Here I am...

I'm back to dxp and I still see the people who initially come here for love advice, I had taken a break from dxp because I noticed that so many people here just do whatever to be above you mostly when it comes to relationships, it became like a competition and whenever you write about your love life (which a lot of people here do) all you get is...negative posts ..at least most of the time and it all depends on each person's relationship with said sign but only you and that person knows the real truth. There is nothing that someone here can tell you about your crush that your "crush" himself or herself won't tell you.

TIP: JUST BE HONEST ..WITH YOURSELF AND THOSE AROUND YOU.

💕💛💚💙🖤

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Posted by Aerazo
I'm back to dxp and I still see the people who initially come here for love advice, I had taken a break from dxp because I noticed that so many people here just do whatever to be above you mostly when it comes to relationships, it became like a competition and whenever you write about your love life (which a lot of people here do) all you get is...negative posts ..at least most of the time and it all depends on each person's relationship with said sign but only you and that person knows the real truth. There is nothing that someone here can tell you about your crush that your "crush" himself or herself won't tell you.

TIP: JUST BE HONEST ..WITH YOURSELF AND THOSE AROUND YOU.

💕💛💚💙🖤

Hey, I remember you!

Welcome back. 🤗

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Thanks!!! I'm happy to be back!

@Aerazo

People CAN and DO give you great insights here. You just have to wait. Sometimes long for someone to come and be a breath of fresh air for you. And help you to understand yourself or your partner.

So YES people CAN tell you what your partner won’t! And NO you aren’t always know what is going on and you need some push or kick in a head...this is what we are here for.

And trolling of course. I mean @TheTinMan is...

Agree with you 100%

How are things with the cap?

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@Aerazo

People CAN and DO give you great insights here. You just have to wait. Sometimes long for someone to come and be a breath of fresh air for you. And help you to understand yourself or your partner.

So YES people CAN tell you what your partner won’t! And NO you aren’t always know what is going on and you need some push or kick in a head...this is what we are here for.

And trolling of course. I mean @TheTinMan is...

Lol I do miss the trolling.

It is true and actually I have people here who helped me understand a lot about me and the relationship but I think sometimes people don't ask the right questions, they (incl. myself at the beginning) just expect to come here and ask "Does this (sign) like me" lol

Posted by pinkbird03
Agree with you 100%

How are things with the cap?

Everything is good! I see that he has a good vision for us. Taking things slow, day to day.

☺

So, I read somewhere that sometimes Aquas have a vision into the future of what we want that other signs don't see and it takes a while for it to unfold for them. I think that's what happened because once I was ready to let him go since I told him I didn't see him wanting the same as me, he never left and now he's interested in us growing together. (financially, spiritually,etc)

Relationship wise we aren't together, I don't think we are ready for it yet.

Posted by Leo188881
What do you mean about people wanting to be above you and the competition part? As in they want to boast about how good their relationship is or they make a new post that's more interesting or relevant than the last one?

I felt that once someone says that things are good, people will come negatively.

If you say your (sign) man/woman has not asked you out yet or something like that then someone comes and says "Then forget it because mine did this and that" so comparing relationships isn't very good to take as advice.

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by pinkbird03
Agree with you 100%

How are things with the cap?

Everything is good! I see that he has a good vision for us. Taking things slow, day to day.

☺

So, I read somewhere that sometimes Aquas have a vision into the future of what we want that other signs don't see and it takes a while for it to unfold for them. I think that's what happened because once I was ready to let him go since I told him I didn't see him wanting the same as me, he never left and now he's interested in us growing together. (financially, spiritually,etc)

Relationship wise we aren't together, I don't think we are ready for it yet.

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Things seem positive at least. Happy to hear! Some men just move slow and that will never change.

I found this comment of yours interesting. “So, I read somewhere that sometimes Aquas have a vision into the future of what we want that other signs don't see and it takes a while for it to unfold for them” I started dating an Aquarius with Capricorn cusp. Everything was good until he started multiple new businesses and didn’t have time for a relationship. He has a vision of the future that I don’t quite understand, but I’m starting to understand more just recently than ever before.

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What do you mean about people wanting to be above you and the competition part? As in they want to boast about how good their relationship is or they make a new post that's more interesting or relevant than the last one?

I felt that once someone says that things are good, people will come negatively.

If you say your (sign) man/woman has not asked you out yet or something like that then someone comes and says "Then forget it because mine did this and that" so comparing relationships isn't very good to take as advice.

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Yep I see a lot of this. No one listens to what you say or believe you. They think your perspective is wrong when they don’t know the whole picture of your story.

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Posted by pinkbird03
Agree with you 100%

How are things with the cap?

Everything is good! I see that he has a good vision for us. Taking things slow, day to day.

☺

So, I read somewhere that sometimes Aquas have a vision into the future of what we want that other signs don't see and it takes a while for it to unfold for them. I think that's what happened because once I was ready to let him go since I told him I didn't see him wanting the same as me, he never left and now he's interested in us growing together. (financially, spiritually,etc)

Relationship wise we aren't together, I don't think we are ready for it yet.

Things seem positive at least. Happy to hear! Some men just move slow and that will never change.

I found this comment of yours interesting. “So, I read somewhere that sometimes Aquas have a vision into the future of what we want that other signs don't see and it takes a while for it to unfold for them” I started dating an Aquarius with Capricorn cusp. Everything was good until he started multiple new businesses and didn’t have time for a relationship. He has a vision of the future that I don’t quite understand, but I’m starting to understand more just recently than ever before.

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yes I actually heard it in a Aquarius tarot horoscope video on YouTube recently.

I see what you mean, he also has joined several businesses Ventures and he has been wanting to include me in them but he hadn't worked out well because of our other relationship since things werent clear I felt he was mixing things up so I told him that I don't like that because as a business woman I always have everything separated from one to the other. So now I recently he told me that he wants to work with me and a new business venture and he's really dedicated to it and I'm glad that he can trust me with that.

You probably remember when I started with him and I posted about him here I always said that I saw us together as a power couple that we could do so much in business and in life in general and I think that's what he wasn't seeing at the beginning or maybe didn't trust me enough.

☺

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Posted by pinkbird03
Agree with you 100%

How are things with the cap?

Everything is good! I see that he has a good vision for us. Taking things slow, day to day.

☺

So, I read somewhere that sometimes Aquas have a vision into the future of what we want that other signs don't see and it takes a while for it to unfold for them. I think that's what happened because once I was ready to let him go since I told him I didn't see him wanting the same as me, he never left and now he's interested in us growing together. (financially, spiritually,etc)

Relationship wise we aren't together, I don't think we are ready for it yet.

Things seem positive at least. Happy to hear! Some men just move slow and that will never change.

I found this comment of yours interesting. “So, I read somewhere that sometimes Aquas have a vision into the future of what we want that other signs don't see and it takes a while for it to unfold for them” I started dating an Aquarius with Capricorn cusp. Everything was good until he started multiple new businesses and didn’t have time for a relationship. He has a vision of the future that I don’t quite understand, but I’m starting to understand more just recently than ever before.

yes I actually heard it in a Aquarius tarot horoscope video on YouTube recently.

I see what you mean, he also has joined several businesses Ventures and he has been wanting to include me in them but he hadn't worked out well because of our other relationship since things werent clear I felt he was mixing things up so I told him that I don't like that because as a business woman I always have everything separated from one to the other. So now I recently he told me that he wants to work with me and a new business venture and he's really dedicated to it and I'm glad that he can trust me with that.

You probably remember when I started with him and I posted about him here I always said that I saw us together as a power couple that we could do so much in business and in life in general and I think that's what he wasn't seeing at the beginning or maybe didn't trust me enough.

☺

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It may have been hard to separate work and personal relationships when feelings are involved too. But it’s great he trusts you and is serious about this now. Do you think it’s going to turn into a romantic exclusive relationship eventually?

Aerazo is an Aqua. What she says is true. But let's not forget this is a forum. People share experiences. If you really want expert advice, go see a psychologist. But here, people come for validation. For second opinions. That they usually choose to ignore, because "they know better". Actually, it is just an excuse to actively think about their obsession (love interest) when everything else fails. It's like a drug, if you want. It goes nowhere, but it feels good and it feeds, usually, false hopes. Sadly...

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Posted by Leo188881
What do you mean about people wanting to be above you and the competition part? As in they want to boast about how good their relationship is or they make a new post that's more interesting or relevant than the last one?

I felt that once someone says that things are good, people will come negatively.

If you say your (sign) man/woman has not asked you out yet or something like that then someone comes and says "Then forget it because mine did this and that" so comparing relationships isn't very good to take as advice.

Sugar coating the truth is like sprinkling it with lies. You have to accept that people aren't going to tell you, your relationship is perfect if you complain about being ignored, or a guy that's seeing another woman or someone that keeps leaving but comes back or a guy you have a crush on that you haven't even spoken to or attempted to talk to. People give you their experiences so that you can see that you're being treated like shit to find someone better, or so that you can approach your situation a different way, or to explain how a sign acts. I don't know why you're being jealous of people. If lies is what you want, why even ask? Just go stick filtered, happy fake photos on instagram if you don't like reality. You created a topic about how people are "negative" by insulting everyone.

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You took this completely different. I've never said I'm jealous or I dont think I even sound jealous. I mainly said "We don't ask the right questions".

Again, I'm not saying everyone here is negative or is bad to ask those questions, I said "Now that I'm back I see that people still ask the same questions"

I have used my experiences to talk to others here as well and I have taken other people's advice weather they are good or bad. I'm just focusing on how some people make it like a competition. Maybe you haven't seen it but I did, not only with me but other users, and not in a trolling way.

Obviously if someone is not being tested fairly we all jump in to let them know, from what we see. But a small conversation cannot be used to judge a whole relationship, that's why I said that general questions are complicated to answer since we don't know how the relationship actually is.

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@Aerazo glad to hear things are good! Well Caps take freaking forever lol and are so stubborn. After about a 3 month break, my Cap & I got back together. It’s been 3+ months back together. He’s still so worried that it will not work & he will get hurt just because that’s what his past looks like. But we take steps forward so that’s what I look at & are talking about living together & taking adventures in a couple of year. So we shall see!!

As for this place, there is good advice & bad. You have to remember people say things from their perspective. But you are also so right!! No one ever knows the whole truth except the two involved.

Good to see you back!

Thanks!!! I'm glad you and the Cap are good again! I think sometimes we jump right into things afraid that if we don't hold that person down right away they will go away AND sometimes we feel like by allowing them to miss us will make them change their mind but truth is, if its the right connection, both people feel it and see it, they are honest with each other, then everything will keep unfolding. 🙂

Is complicated but patience and understanding is needed.

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Amazing song!!! I actually saw them live last year! they are much older now of course but always with the good vibes!!!

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Amazing song!!! I actually saw them live last year! they are much older now of course but always with the good vibes!!!

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So lucky 🍀🍀🍀

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Amazing song!!! I actually saw them live last year! they are much older now of course but always with the good vibes!!!

So lucky 🍀🍀🍀

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I felt lucky to be able to see them, I used to listen to their songs because of my older sister, they aren't from "my generation" but I've always loved their music.