topgunphantom
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Hey guys, Advice pls?
SMH this sounds so familiar. I have been in a relationship with a Aqua man for roughly 4 years and this is very common. He will profess his undying love and then get on twitter and flirt with girls and trust me he is texting them too. I dealt with this during the early stages of my relationship mainly because I can be a flirt as well. But I have caught him numerous times doing this after the grace period. You can warn her as a friend but being an Aqua girl she must see it for herself to believe it. Just be a good friend because this might end terribly.
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My co-worker is an Aqua who recently started dating a fellow Aqua who pursued her.
They seem to have developed a public relationship on social media even confessing their love for another after just five days of dating.
Problem is, her Aqua likes to be in multiple relationships with ppl and seems to flirt with just about everyone including another girl we work with.
I like my friend but I have seen him treat her like a toy.
Should I warn my friend or just let the relationship take its course?
From my personal experience, you can't really warn them. Aquarians like a challenge, and we love to play mental chess too. Your friend probably sees him as being unconquerable, and she has roped him, while he seeks pleasure in finding women to desire him.
Doesn't mean he doesn't care for her, but it could mean he cares more about his own ego. Unfortunately, most aquarians I know, myself included, enjoy learning the hard way. And the more you try to tell them otherwise, the more they will rebel. Because we Aquarians also love knowledge, and usually believe we know it all or have it figured out.
Give it time, if it's not right, it will end. Aquarians that move that fast, will develop a deep bond, but can move on just as fast from that deep bond.
If you've seen all these red flags, then chances are she has too
Stop believing that the only explanation for why a woman would choose a dog is b/c she must somehow be unaware that he's a dog. NOT TRUE. Some women see the same red flags that you see (if anything might see MORE than others on the outside since she's the 1 spending more time with him) & yet still make the choice to go with the bad guy. Women do it all the time
Every woman doesn't have high self-esteem. Every woman doesn't realize that she deserves better. Every woman doesn't necessarily want better, depending on whatever phase she's in in life.
Don't say a word. It's not your place. Plus, again it's just your assumption that she isn't aware of his behavior. If he's all out in the open like that, then trust me she knows but for some reason has decided to give him a chance anyway. Somebody else will most likely tell her anyways if they're all out in the open with it
She's probably eventually gonna get multiple warnings from others, rather it be jealous girls watching their facebook love statuses to each other (lol), ex girlfriends, or maybe even other co-workers that are just as worried about her. Somebody will eventually tell her. Should you be the one to tell her? No. She's not in imminent danger + she's a grown woman
Stop believing that the only explanation for why a woman would choose a dog is b/c she must somehow be unaware that he's a dog. NOT TRUE. Some women see the same red flags that you see (if anything might see MORE than others on the outside since she's the 1 spending more time with him) & yet still make the choice to go with the bad guy. Women do it all the time
Every woman doesn't have high self-esteem. Every woman doesn't realize that she deserves better. Every woman doesn't necessarily want better, depending on whatever phase she's in in life.
Don't say a word. It's not your place. Plus, again it's just your assumption that she isn't aware of his behavior. If he's all out in the open like that, then trust me she knows but for some reason has decided to give him a chance anyway. Somebody else will most likely tell her anyways if they're all out in the open with it
She's probably eventually gonna get multiple warnings from others, rather it be jealous girls watching their facebook love statuses to each other (lol), ex girlfriends, or maybe even other co-workers that are just as worried about her. Somebody will eventually tell her. Should you be the one to tell her? No. She's not in imminent danger + she's a grown woman
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Problem is, her Aqua likes to be in multiple relationships with ppl and seems to flirt with just about everyone including another girl we work with.
I like my friend but I have seen him treat her like a toy.
Should I warn my friend or just let the relationship take its course?