Hello Everyone...

I'm new to the board...actually found this site because I was searching for information, maybe even my sanity. I'm dealing with the Scorpio man in my life and his moods! I've dumped him twice and he's returned twice...I think, I might be the crazy one, huh?

Anyway, just wanted to introduce myself. I plan on hanging around too.

Thanks for the welcome everyone...

To give details on my situation with this Scorpio man, where do I begin? LOL! He's terrific, loveable, kind, sweet, affectionate, passionate and completely devilicious at times. Then at the drop of a dime, he can be moody, bitchy, domineering, whiney and abrasive.

We've been dating for 1.5 years and intially I catered to him, always was the one to bend here or there to avoid friction, or to make him feel more comfortable, but I can't do it anymore. I've dumped him twice because I just can't deal with his moods and his possessiveness or what seems to be extreme secretiveness. He can be talkative and exciting, but also can be extemely quiet and brooding (sound bi-polar doesn't it?) Both times that I told him that's it...he seemed to get better, but it didn't last, or I wouldn't be typing here.

Thursday night, I told him, we needed sometime apart because I need to decide, if I want to continue in the relationship. He didn't explode right away, but got real quite, stared me down and blankly asked if I wanted to date other people. I told him, no. I just want sometime alone to figure out what it is, I want for myself. He didn't take to kindly to that and then had a tantrum. I again explained, it's outburst like that and his many faces of Eve that makes me question the sanity of continuing on. He then went on about how I didn't love him, or I would just accept him as he is...moods and all. And if I couldn't accept him as is..then I should move on. Ha! I agreed with him, hence my thinking about "time apart." Yet, that didn't go over to well either..lol!

Another thing that drives me bonkers is his need for "alone" time...which I've never had a problem with because I enjoy my time alone too. But it seems when I want my space, I'm not caring enough or attentive enough. But for him, it should just be acceptable. He's driving me nuts. Just today, he's called me 5x, when normally he dials me once a day. I've never clung to him, or been possessive or jealous and doesn't like that either. I tell him, go on out with your friends have a good time, call me when you're available...to me that shows self-confidence and assurance, to him that means, I don't care...

I had a full-life before I met him and refuse to stop my world just because he's available and want to spend time. I truly thought the Scorpian Male moods, possessiveness, secretiveness and jealousy were a myth but after all I've read here and elsewhere, I'm beginning to believe it's true. My youngest sister is a Scorpio and she's nothing like this..maybe it's different because we are so close. Who knows. Anyway, he's driving me nutso!

Btw, I'm Libra Rising and my Moon is in Pisces. He's a triple Scorpio. Yikes!