@Cancerleo91
8 Years
Casual touching
What does casual touching from a man indicate
Casual touching can suggest interest or comfort, but it varies by individual. If he frequently touches your hand and maintains contact, it may indicate attraction. However, changes in behavior, like acting distant, can also be signs of mixed feelings. Consider his overall actions and context to better understand his intentions.
I only do that with my partner.
Is he a pisces venus?
In body language, this shows interest, but rather in a friendly way. Hands and shoulders are "friendly" zones. If he grabs your hand, almost holding it, it shows support. Shoulder rubbing means "pals". He is interested to know more about you. If he starts targeting the more intimate zones (breasts, face), he starts to see you as a potential relationship material. This is strictly body language.
As for Aquas, no, they don't touch everybody like that. They are extremely private. He is basically inviting you in his personal space.
Posted by AerialView
Is he a pisces venus?was just gonna ask the same
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I hold hands and be as close as possible when i walk with my partner.
hmm I’d have to ask to find out if he has Pisces in Venus.. yeah it’s definitelt more hands than anything else. Like he reaches around mind and let’s them touch or let’s me stand really close to him when we talk. I don’t know him very well as I just started working at his employment so time will tell if it becomes anything. He is giving mixed signals so as a cancer it makes my guard go way high lol so it may not become anything but good to know lots of touching isn’t normal.
I am an Aquarius moon and I am very direct when I like someone. Aquarius don't move sideways like crabs when there is an interest. They are direct, to the point and leaves no room for guessing. So the subtle ways that you are accustomed as a water sign is not that prevalent in Air and Fire. We are direct, upfront, direct and in your face about it. Now to answer your question, touchy feeling is not my thing unless I am feeling someone. But if you are being touched and remain unsure of his interest then he finds you warm, and polite and likes being around you. Otherwise he would directly ask you out, tell you he likes you and show you by coming around alot. 🙂
Posted by Metaworld
I am an Aquarius moon and I am very direct when I like someone. Aquarius don't move sideways like crabs when there is an interest. They are direct, to the point and leaves no room for guessing. So the subtle ways that you are accustomed as a water sign is not that prevalent in Air and Fire. We are direct, upfront, direct and in your face about it. Now to answer your question, touchy feeling is not my thing unless I am feeling someone. But if you are being touched and remain unsure of his interest then he finds you warm, and polite and likes being around you. Otherwise he would directly ask you out, tell you he likes you and show you by coming around alot. 🙂
Ok that makes sense. I think he’s feeling me out more than anything. Today was interesting as he has been cold for a few days.. where as the first week he talked the whole day, laughing and smiling at each other and him coming around me a lot and trying to touch my hand, trying to stand over me when I’m sitting, I just felt him there a lot. And then the 2nd week it was like boom! Frozen lol nothing. He didn’t look my direction.. avoided eye contact. Didn’t want to smile as much. And then this week it’s like he’s coming around slowly so making eye contact again but I noticed he would stay close but not directly.. like he would stand away from my desk but be looking at me from the distance through the reflection of a glass or mirror. Or I would be talking to a customer and he would come by and look at the resident but be nodding to what I was saying and after I’d finish talking he’d have this curious look about what I said.. like he was impressed? Hard to explain but his eye brow raised and he smiled and like lingered a bit before walking away. And now he’s just been asking me random questions like “what do u think about that Jeep?” And I’d say it’s awesomr! And he’d smile and tell me about the Jeep he drives.. it’s off for sure. Now I don’t know too much but I think he might have a Gf so need to confirm that next week when I get back to work but or boss was talking to him about something that was coming up and I could of sworn she asked him if he was bringing his gf so this could also just be him being polite and I’m reading into things way to much.
Posted by RooSagicorn
Does he touch your arm? I had an aqua act like this. I think he was interested and wanted me to make a move. I never did. Nothing ever happened. This went on over a three year period & stopped when he met his now wife.
He has touched my arm before but mainly hands.
Posted by Seleukos
I avoid touching like it's acid.What if you like someone? Don't you want hugs or kisses?
Nope. I don't trust people.
That's really sad. I hope you learn to trust again with someone deserving of it 💖
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I agree I hope you find someone you want to touch kol
Posted by Seleukos
I avoid touching like it's acid.What if you like someone? Don't you want hugs or kisses?
Nope. I don't trust people.
That's really sad. I hope you learn to trust again with someone deserving of it 💖
I agree I hope you find someone you want to touch lol**
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Posted by compy
In body language, this shows interest, but rather in a friendly way. Hands and shoulders are "friendly" zones. If he grabs your hand, almost holding it, it shows support. Shoulder rubbing means "pals". He is interested to know more about you. If he starts targeting the more intimate zones (breasts, face), he starts to see you as a potential relationship material. This is strictly body language.As for Aquas, no, they don't touch everybody like that. They are extremely private. He is basically inviting you in his personal space.
Comply , my exterminator just got fired. Ive always told him he is way too touchy. He touched someone at another site that he serviced and she was not having it. To him its all innocent, and it is BUT I told him I don't like anyone touching me who isn't my man . I was trying to look out for him. He does it with out even realizing it
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Was he an Aquarius?
Posted by HaziiFlo
If I like him enough, I’ll touch his dick when no one is looking.Wow what a bold Woman!
Their reaction is cute, they blush smile and stiffen up.
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Who? Aren’t they grab your ass? You touching boys...that’s no no...try with man!
Posted by compy
In body language, this shows interest, but rather in a friendly way. Hands and shoulders are "friendly" zones. If he grabs your hand, almost holding it, it shows support. Shoulder rubbing means "pals". He is interested to know more about you. If he starts targeting the more intimate zones (breasts, face), he starts to see you as a potential relationship material. This is strictly body language.As for Aquas, no, they don't touch everybody like that. They are extremely private. He is basically inviting you in his personal space.
Okay that is good to know. Thank you for responses! 🙂
Posted by RooSagicorn
Does he touch your arm? I had an aqua act like this. I think he was interested and wanted me to make a move. I never did. Nothing ever happened. This went on over a three year period & stopped when he met his now wife.
Dang that sucks 😢 I’m sorry you went through that
Posted by Metaworld
I am an Aquarius moon and I am very direct when I like someone. Aquarius don't move sideways like crabs when there is an interest. They are direct, to the point and leaves no room for guessing. So the subtle ways that you are accustomed as a water sign is not that prevalent in Air and Fire. We are direct, upfront, direct and in your face about it. Now to answer your question, touchy feeling is not my thing unless I am feeling someone. But if you are being touched and remain unsure of his interest then he finds you warm, and polite and likes being around you. Otherwise he would directly ask you out, tell you he likes you and show you by coming around alot. 🙂
Okay that makes sense. Thank you for your response! Yeah I have to remember that the crab way is not everyone’s way. I am not direct at all lol it’s something that definitely alerted me that I am not a full Leo. I never got that trait, that and it takes effort to be confratational.. doesn’t come naturally for me.
That "spark" you feel is called Oxytocin. Nothing more than a neurochemical women release upon touch. Ever wonder why Men never talk about a "spark"? Because they don't release much Oxytocin at all. Basically any guy that touches you will make you feel this "spark".
Well damn. My life is a lie lol jk that makes sense. Freaking brain chemistry!!!
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Just curious if it’s normal for aqua male to touch hands with people often. He’s always touching my hand or letting our shoulders touch when we walk. To me it definitely makes me feel a spark but I’m wondering if he does this with everyone, doesn’t mind people invading his bubble. Am I reading too much into this? I like him so just curious if it means anything. We would stare into each other’s eyes often when we would talk for the first couple weeks we met and now he is very distant, won’t look at me, acts shy or even sad around me so I’m just like eh.. gonna give him space and I kind of follow his lead on that but he still keeps touching my hand when I ask for help with something and he lets it stay there for longer than normal so I have no idea if it means anything.