boundaries. Maybe not the best way to make my point clear. But he is very stubborn and never wants to acknowledge he is wrong.

What's he been doing that he won't admit?

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

Did you confront him about the lie directly and he wouldn't admit it, so then you deleted? I wouldn't be cool with lies either, but it seems like you weren't quite ready to be done talking about this, and now you've screwed yourself because Aquarius is ridiculously good at the silent treatment.

Yes. I spoke to him. We have spoken about this multiple times and he agreed that he would be honest from now on. We have such a great bond/connection and when he lies it messes it all up. Thats why I reacted the way I did. At that moment I was done, but after calming down I thought things through. But because we already had this conversation about honesty it just frustates me.

So i deleted him and like 4 days later he deleted me too. While he is at fault and he know he is? But he’d rather lose me than admit he was wrong. He is an aqua sun cap venus aries mars if that helps

Well, I advise you just sit tight for the moment, because I sense some Gemini impatience, wanting to figure out what to do before you're sure what you want to do. That is a very stubborn combination of placements he has. What is his moon?

Where's @Antiphates at?

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Haha yes, that’s certainly me impatient as hell. Sorry he is aqua sun cap venus pisces mars aries moon

I had an aqua so this. I deleted him, he still watched every story, never spoke to me about any of them. He’s just curious to see what you’re up to and if you’ve met someone else. Nothing more.

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There's nothing calm about blocking someone instead of talking it out. It's the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and go "lalalalalalalalalala!"

I didn't block him. The conversation ended and at that moment I just decided it's best for me to end it by deleting him. After I calmed down I guess I could've gone about it another way. But he is always used to me just being calm and cool about everything. And this time he really went to far, and I really need to set boundaries. Maybe not the best way to make my point clear. But he is very stubborn and never wants to acknowledge he is wrong.

What's he been doing that he won't admit?

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

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He will never admit that 😄

If he lie to you it means that he is “scared” of you reaction if he tells you the truth. Make it easier for him not to need to lie to you and everything will be fine.

What was the argument about?

Blocking him and breaking up seems a bit extreme to me, not cool and calm or whatever at all. People just throw the towel in so easily nowadays. No one has staying power.

But I guess depends on the argument. Like if he cheated or lied or something then I can see why'd you just cut ties.

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There's nothing calm about blocking someone instead of talking it out. It's the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and go "lalalalalalalalalala!"

I didn't block him. The conversation ended and at that moment I just decided it's best for me to end it by deleting him. After I calmed down I guess I could've gone about it another way. But he is always used to me just being calm and cool about everything. And this time he really went to far, and I really need to set boundaries. Maybe not the best way to make my point clear. But he is very stubborn and never wants to acknowledge he is wrong.

What's he been doing that he won't admit?

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

He will never admit that 😄

If he lie to you it means that he is “scared” of you reaction if he tells you the truth. Make it easier for him not to need to lie to you and everything will be fine.

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Scared? He knows i get angry when he doesnt tell me the truth. I cant stand liars...

We’ve already deleted eachother so what now 😅

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What was the argument about?

Blocking him and breaking up seems a bit extreme to me, not cool and calm or whatever at all. People just throw the towel in so easily nowadays. No one has staying power.

But I guess depends on the argument. Like if he cheated or lied or something then I can see why'd you just cut ties.

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

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Id do the same. Id rather lose someone than admit in wrong if i think im right.

But in this case he is not right? I guess its his pride then

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What was the argument about?

Blocking him and breaking up seems a bit extreme to me, not cool and calm or whatever at all. People just throw the towel in so easily nowadays. No one has staying power.

But I guess depends on the argument. Like if he cheated or lied or something then I can see why'd you just cut ties.

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

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How'd you find out he lied tho....through a 3rd party?

And if you never confronted him about the little white lies and just pretended everything is cool...hes prolly feeling like this (blocking him and dumping him) came outta nowhere.

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There's nothing calm about blocking someone instead of talking it out. It's the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and go "lalalalalalalalalala!"

I didn't block him. The conversation ended and at that moment I just decided it's best for me to end it by deleting him. After I calmed down I guess I could've gone about it another way. But he is always used to me just being calm and cool about everything. And this time he really went to far, and I really need to set boundaries. Maybe not the best way to make my point clear. But he is very stubborn and never wants to acknowledge he is wrong.

What's he been doing that he won't admit?

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

He will never admit that 😄

If he lie to you it means that he is “scared” of you reaction if he tells you the truth. Make it easier for him not to need to lie to you and everything will be fine.

Scared? He knows i get angry when he doesnt tell me the truth. I cant stand liars...

We’ve already deleted eachother so what now 😅

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Scared of telling you the truth.

Aquarius don’t like confrontation, and they only lie when they feel the truth is not welcome.

You cannot change him, but you can change yourself to make it easier for him never to have to lie to you again. Don’t try to control an Aquarius. It never works. He has to do it himself.

Now you are in trouble because they are fixed. He is probably waiting for you to calm down

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What was the argument about?

Blocking him and breaking up seems a bit extreme to me, not cool and calm or whatever at all. People just throw the towel in so easily nowadays. No one has staying power.

But I guess depends on the argument. Like if he cheated or lied or something then I can see why'd you just cut ties.

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

How'd you find out he lied tho....through a 3rd party?

And if you never confronted him about the little white lies and just pretended everything is cool...hes prolly feeling like this (blocking him and dumping him) came outta nowhere.

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No. Not through a 3rd party. Let’s just i have the receipts. That’s the whole thing We have spoken about this multiple times and he agreed that he would be honest from now on. We have such a great bond/connection and when he lies it messes it all up. Thats why I reacted the way I did. At that moment I was done, but after calming down I thought things through. But because we already had this conversation about honesty it just frustates me.

So i deleted him and like 4 days later he deleted me too. While he is at fault and he know he is? But he’d rather lose me than admit he was wrong.

Ahaha stop crying and move on.

Calm and colllected. Lmao 😂

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There's nothing calm about blocking someone instead of talking it out. It's the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and go "lalalalalalalalalala!"

I didn't block him. The conversation ended and at that moment I just decided it's best for me to end it by deleting him. After I calmed down I guess I could've gone about it another way. But he is always used to me just being calm and cool about everything. And this time he really went to far, and I really need to set boundaries. Maybe not the best way to make my point clear. But he is very stubborn and never wants to acknowledge he is wrong.

What's he been doing that he won't admit?

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

He will never admit that 😄

If he lie to you it means that he is “scared” of you reaction if he tells you the truth. Make it easier for him not to need to lie to you and everything will be fine.

Scared? He knows i get angry when he doesnt tell me the truth. I cant stand liars...

We’ve already deleted eachother so what now 😅

Scared of telling you the truth.

Aquarius don’t like confrontation, and they only lie when they feel the truth is not welcome.

You cannot change him, but you can change yourself to make it easier for him never to have to lie to you again. Don’t try to control an Aquarius. It never works. He has to do it himself.

Now you are in trouble because they are fixed. He is probably waiting for you to calm down

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Okay. Yes but so you’re not allowed to set boundaries? Like everything has to be on his terms?

And I’ve calmed down but I really think if I contact him he will never respect me

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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

There's nothing calm about blocking someone instead of talking it out. It's the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and go "lalalalalalalalalala!"

I didn't block him. The conversation ended and at that moment I just decided it's best for me to end it by deleting him. After I calmed down I guess I could've gone about it another way. But he is always used to me just being calm and cool about everything. And this time he really went to far, and I really need to set boundaries. Maybe not the best way to make my point clear. But he is very stubborn and never wants to acknowledge he is wrong.

What's he been doing that he won't admit?

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

He will never admit that 😄

If he lie to you it means that he is “scared” of you reaction if he tells you the truth. Make it easier for him not to need to lie to you and everything will be fine.

Scared? He knows i get angry when he doesnt tell me the truth. I cant stand liars...

We’ve already deleted eachother so what now 😅

Scared of telling you the truth.

Aquarius don’t like confrontation, and they only lie when they feel the truth is not welcome.

You cannot change him, but you can change yourself to make it easier for him never to have to lie to you again. Don’t try to control an Aquarius. It never works. He has to do it himself.

Now you are in trouble because they are fixed. He is probably waiting for you to calm down

Okay. Yes but so you’re not allowed to set boundaries? Like everything has to be on his terms?

And I’ve calmed down but I really think if I contact him he will never respect me

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Ofc you can. It should be mutual.

But deleting doesn’t help because you are braking the breach to talking.

If I was you I will unblock him and hope that he contact you. When he does you talk and put your boundaries in a mature and calm way. Then you will have a chance that he listens to you and change because he wants to do it for you. You can’t force it from him

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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

There's nothing calm about blocking someone instead of talking it out. It's the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and go "lalalalalalalalalala!"

I didn't block him. The conversation ended and at that moment I just decided it's best for me to end it by deleting him. After I calmed down I guess I could've gone about it another way. But he is always used to me just being calm and cool about everything. And this time he really went to far, and I really need to set boundaries. Maybe not the best way to make my point clear. But he is very stubborn and never wants to acknowledge he is wrong.

What's he been doing that he won't admit?

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

He will never admit that 😄

If he lie to you it means that he is “scared” of you reaction if he tells you the truth. Make it easier for him not to need to lie to you and everything will be fine.

Scared? He knows i get angry when he doesnt tell me the truth. I cant stand liars...

We’ve already deleted eachother so what now 😅

Scared of telling you the truth.

Aquarius don’t like confrontation, and they only lie when they feel the truth is not welcome.

You cannot change him, but you can change yourself to make it easier for him never to have to lie to you again. Don’t try to control an Aquarius. It never works. He has to do it himself.

Now you are in trouble because they are fixed. He is probably waiting for you to calm down

Okay. Yes but so you’re not allowed to set boundaries? Like everything has to be on his terms?

And I’ve calmed down but I really think if I contact him he will never respect me

Ofc you can. It should be mutual.

But deleting doesn’t help because you are braking the breach to talking.

If I was you I will unblock him and hope that he contact you. When he does you talk and put your boundaries in a mature and calm way. Then you will have a chance that he listens to you and change because he wants to do it for you. You can’t force it from him

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The thing is I never blocked him. I only deleted his number and unfollowed from insta and snapchat. When he saw that he did the exact same couple days after. I only forgot to delete him of facebook because we recently became friends on there. I had posted a video of myself on my story a couple days later and saw he viewed thats when i reminded i still have him there. But he didnt delete me also.

One of the posters told me to keep him on facebook so if he wants to contact me he can

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What was the argument about?

Blocking him and breaking up seems a bit extreme to me, not cool and calm or whatever at all. People just throw the towel in so easily nowadays. No one has staying power.

But I guess depends on the argument. Like if he cheated or lied or something then I can see why'd you just cut ties.

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

How'd you find out he lied tho....through a 3rd party?

And if you never confronted him about the little white lies and just pretended everything is cool...hes prolly feeling like this (blocking him and dumping him) came outta nowhere.

No. Not through a 3rd party. Let’s just i have the receipts. That’s the whole thing We have spoken about this multiple times and he agreed that he would be honest from now on. We have such a great bond/connection and when he lies it messes it all up. Thats why I reacted the way I did. At that moment I was done, but after calming down I thought things through. But because we already had this conversation about honesty it just frustates me.

So i deleted him and like 4 days later he deleted me too. While he is at fault and he know he is? But he’d rather lose me than admit he was wrong.

I'm so curious what he lied about and why you're not saying.

Me too. 👀

What's his moon?

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Aries

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What was the argument about?

Blocking him and breaking up seems a bit extreme to me, not cool and calm or whatever at all. People just throw the towel in so easily nowadays. No one has staying power.

But I guess depends on the argument. Like if he cheated or lied or something then I can see why'd you just cut ties.

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

How'd you find out he lied tho....through a 3rd party?

And if you never confronted him about the little white lies and just pretended everything is cool...hes prolly feeling like this (blocking him and dumping him) came outta nowhere.

No. Not through a 3rd party. Let’s just i have the receipts. That’s the whole thing We have spoken about this multiple times and he agreed that he would be honest from now on. We have such a great bond/connection and when he lies it messes it all up. Thats why I reacted the way I did. At that moment I was done, but after calming down I thought things through. But because we already had this conversation about honesty it just frustates me.

So i deleted him and like 4 days later he deleted me too. While he is at fault and he know he is? But he’d rather lose me than admit he was wrong.

I'm so curious what he lied about and why you're not saying.

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It doesnt matter what he lied about tho. He lied. After he himself said I won’t lie anymore i will be honest from now on. And here he goes again lying

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There's nothing calm about blocking someone instead of talking it out. It's the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and go "lalalalalalalalalala!"

I didn't block him. The conversation ended and at that moment I just decided it's best for me to end it by deleting him. After I calmed down I guess I could've gone about it another way. But he is always used to me just being calm and cool about everything. And this time he really went to far, and I really need to set boundaries. Maybe not the best way to make my point clear. But he is very stubborn and never wants to acknowledge he is wrong.

What's he been doing that he won't admit?

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

He will never admit that 😄

If he lie to you it means that he is “scared” of you reaction if he tells you the truth. Make it easier for him not to need to lie to you and everything will be fine.

Scared? He knows i get angry when he doesnt tell me the truth. I cant stand liars...

We’ve already deleted eachother so what now 😅

Scared of telling you the truth.

Aquarius don’t like confrontation, and they only lie when they feel the truth is not welcome.

You cannot change him, but you can change yourself to make it easier for him never to have to lie to you again. Don’t try to control an Aquarius. It never works. He has to do it himself.

Now you are in trouble because they are fixed. He is probably waiting for you to calm down

Okay. Yes but so you’re not allowed to set boundaries? Like everything has to be on his terms?

And I’ve calmed down but I really think if I contact him he will never respect me

Ofc you can. It should be mutual.

But deleting doesn’t help because you are braking the breach to talking.

If I was you I will unblock him and hope that he contact you. When he does you talk and put your boundaries in a mature and calm way. Then you will have a chance that he listens to you and change because he wants to do it for you. You can’t force it from him

The thing is I never blocked him. I only deleted his number and unfollowed from insta and snapchat. When he saw that he did the exact same couple days after. I only forgot to delete him of facebook because we recently became friends on there. I had posted a video of myself on my story a couple days later and saw he viewed thats when i reminded i still have him there. But he didnt delete me also.

One of the posters told me to keep him on facebook so if he wants to contact me he can

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With an aqua you cannot resolve any issues when you are both angry. If you ignore him he will ignore you even more and eventually live you for good. But if you are willing to resolve things and communicate he will respond to that.

When you are both calm then you have a one to one talk and he will listen, otherwise he will be like blocked in his ways and totally unreachable. That is how they are.

From everything you’ve said here, it seems like you’re really upset. You’ve made clear to him how important honesty is, and he still chooses to lie. I’d say, take a breather. Live your life. If he decides youre worth it, he will reach out. He has your number. He knows how to reach you.

You deserve better than someone who lies to you repeatedly. And from how you sound, it’s not small lies. If it’s something you can’t live with, you have to let him go.

Maybe he will realize later on that he was wrong and will come back. But don’t hold your breath.

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There's nothing calm about blocking someone instead of talking it out. It's the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and go "lalalalalalalalalala!"

I didn't block him. The conversation ended and at that moment I just decided it's best for me to end it by deleting him. After I calmed down I guess I could've gone about it another way. But he is always used to me just being calm and cool about everything. And this time he really went to far, and I really need to set boundaries. Maybe not the best way to make my point clear. But he is very stubborn and never wants to acknowledge he is wrong.

What's he been doing that he won't admit?

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

He will never admit that 😄

If he lie to you it means that he is “scared” of you reaction if he tells you the truth. Make it easier for him not to need to lie to you and everything will be fine.

Scared? He knows i get angry when he doesnt tell me the truth. I cant stand liars...

We’ve already deleted eachother so what now 😅

Scared of telling you the truth.

Aquarius don’t like confrontation, and they only lie when they feel the truth is not welcome.

You cannot change him, but you can change yourself to make it easier for him never to have to lie to you again. Don’t try to control an Aquarius. It never works. He has to do it himself.

Now you are in trouble because they are fixed. He is probably waiting for you to calm down

Okay. Yes but so you’re not allowed to set boundaries? Like everything has to be on his terms?

And I’ve calmed down but I really think if I contact him he will never respect me

Ofc you can. It should be mutual.

But deleting doesn’t help because you are braking the breach to talking.

If I was you I will unblock him and hope that he contact you. When he does you talk and put your boundaries in a mature and calm way. Then you will have a chance that he listens to you and change because he wants to do it for you. You can’t force it from him

The thing is I never blocked him. I only deleted his number and unfollowed from insta and snapchat. When he saw that he did the exact same couple days after. I only forgot to delete him of facebook because we recently became friends on there. I had posted a video of myself on my story a couple days later and saw he viewed thats when i reminded i still have him there. But he didnt delete me also.

One of the posters told me to keep him on facebook so if he wants to contact me he can

With an aqua you cannot resolve any issues when you are both angry. If you ignore him he will ignore you even more and eventually live you for good. But if you are willing to resolve things and communicate he will respond to that.

When you are both calm then you have a one to one talk and he will listen, otherwise he will be like blocked in his ways and totally unreachable. That is how they are.

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Yes. I have calmed down but I really dont think its me who needs to contact him. Thats how it always is. Im not someone that stays angry for a long time I easily forgive. So there have been times where he was wrong? And i overreacted and became angry and I would always apologize for my behaviour but he never does. I kinda feel like when I do that it justifies his behaviour and I dont like that. When you are wrong you are wrong. When i’m wrong I admit and apologize. But with him its like even tho he is wrong i have to be the one to make it right? It doesnt make sense? How are you angry at me for something you caused and did? Thanks for your replies tho...

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From everything you’ve said here, it seems like you’re really upset. You’ve made clear to him how important honesty is, and he still chooses to lie. I’d say, take a breather. Live your life. If he decides youre worth it, he will reach out. He has your number. He knows how to reach you.

You deserve better than someone who lies to you repeatedly. And from how you sound, it’s not small lies. If it’s something you can’t live with, you have to let him go.

Maybe he will realize later on that he was wrong and will come back. But don’t hold your breath.

Thank you! I needed to hear this. I am upset because I thought after our conversation he wouldn’t lie again. I’m dissapointed I guess. It’s just hard because besides the lying we have an undeniable connection and that’s why its hard for me to let go...

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What was the argument about?

Blocking him and breaking up seems a bit extreme to me, not cool and calm or whatever at all. People just throw the towel in so easily nowadays. No one has staying power.

But I guess depends on the argument. Like if he cheated or lied or something then I can see why'd you just cut ties.

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

How'd you find out he lied tho....through a 3rd party?

And if you never confronted him about the little white lies and just pretended everything is cool...hes prolly feeling like this (blocking him and dumping him) came outta nowhere.

No. Not through a 3rd party. Let’s just i have the receipts. That’s the whole thing We have spoken about this multiple times and he agreed that he would be honest from now on. We have such a great bond/connection and when he lies it messes it all up. Thats why I reacted the way I did. At that moment I was done, but after calming down I thought things through. But because we already had this conversation about honesty it just frustates me.

So i deleted him and like 4 days later he deleted me too. While he is at fault and he know he is? But he’d rather lose me than admit he was wrong.

I'm so curious what he lied about and why you're not saying.

It doesnt matter what he lied about tho. He lied. After he himself said I won’t lie anymore i will be honest from now on. And here he goes again lying

Does he agree that he lied or does he see what happened differently?

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He said something like he didn’t mean to. But that was it. But why delete me if u know u were the one who is wrong

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There's nothing calm about blocking someone instead of talking it out. It's the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and go "lalalalalalalalalala!"

I didn't block him. The conversation ended and at that moment I just decided it's best for me to end it by deleting him. After I calmed down I guess I could've gone about it another way. But he is always used to me just being calm and cool about everything. And this time he really went to far, and I really need to set boundaries. Maybe not the best way to make my point clear. But he is very stubborn and never wants to acknowledge he is wrong.

What's he been doing that he won't admit?

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

He will never admit that 😄

If he lie to you it means that he is “scared” of you reaction if he tells you the truth. Make it easier for him not to need to lie to you and everything will be fine.

Scared? He knows i get angry when he doesnt tell me the truth. I cant stand liars...

We’ve already deleted eachother so what now 😅

Scared of telling you the truth.

Aquarius don’t like confrontation, and they only lie when they feel the truth is not welcome.

You cannot change him, but you can change yourself to make it easier for him never to have to lie to you again. Don’t try to control an Aquarius. It never works. He has to do it himself.

Now you are in trouble because they are fixed. He is probably waiting for you to calm down

Okay. Yes but so you’re not allowed to set boundaries? Like everything has to be on his terms?

And I’ve calmed down but I really think if I contact him he will never respect me

Ofc you can. It should be mutual.

But deleting doesn’t help because you are braking the breach to talking.

If I was you I will unblock him and hope that he contact you. When he does you talk and put your boundaries in a mature and calm way. Then you will have a chance that he listens to you and change because he wants to do it for you. You can’t force it from him

The thing is I never blocked him. I only deleted his number and unfollowed from insta and snapchat. When he saw that he did the exact same couple days after. I only forgot to delete him of facebook because we recently became friends on there. I had posted a video of myself on my story a couple days later and saw he viewed thats when i reminded i still have him there. But he didnt delete me also.

One of the posters told me to keep him on facebook so if he wants to contact me he can

With an aqua you cannot resolve any issues when you are both angry. If you ignore him he will ignore you even more and eventually live you for good. But if you are willing to resolve things and communicate he will respond to that.

When you are both calm then you have a one to one talk and he will listen, otherwise he will be like blocked in his ways and totally unreachable. That is how they are.

Ssssshhhhh 🤫 STOP 😂

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Hmmm 👀

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Posted by Leo138

From everything you’ve said here, it seems like you’re really upset. You’ve made clear to him how important honesty is, and he still chooses to lie. I’d say, take a breather. Live your life. If he decides youre worth it, he will reach out. He has your number. He knows how to reach you.

You deserve better than someone who lies to you repeatedly. And from how you sound, it’s not small lies. If it’s something you can’t live with, you have to let him go.

Maybe he will realize later on that he was wrong and will come back. But don’t hold your breath.

Thank you! I needed to hear this. I am upset because I thought after our conversation he wouldn’t lie again. I’m dissapointed I guess. It’s just hard because besides the lying we have an undeniable connection and that’s why its hard for me to let go...

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I’ve kinda been there. My ex would lie constantly about the dumbest things (not even big, important things). And it would piss me off. I’m stubborn and i stayed with him way longer than i should’ve. Break up sucked, but I’m happier now and we’re actually good friends now. He still lies about dumb shit, but I won’t let it affect me anymore coz I accepted that he isn’t mine to fix and if he wants to lie about silly little things, that’s his deal.

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What was the argument about?

Blocking him and breaking up seems a bit extreme to me, not cool and calm or whatever at all. People just throw the towel in so easily nowadays. No one has staying power.

But I guess depends on the argument. Like if he cheated or lied or something then I can see why'd you just cut ties.

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

How'd you find out he lied tho....through a 3rd party?

And if you never confronted him about the little white lies and just pretended everything is cool...hes prolly feeling like this (blocking him and dumping him) came outta nowhere.

No. Not through a 3rd party. Let’s just i have the receipts. That’s the whole thing We have spoken about this multiple times and he agreed that he would be honest from now on. We have such a great bond/connection and when he lies it messes it all up. Thats why I reacted the way I did. At that moment I was done, but after calming down I thought things through. But because we already had this conversation about honesty it just frustates me.

So i deleted him and like 4 days later he deleted me too. While he is at fault and he know he is? But he’d rather lose me than admit he was wrong.

I'm so curious what he lied about and why you're not saying.

It doesnt matter what he lied about tho. He lied. After he himself said I won’t lie anymore i will be honest from now on. And here he goes again lying

Does he agree that he lied or does he see what happened differently?

He said something like he didn’t mean to. But that was it. But why delete me if u know u were the one who is wrong

The other option would have been what? Wait to see if you'd undelete? Contact you some other way?

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I deleted him not blocked. He could have at least said sorry or something idek. Or tried later cause it is understandable why i was angry. We just agreed on honesty

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From everything you’ve said here, it seems like you’re really upset. You’ve made clear to him how important honesty is, and he still chooses to lie. I’d say, take a breather. Live your life. If he decides youre worth it, he will reach out. He has your number. He knows how to reach you.

You deserve better than someone who lies to you repeatedly. And from how you sound, it’s not small lies. If it’s something you can’t live with, you have to let him go.

Maybe he will realize later on that he was wrong and will come back. But don’t hold your breath.

Thank you! I needed to hear this. I am upset because I thought after our conversation he wouldn’t lie again. I’m dissapointed I guess. It’s just hard because besides the lying we have an undeniable connection and that’s why its hard for me to let go...

I’ve kinda been there. My ex would lie constantly about the dumbest things (not even big, important things). And it would piss me off. I’m stubborn and i stayed with him way longer than i should’ve. Break up sucked, but I’m happier now and we’re actually good friends now. He still lies about dumb shit, but I won’t let it affect me anymore coz I accepted that he isn’t mine to fix and if he wants to lie about silly little things, that’s his deal.

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Omg yes! It started with small little lies and I would be like why are you lying about this. Then he would quickly tell the truth and I would think to myself if you can lie about small not important things like this? What else have you been lying about..

Was he also an aquarius? I’m so happy you found happiness! Maybe this is for the best!

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From everything you’ve said here, it seems like you’re really upset. You’ve made clear to him how important honesty is, and he still chooses to lie. I’d say, take a breather. Live your life. If he decides youre worth it, he will reach out. He has your number. He knows how to reach you.

You deserve better than someone who lies to you repeatedly. And from how you sound, it’s not small lies. If it’s something you can’t live with, you have to let him go.

Maybe he will realize later on that he was wrong and will come back. But don’t hold your breath.

Thank you! I needed to hear this. I am upset because I thought after our conversation he wouldn’t lie again. I’m dissapointed I guess. It’s just hard because besides the lying we have an undeniable connection and that’s why its hard for me to let go...

I’ve kinda been there. My ex would lie constantly about the dumbest things (not even big, important things). And it would piss me off. I’m stubborn and i stayed with him way longer than i should’ve. Break up sucked, but I’m happier now and we’re actually good friends now. He still lies about dumb shit, but I won’t let it affect me anymore coz I accepted that he isn’t mine to fix and if he wants to lie about silly little things, that’s his deal.

Omg yes! It started with small little lies and I would be like why are you lying about this. Then he would quickly tell the truth and I would think to myself if you can lie about small not important things like this? What else have you been lying about..

Was he also an aquarius? I’m so happy you found happiness! Maybe this is for the best!

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Nah. He’s an Aries.

Lol. I wouldn’t say I have found happiness. Hahaha. For now I guess I’m content. Happier than at the end of the relationship. I just found it hard to rely on him, and now I guess I have no one to rely on but myself. But hey, at least I don’t disappoint myself. I’m very reliable 🤣

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From everything you’ve said here, it seems like you’re really upset. You’ve made clear to him how important honesty is, and he still chooses to lie. I’d say, take a breather. Live your life. If he decides youre worth it, he will reach out. He has your number. He knows how to reach you.

You deserve better than someone who lies to you repeatedly. And from how you sound, it’s not small lies. If it’s something you can’t live with, you have to let him go.

Maybe he will realize later on that he was wrong and will come back. But don’t hold your breath.

Thank you! I needed to hear this. I am upset because I thought after our conversation he wouldn’t lie again. I’m dissapointed I guess. It’s just hard because besides the lying we have an undeniable connection and that’s why its hard for me to let go...

I’ve kinda been there. My ex would lie constantly about the dumbest things (not even big, important things). And it would piss me off. I’m stubborn and i stayed with him way longer than i should’ve. Break up sucked, but I’m happier now and we’re actually good friends now. He still lies about dumb shit, but I won’t let it affect me anymore coz I accepted that he isn’t mine to fix and if he wants to lie about silly little things, that’s his deal.

Omg yes! It started with small little lies and I would be like why are you lying about this. Then he would quickly tell the truth and I would think to myself if you can lie about small not important things like this? What else have you been lying about..

Was he also an aquarius? I’m so happy you found happiness! Maybe this is for the best!

Nah. He’s an Aries.

Lol. I wouldn’t say I have found happiness. Hahaha. For now I guess I’m content. Happier than at the end of the relationship. I just found it hard to rely on him, and now I guess I have no one to rely on but myself. But hey, at least I don’t disappoint myself. I’m very reliable 🤣

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Hahaha. Well if you can’t even rely on him and he lies then it’s for the best. True about that you know you will always be there for yourself. Its better to do that. I’m also stubborn but I will see how it goes. Just going on with my life.

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What was the argument about?

Blocking him and breaking up seems a bit extreme to me, not cool and calm or whatever at all. People just throw the towel in so easily nowadays. No one has staying power.

But I guess depends on the argument. Like if he cheated or lied or something then I can see why'd you just cut ties.

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

How'd you find out he lied tho....through a 3rd party?

And if you never confronted him about the little white lies and just pretended everything is cool...hes prolly feeling like this (blocking him and dumping him) came outta nowhere.

No. Not through a 3rd party. Let’s just i have the receipts. That’s the whole thing We have spoken about this multiple times and he agreed that he would be honest from now on. We have such a great bond/connection and when he lies it messes it all up. Thats why I reacted the way I did. At that moment I was done, but after calming down I thought things through. But because we already had this conversation about honesty it just frustates me.

So i deleted him and like 4 days later he deleted me too. While he is at fault and he know he is? But he’d rather lose me than admit he was wrong.

I'm so curious what he lied about and why you're not saying.

It doesnt matter what he lied about tho. He lied. After he himself said I won’t lie anymore i will be honest from now on. And here he goes again lying

Does he agree that he lied or does he see what happened differently?

He said something like he didn’t mean to. But that was it. But why delete me if u know u were the one who is wrong

The other option would have been what? Wait to see if you'd undelete? Contact you some other way?

I deleted him not blocked. He could have at least said sorry or something idek. Or tried later cause it is understandable why i was angry. We just agreed on honesty

If you want someone to apologize, you don't stop the conversation. I mean, you can, but a person who is mature, proud, or in the right is not going to chase you.

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I understand what you mean. But the conversation had already ended because he only said I didnt mean to. That’s it. He has a lot of pride that’s a thing I know for sure.

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What was the argument about?

Blocking him and breaking up seems a bit extreme to me, not cool and calm or whatever at all. People just throw the towel in so easily nowadays. No one has staying power.

But I guess depends on the argument. Like if he cheated or lied or something then I can see why'd you just cut ties.

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

How'd you find out he lied tho....through a 3rd party?

And if you never confronted him about the little white lies and just pretended everything is cool...hes prolly feeling like this (blocking him and dumping him) came outta nowhere.

No. Not through a 3rd party. Let’s just i have the receipts. That’s the whole thing We have spoken about this multiple times and he agreed that he would be honest from now on. We have such a great bond/connection and when he lies it messes it all up. Thats why I reacted the way I did. At that moment I was done, but after calming down I thought things through. But because we already had this conversation about honesty it just frustates me.

So i deleted him and like 4 days later he deleted me too. While he is at fault and he know he is? But he’d rather lose me than admit he was wrong.

I'm so curious what he lied about and why you're not saying.

It doesnt matter what he lied about tho. He lied. After he himself said I won’t lie anymore i will be honest from now on. And here he goes again lying

Does he agree that he lied or does he see what happened differently?

He said something like he didn’t mean to. But that was it. But why delete me if u know u were the one who is wrong

The other option would have been what? Wait to see if you'd undelete? Contact you some other way?

I deleted him not blocked. He could have at least said sorry or something idek. Or tried later cause it is understandable why i was angry. We just agreed on honesty

If you want someone to apologize, you don't stop the conversation. I mean, you can, but a person who is mature, proud, or in the right is not going to chase you.

I understand what you mean. But the conversation had already ended because he only said I didnt mean to. That’s it. He has a lot of pride that’s a thing I know for sure.

I should’ve gone about it another way I acknowledge that. But now its already done so yeah and he decided to delete me too. So i guess that’s it then?

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There's nothing calm about blocking someone instead of talking it out. It's the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and go "lalalalalalalalalala!"

I didn't block him. The conversation ended and at that moment I just decided it's best for me to end it by deleting him. After I calmed down I guess I could've gone about it another way. But he is always used to me just being calm and cool about everything. And this time he really went to far, and I really need to set boundaries. Maybe not the best way to make my point clear. But he is very stubborn and never wants to acknowledge he is wrong.

What's he been doing that he won't admit?

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

He will never admit that 😄

If he lie to you it means that he is “scared” of you reaction if he tells you the truth. Make it easier for him not to need to lie to you and everything will be fine.

Scared? He knows i get angry when he doesnt tell me the truth. I cant stand liars...

We’ve already deleted eachother so what now 😅

Scared of telling you the truth.

Aquarius don’t like confrontation, and they only lie when they feel the truth is not welcome.

You cannot change him, but you can change yourself to make it easier for him never to have to lie to you again. Don’t try to control an Aquarius. It never works. He has to do it himself.

Now you are in trouble because they are fixed. He is probably waiting for you to calm down

Okay. Yes but so you’re not allowed to set boundaries? Like everything has to be on his terms?

And I’ve calmed down but I really think if I contact him he will never respect me

Ofc you can. It should be mutual.

But deleting doesn’t help because you are braking the breach to talking.

If I was you I will unblock him and hope that he contact you. When he does you talk and put your boundaries in a mature and calm way. Then you will have a chance that he listens to you and change because he wants to do it for you. You can’t force it from him

The thing is I never blocked him. I only deleted his number and unfollowed from insta and snapchat. When he saw that he did the exact same couple days after. I only forgot to delete him of facebook because we recently became friends on there. I had posted a video of myself on my story a couple days later and saw he viewed thats when i reminded i still have him there. But he didnt delete me also.

One of the posters told me to keep him on facebook so if he wants to contact me he can

With an aqua you cannot resolve any issues when you are both angry. If you ignore him he will ignore you even more and eventually live you for good. But if you are willing to resolve things and communicate he will respond to that.

When you are both calm then you have a one to one talk and he will listen, otherwise he will be like blocked in his ways and totally unreachable. That is how they are.

Ssssshhhhh 🤫 STOP 😂

Hmmm 👀

What? 😂

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Just noting down all the things she said and you are confirming its true ✍🏾

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What was the argument about?

Blocking him and breaking up seems a bit extreme to me, not cool and calm or whatever at all. People just throw the towel in so easily nowadays. No one has staying power.

But I guess depends on the argument. Like if he cheated or lied or something then I can see why'd you just cut ties.

2 weeks ago we were together and I asked him a personal question. He answered en reassured me that he was telling the truth and all of that. Then i found out he lied. He always lies about the most dumb stuff I just don't get it. So usually we don't speak for like max. a week and then we just act like nothing happened and continue. But this time the way he looked me in my eyes and reassured me and still lied.. that really pissed me off.

How'd you find out he lied tho....through a 3rd party?

And if you never confronted him about the little white lies and just pretended everything is cool...hes prolly feeling like this (blocking him and dumping him) came outta nowhere.

No. Not through a 3rd party. Let’s just i have the receipts. That’s the whole thing We have spoken about this multiple times and he agreed that he would be honest from now on. We have such a great bond/connection and when he lies it messes it all up. Thats why I reacted the way I did. At that moment I was done, but after calming down I thought things through. But because we already had this conversation about honesty it just frustates me.

So i deleted him and like 4 days later he deleted me too. While he is at fault and he know he is? But he’d rather lose me than admit he was wrong.

I'm so curious what he lied about and why you're not saying.

It doesnt matter what he lied about tho. He lied. After he himself said I won’t lie anymore i will be honest from now on. And here he goes again lying

Does he agree that he lied or does he see what happened differently?

He said something like he didn’t mean to. But that was it. But why delete me if u know u were the one who is wrong

The other option would have been what? Wait to see if you'd undelete? Contact you some other way?

I deleted him not blocked. He could have at least said sorry or something idek. Or tried later cause it is understandable why i was angry. We just agreed on honesty

If you want someone to apologize, you don't stop the conversation. I mean, you can, but a person who is mature, proud, or in the right is not going to chase you.

I understand what you mean. But the conversation had already ended because he only said I didnt mean to. That’s it. He has a lot of pride that’s a thing I know for sure.

If you can't live with the lie, maybe it's for the best that you overplayed your hand. He's made no move to show he takes the lie as seriously as you did.

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Yes. I just find it hard cause its really only the lies the rest is great. We have a great connection. But I cant have him thinking it’s okay to lie and there be no consequences. maybe its best to let go...

Thank you for your insight