@saggurl88
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Posted by hazyFlo
Watching movies/shows, searching the web and social media, reading, working out, drinking wine, eating, crying, listening to music and dancing, writing, painting, spending time with family, masturbating, lurking on dxp, being with my daughter, talking on the phone, ignoring text messages and calls, sulking in old memories, cleaning, baking/cooking, rolling around in bed, hissing at people who annoy the shit out of me 🐍 , rejecting people or family who try to make me do shit I don’t want too, driving around by myself at night with loud music..If I’m not crazy about your company and presence, than its hard to get me out of the house.
AWWWWWW!!!!! You're a sweetheart! Thanks for all these ideas. I need to practice my hissing, though!
Whats funny is all of these are still associated with a party of 1 and making room for a 2nd if you feel like it lol

Well I love amusement parks, driving up to the cliffs at night, cooking together, playing video games, really anything with good company.
Posted by Smidge
Sex
I wish! lol
Posted by hazyFlo
Watching movies/shows, searching the web and social media, reading, working out, drinking wine, eating, crying, listening to music and dancing, writing, painting, spending time with family, masturbating, lurking on dxp, being with my daughter, talking on the phone, ignoring text messages and calls, sulking in old memories, cleaning, baking/cooking, rolling around in bed, hissing at people who annoy the shit out of me 🐍 , rejecting people or family who try to make me do shit I don’t want too, driving around by myself at night with loud music..If I’m not crazy about your company and presence, than its hard to get me out of the house.
AWWWWWW!!!!! You're a sweetheart! Thanks for all these ideas. I need to practice my hissing, though!
Whats funny is all of these are still associated with a party of 1 and making room for a 2nd if you feel like it lol
No I meant as in these are the things I do when I’m alone lol
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Well what do you do with friends that you think are fun. What would peak your interest? I'm need some ideas that are appealing instead of just talking. lol I'm not really a fun person 😆 I'm introverted too I need a little push when it comes to fun.
Posted by aqualady0118
Well I love amusement parks, driving up to the cliffs at night, cooking together, playing video games, really anything with good company.
Thank you, these ideas are really great too!
In this case, I would try to get him to do the MBTI test. Aquas have very different interests. For instance, Mr Aqua is an ISTP. So he's really into anything with a motor, loves outdoor activities.
Unlike some descriptions of Aqua, he couldn't care less about social issues or politics, high art, or reading. He's all about DOING, but as an individual with a small group.
When we're together, he's either in the garage working on something or playing PC games, or watching TV with me. We don't really go out much at all (both of us are introverted).
Posted by hazyFlo
Watching movies/shows, searching the web and social media, reading, working out, drinking wine, eating, crying, listening to music and dancing, writing, painting, spending time with family, masturbating, lurking on dxp, being with my daughter, talking on the phone, ignoring text messages and calls, sulking in old memories, cleaning, baking/cooking, rolling around in bed, hissing at people who annoy the shit out of me 🐍 , rejecting people or family who try to make me do shit I don’t want too, driving around by myself at night with loud music..If I’m not crazy about your company and presence, than its hard to get me out of the house.
All this but replace wine with drinking coffee and I have no kids, but I do have a cat. so spending time with animals.
😄
As for what to do for fun with others.
Be in nature, hiking, camping, exploring. Take road trips, stay away from huge crowds as that can be draining. Fairs and amusements parks are okay, on off season days. I do enjoy concerts, but again, depends on what is going on in my life and the type of music involved. Movies in the park I am a huge fan of, because combining several things. movies+nature+it can be very intimate 🙂
I can add more but this should give you a decent idea.
Posted by hazyFlo
Watching movies/shows, searching the web and social media, reading, working out, drinking wine, eating, crying, listening to music and dancing, writing, painting, spending time with family, masturbating, lurking on dxp, being with my daughter, talking on the phone, ignoring text messages and calls, sulking in old memories, cleaning, baking/cooking, rolling around in bed, hissing at people who annoy the shit out of me 🐍 , rejecting people or family who try to make me do shit I don’t want too, driving around by myself at night with loud music..If I’m not crazy about your company and presence, than its hard to get me out of the house.
AWWWWWW!!!!! You're a sweetheart! Thanks for all these ideas. I need to practice my hissing, though!
Whats funny is all of these are still associated with a party of 1 and making room for a 2nd if you feel like it lol
No I meant as in these are the things I do when I’m alone lol
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lol
Posted by sultrykitty
In this case, I would try to get him to do the MBTI test. Aquas have very different interests. For instance, Mr Aqua is an ISTP. So he's really into anything with a motor, loves outdoor activities.Unlike some descriptions of Aqua, he couldn't care less about social issues or politics, high art, or reading. He's all about DOING, but as an individual with a small group.
When we're together, he's either in the garage working on something or playing PC games, or watching TV with me. We don't really go out much at all (both of us are introverted).
How do I do that is test?
Saggurl. Wud it b easier for u to ask him directly? lol
Posted by sultrykitty
In this case, I would try to get him to do the MBTI test. Aquas have very different interests. For instance, Mr Aqua is an ISTP. So he's really into anything with a motor, loves outdoor activities.Unlike some descriptions of Aqua, he couldn't care less about social issues or politics, high art, or reading. He's all about DOING, but as an individual with a small group.
When we're together, he's either in the garage working on something or playing PC games, or watching TV with me. We don't really go out much at all (both of us are introverted).
How do I do that is test?
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Just Google for free MBTI test.
Posted by saweetz1988
Saggurl. Wud it b easier for u to ask him directly? lol
No. I was looking for ideas. I want to be able to "think outside the box" 😉
Thanks everyone. A lot of these are really great. I'm so out of the loop with hanging out with the opposite sex and trying to find things to do that is friendly and not too romantic lol
I'm a big nature person too so I love all the outdoor options
Posted by saweetz1988
Saggurl. Wud it b easier for u to ask him directly? lolNo. I was looking for ideas. I want to be able to "think outside the box" 😉
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No no either u think out of the box or not! That's nothing u can train 😂 Either u r a weido or not.
But I'm sure he'd be more than happy to suggest something if u ask him 🌷
Its like the others said, we are the ones to drive through the night alone with the music blasting, or sitting on the roof top 12th floor all by ourselves staring at the sky while smoking and drinking 😂 Or do night walks
BUT we don't mind sharing those things with our SO.
Friends not so much though
When I was single I used to sit on the rooftop very often (summernights) and I was talking walks at 2am lol that was MY get away, but now I don't need it anymore
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I was just wondering what type of stuff you guys do for fun. How does a person get you out of the house (and your head)
Can someone give me examples of stuff that seems fun or activities that you prefer. I need some alternatives to movies or restaurants.