How long will Aquarius be mad?

Could you please give insight on a Aquarius man. I have been talking to this Aquarius man for a month he is really sweet and initiates everything (all conversation and hangouts). He is pretty consistent and would talk at least 6 times out of the week. But last weekend we hung out and he stayed the night and saw a message on my phone saying “good morning babe” he then called me a player and ignored my text and calls the remainder of the day. I reached out to him again after giving him a day break and he responded a few times but was very distant and has been distant. Do you think he is done with me and gonna cut me off or is there still a chance to fix it? Also this week after ignoring me for a week he text me and said this is my new number and asked how i was doing but now he is ignoring me again. Why would he go out of his way to tell me he changed his number just to ignore me. I really like him, is there anyway do get him back?

@eyeroll i am an aries

@monisa26 how am I chasing him? He went out of his way to tell me he got a new number and contact me, he was the one talking about a relationship with me. I have not contacted him since he texted me last week

@monalisa26 We have not had sex yet, we have went out a few times and he enjoys being around me so i let him spend the night and he just cuddles me the whole night

Who was the text from? 🤔

@timone it was from an ex but he has not even let me explain. He has just been cold since then and only spoke to me a few times when he use to talk almost everyday and hangout on weekends

Posted by Kobelover41196

@timone it was from an ex but he has not even let me explain. He has just been cold since then and only spoke to me a few times when he use to talk almost everyday and hangout on weekends

Why didn't you tell him that when it happened? I wouldn't want to invest in someone who's not invested in me either.

@timone I didn’t realize why he was mad until i saw my phone and then he was silent and told me he would talk to me later but didnt

Posted by Kobelover41196

@timone I didn’t realize why he was mad until i saw my phone and then he was silent and told me he would talk to me later but didnt

Then clear things up now? 🤷

Until you bug him enough and entertain him with all the unanswered calls and texts he's ignored, to show him that he means more to you than the other guy.

You're gonna have to put on your running shoes for this one.

This is the thing I can't stand about Aquarius men, they aren't even that upset about it, but they love to make you suffer if they catch you slipping.

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Posted by Kobelover41196

@eyeroll i am an aries

Fixed signs are not as aloof as they can sometimes appear. It’s a defense mechanism. Explain to him what happened and why you haven’t cut off your roster. Because you’re not official? Or if you don’t want to be official explain to him what you do want. Air sign men are mostly logical and will understand an honest explanation. After the honest explanation move on from it and leave emotions out of it. Aquarius men can be manipulative and if you don’t set boundaries upfront they will test them.

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Don't care for the wording especially the assumption of manipulation but in general this^^^

Giving you his new number means he is muling things over and doesn't want to drop you. He was hurt. Plain and simple.

Apologize for this misunderstanding and explain to him it was a ex...only. don't blame him for it.

Btw anger is moon. The root of anger is something not going the way you wanted. It's a reaction of emotional rejection in that way.

So, tell him what's up and ask to talk about it...or do nothing..and hope he lets it go.

Honestly It's a matter of do you want to put in the effort to reconcile and show your understanding. Maybe talk this out.

@ Lostthoughts so you believe there is a way to get him back? If I just send him a message explaining?

@ saggurl88 have you dealt with aqua man before? His birthday is feb 13, so should i send him a message? He did not respond to my message last week when i said “hope you have a good day”

Posted by Kobelover41196

@ saggurl88 have you dealt with aqua man before? His birthday is feb 13, so should i send him a message? He did not respond to my message last week when i said “hope you have a good day”

Yeah. A couple of times and I have too much pride for them and refuse to grovel.

They love being chased and you have to make things up to their satisfaction. I'd rather just give up cause I don't like dedicating tons of time to groveling. I get bored when the attention has to be fully on them and I have to do a lot of work, I'm lazy.

So you can get him back by being shameless and messaging him a gazillion times, they do not get turned off by this, they get pleasure from it.

If you never messed up, it would never have come to this, but now that it has, you have to kiss his ass until he accepts that you want him and his ego has been satisfied.

Or he may come back weeks, months, years later like nothing ever happened. But if you want to fix it now, then bug him.

They don't get turned off by you being clingy, they like it, - if they really liked you.

I'm being serious too. I'm not trolling or kidding around. They make you make it up to them if you fucked up bad, and you did. They don't like being played like they are a fool, so you have to put tons of effort in, while they ignore you for a while.

If you do, he will come around, start answering and things will get back on track.

Also, If you asked for an Aquarius's advice, they will just tell you to give up. I'm not sure why they say this sort of thing when that is the last thing they want you to do.

So if you want him back, message him with the truth or the explanation eyeroll said, and stay on his ass until he forgives you.

@ saggurl88

Thank you but the only thing is i am very prideful and he is very attractive and i have never chased a man. Also idk if he was playing games even though he said he would never fumble a woman like me, do aquarius men tend to pretend like they like someone?

Posted by Kobelover41196

@ saggurl88

Thank you but the only thing is i am very prideful and he is very attractive and i have never chased a man. Also idk if he was playing games even though he said he would never fumble a woman like me, do aquarius men tend to pretend like they like someone?

No, they are pretty straight up, but don't like being played.

He didn't fumble you, you fumbled him.

If you have too much pride, you can leave it alone and if he likes you enough, he may come back after a while, or fix it now by chasing.

Aquarius is like an unruly 5 year old when they get upset. Very unpredictable unless you are chasing them around, trying to catch them.

This is something you need to fix to make it better. He's not playing games, he probably thinks you are.

They can be very sensitive.

Attraction doesn't play into it, IMO. If he liked you, then he liked you.

If an Aquarius really like you, they never really go anywhere. They will be in the same spot that you left him and will accept you back, but that's after a long time. Do you want to take that chance and wait and see?

@saggurl88 i just sent him a message, lets see if he responds. I am nervous that he may not

Posted by Kobelover41196

@saggurl88 i just sent him a message, lets see if he responds. I am nervous that he may not

Good luck! Don't be nervous, if your explanation is a good one, he will come around.

@saggurl88 he responded once and i dont think he will respond again, I might try again next week

@saggurl88 he responded once and i dont think he will respond again, I might try again next week

Where is the moon and Venus?

@aquarius09 his moon is sagittarius and his venus is aries