Have you ever?

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Have you ever encountered someone that can tell a story two different ways and both ways be the truth? Strangest thing ever..... Its like someone tells you a story and then they tell you the same story only it has a different ending. You dont want to call this person a liar, but do you think this is conceivable?

We as aquarians tend to see things from different aspects and are usually light years ahead on our thinking. Do you thinks its possible that a person can relate to something two different ways at the same point in time?

This is porbably confusing......shoot im confused.
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Its like they keep changing how the story ends. Like one day you might say ohh my house burned down because someone left a cigarrette on the carpet. The next two weeks go by and I ask you how things are going..... Then you say ohhh the fireplace wasnt built within code and it caused my house to burn down....

Huh? Which one is it?

Ok.. say for instance a person has two ways of looking at things...say a gemini? You have a good and bad twin right? Do you think depending on which one you ask is how the story unfolds? Like having two different prospectives?

Or even yet...remember in highschool when they discussed some shakespearean play. I cant remember the name right now. One guy saw a crime being committed but he couldnt hear anything. Yet his account was totally different than the guy who only heared the crime but could not see it......

Maybe Im digging too deep here.
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Who is this that your talking too??

And just a word of caution people with multiple personalities ......astrology or not are about the most disturbed people there are.. Schizo

I'm sure whoever this is... isn't that course WHO knows

As far as Gemini having a different take on the same event... That sounds like it fits although not so much as what actually happened... I could see one speaking of more information the other omitted and vice versa

I just always thought of the dual gemini thing as more of two different moods... I mean the mood will alter how their personality is perceived...

LOL you got my mind all wondering if gems like susceptible to personality disorders now!
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Posted by coldwater
Its like they keep changing how the story ends. Like one day you might say ohh my house burned down because someone left a cigarrette on the carpet. The next two weeks go by and I ask you how things are going..... Then you say ohhh the fireplace wasnt built within code and it caused my house to burn down....

Huh? Which one is it?

Ok.. say for instance a person has two ways of looking at things...say a gemini? You have a good and bad twin right? Do you think depending on which one you ask is how the story unfolds? Like having two different prospectives?

Or even yet...remember in highschool when they discussed some shakespearean play. I cant remember the name right now. One guy saw a crime being committed but he couldnt hear anything. Yet his account was totally different than the guy who only heared the crime but could not see it......

Maybe Im digging too deep here.



Hmmn a completely different ending sounds like bs yes, now as a gemini I would say they can see more than one side to a story, thats more in a disagreement though where it would look like they are being two faced, it not actally a two faced act it is truly that they can see both sides to a story as in reasons why someone may have done this or that where as the gem would choose to stay neutral, now gems are also known for a colourful story, they have lots of imagination, in their own head they can make something quite mundane sound really adventerous because they see the world with such energy, its not a lie just magnified with a bit of excitement on the gemini`s behalf, not in a serious discussion though thats just plain bs.
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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Who is this that your talking too??

And just a word of caution people with multiple personalities ......astrology or not are about the most disturbed people there are.. Schizo

I'm sure whoever this is... isn't that course WHO knows

As far as Gemini having a different take on the same event... That sounds like it fits although not so much as what actually happened... I could see one speaking of more information the other omitted and vice versa

I just always thought of the dual gemini thing as more of two different moods... I mean the mood will alter how their personality is perceived...

LOL you got my mind all wondering if gems like susceptible to personality disorders now!



LOL! No more than an aqua evolving into a sociopath, psychopath ;D .. But! being a gem and consulting with my twin Aqua! lol! i wouldnt judge aqua`s as that, reason being aqua`s are intelligent and deep thinkers, deep thinking is reflection, reflection = learning/growth/evolving, psychological, spiritual ect ect intelligence, therefore ya kinda look around and feel less patient with poeple who dont seem to understand, i read somewhere the more evolved in the area the more dissapointed you feel around others in regards to matching in relationships... lol the other to the argument, mood altering in the click of ya fingers, hmmn bipolar O_o having a twin, dual personality schitzo yup, if i add my aqua side too, sociopath? psychopath? ... id say im pretty fucked 😄 lol
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It depends on the situation.

Person A tells one account, Person B tells the other account. It might be the same conclusion but they may perceive it differently. And I find this interesting because rumours are always going on at work and people always tend to add tidbits to make their story more biased.

e.g. Boy A like Girl B. Girl B says she likes him but didn't want to lead him on but stays friendly we eventually slept together and I like him but I'm still not sure about him. Boy A says I like her but I thought she didn't like me and I can't read her. We eventually slept together but it seems she's shying away again so I'm not sure about her.

Take all the feelings aside, it's a pretty solid story.

In your case if it was the same person saying My house was burnt down because of a cigarette and then changing it to a fireplace. That's just plan lying I guess 2 different stories even if it comes to the same outcome.
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Posted by coldwater
Its like they keep changing how the story ends. Like one day you might say ohh my house burned down because someone left a cigarrette on the carpet. The next two weeks go by and I ask you how things are going..... Then you say ohhh the fireplace wasnt built within code and it caused my house to burn down....





Wait. Perhaps, 2 weeks later,they found out that the house insurance investigators believed it was the fireplace.
Because when a house burns down, insurance must find out what happened and the cause.
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Maybe the cigarette rolled out of the fireplace onto the carpet? lol!


Two different people = two different perspectives and see things differently. Two different angles, different reads of body language, each sees something the other didn't see, etc.

Same person, two different stories - maybe after learning more facts, the details changed.

You just have to learn to read between the lines. I'd rather investigate myself and draw my own conclusions than based on what someone tells me. Has nothing to do with trust of that person, but all about making my own opinion based on facts.
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Thanks for the responses. I dont feel like this person is lying, but it does have my mind just racing!!! It definantely gives me something to think about. Its almost like how people misconceive one another. You know... how women feel men are in love with them and these men really are not. But, you know these women would swear before everyone that these men gave all these signals that led them to believe they like them. Now, if you poll the men they wonder how these women could have gotten such an idea. Its like we both had the same experiences, same dates, same conversations, so how can we not have the same conclusions? How can we not be on the same page? How could we both come out with different endings?

Probably if you asked both what happened, you could relate to each one of them. Two totally different outcomes. You know how they say...mine version, his version and the truth....

This person just seems to be doing all this within themselves. I guess depending on when you ask is how they relate to the situation...meaning their mood seems to change with however they identify with the situation at that time. Is that lying?


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Ok...so oldschoolflavor...so it is then safe to argue that Emotions eqauls logic? That whatever someones emotions/feelings/interpretations are at said given time are what their reality is at said given time? If what I am feeling/expressing has a direct effect on the truth then said feelings are indeed the "truth" as I see it. So that means that a persons truth is relative to whatever experiences they have had.

Ok.... then does that mean that the only "real truth" can be told by someone who can ideed take out all feelings, be void of all feelings and say view the situation from a neutral party? You know how you confide in a certain indivuals for advice for an objective opinion? That persons opnions, if it is emotion free , can become the only logical truth in the entire situation. Its also funy because many people will call Aquarians as cold and unfeeling an incapable of emotions. However, if you look at things in this manner, maybe we are one of the few signs that are capable of logically expressing the truth in certain matters because we can leave emotions out of the equation.....




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I'll assume this other person told you a different account of the story. Sorry to say but it's all kinda like very general here at the moment.

When I fancy someone it's just like oldsckoolflavor said I literally make up things that aren't there or what was so seemingly obvious wasn't so obvious later on. When I detach myself AFTER it has all happened when my feelings FINALLY went away (usually when I get rejected of course lol) I slap myself on the head and say oh my god why didn't I see that she was showing it to me but I didn't want to hear or see it.

Confiding in others can also be a problem. Does this person know more about the situation or does this person only know your side of the story? For example I confided in a friend recently I honestly just told her the basic stuff like "I think I might be starting to like this girl", she's said "forget it she's got a boyfriend". Later on she changed her mind and said "I'm 100% sure she'll stay for you" after she has heard more of my story, not sure if she heard her side but see how the opinions of others change as well?

I'll go on a limb here. Tell us the actual stories because you are being too vague. Your truth might be completely wrong, and perhaps this person is changing his story to make you see clearer.
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Posted by coldwater
Can we argue that our truth (aquarian) is fixed in nature and maybe someone based on emotion, that is emotion ruled...say cancer for instance...that their truth is changeable in nature?



it seems like a lot of analysing/talking just for some misunderstanding. lol

if they aren't even your close relatives/close people, it doesn't matter what they say about their house situation. Unfortunately if the house REALLY did burn down, it's sad and unfortunate. Hopefully they do have insurance to cover them. That's all you can wish them, and that they are all allright, no one got hurt.

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^^ oh yeah changable in nature. Sure, go with the flow. What does it matter right? If it's going to make you worry wart all over the place, you'll get nerves wracked until you need medication. What really matters is that they've survived the worst of the ordeal. Someone's house getting burned down is pretty damn serious 😕
that's your livlihood and if you have children, a family...geez. that's terrible! where are they going to go? Do they have a place for residence while their homes are getting refurbished?