@Wd25
3 Years
Does this Aquarius guy like me or not?
Does this Aquarius guy like you or just being friendly
Based on his repeated approach, compliments, and gestures like smiling and fist bumps, he likely has some interest beyond friendliness. His actions suggest he might be attracted to you, but without more context, it is difficult to confirm. Pay attention to consistent behavior and subtle signals for clearer insight.
This aqua guy I didn’t know approached me at the gym last month when I had my headphones on, which to me says please don’t talk to me I’m working out!
Anyway he tells me his name, wants to know mine, gives me a few compliments and tells me random stuff about his life, such as him being recently divorced.
Since this time he virtually always approaches me, and either offers his hand for a handshake or fist bumps me, smiles, and the last wk winked and smiled. Sometimes he does ignore me, but being an aqua I just give him the same m treatment.
Once he called my beautiful and another time he waited for my outside with his friend and chatted.
Yet a couple of days ago I approached him, we had a brief chat, fist bumped me. then he walked off saying he felt poorly!
I’ve not seen him fist bump or approach any other girls at the gym, but I don’t know him outside the gym to be able to tell what he’s like
I’m an aqua myself and I can’t work out if he’s just being friendly or has a slight attraction to me.
You’ll probably never know unless you ask him out?
Personally I wouldn't do the things he did if I didn't find a woman attractive, but I wouldn't wait a month either
But you’re an Aries ... out there
He’s an Aqua ... more ambiguous and unpredictable
He. Likes. You.
Personally I wouldn't do the things he did if I didn't find a woman attractive, but I wouldn't wait a month either
But you’re an Aries ... out there
He’s an Aqua ... more ambiguous and unpredictable
Aqua women I've met have been direct and really straight forward when it comes to meeting up, albeit really busy.
Fist bumps or high fives = a safe way of having body contact.
Spending time waiting with someone = investment.
Calling someone beautiful = a safe compliment.
Saying he is divorced= saying he is available, open to dating.
Winked and smiled = cheeky flirting
Let's not pretend he speaks some alien language. He wants to rail her. She's just giving nothing back in terms of affection. Saturn _Returns is 100% right on this.
She’s probably just saying she wishes he would be more direct and actually ask her out to meet outside the gym instead of fist bumping her. 🤨 I’m assuming they aren’t in high school anymore.
This is the problem with online dating. It has made men socially awkward as fuck to the point they don’t even know how to approach women anymore.
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This
It seems people have been ruined by virtual dating and have no clue about social skills
I agree the fist bumping is juvenile 🥴
I’m wondering how many people know how to be romantic at all. It seems the straight in with the sex thing has ruined that
Kind of sad 😕
Personally I wouldn't do the things he did if I didn't find a woman attractive, but I wouldn't wait a month either
But you’re an Aries ... out there
He’s an Aqua ... more ambiguous and unpredictable
Aqua women I've met have been direct and really straight forward when it comes to meeting up, albeit really busy.
Fist bumps or high fives = a safe way of having body contact.
Spending time waiting with someone = investment.
Calling someone beautiful = a safe compliment.
Saying he is divorced= saying he is available, open to dating.
Winked and smiled = cheeky flirting
Let's not pretend he speaks some alien language. He wants to rail her. She's just giving nothing back in terms of affection. Saturn _Returns is 100% right on this.
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In my experience nothing about Aqua men is obvious or straightforward....things can change with them from day to day
Uranus...you know? ⚡️Unpredictable
Personally I wouldn't do the things he did if I didn't find a woman attractive, but I wouldn't wait a month either
But you’re an Aries ... out there
He’s an Aqua ... more ambiguous and unpredictable
Aqua women I've met have been direct and really straight forward when it comes to meeting up, albeit really busy.
Fist bumps or high fives = a safe way of having body contact.
Spending time waiting with someone = investment.
Calling someone beautiful = a safe compliment.
Saying he is divorced= saying he is available, open to dating.
Winked and smiled = cheeky flirting
Let's not pretend he speaks some alien language. He wants to rail her. She's just giving nothing back in terms of affection. Saturn _Returns is 100% right on this.
She’s probably just saying she wishes he would be more direct and actually ask her out to meet outside the gym instead of fist bumping her. 🤨 I’m assuming they aren’t in high school anymore.
This is the problem with online dating. It has made men socially awkward as fuck to the point they don’t even know how to approach women anymore.
I agree for the most part, but she hasn't given him signs she likes him or that's how I read it. Does he even know she is single?
I don't think just OLD is to blame. There's been metoo, only fans, webcams, black pill, mgtow as well as mental health issues like autism being publicised.
She recently initiated a conversation with him.Yet a couple of days ago I approached him, we had a brief chat, fist bumped me. then he walked off saying he felt poorly!
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Lol
This hardly speaks of someone who’s mad keen to get to know someone
Personally I wouldn't do the things he did if I didn't find a woman attractive, but I wouldn't wait a month either
But you’re an Aries ... out there
He’s an Aqua ... more ambiguous and unpredictable
Aqua women I've met have been direct and really straight forward when it comes to meeting up, albeit really busy.
Fist bumps or high fives = a safe way of having body contact.
Spending time waiting with someone = investment.
Calling someone beautiful = a safe compliment.
Saying he is divorced= saying he is available, open to dating.
Winked and smiled = cheeky flirting
Let's not pretend he speaks some alien language. He wants to rail her. She's just giving nothing back in terms of affection. Saturn _Returns is 100% right on this.
In my experience nothing about Aqua men is obvious or straightforward....things can change with them from day to day
Uranus...you know? ⚡️Unpredictable
Everything I've mentioned are signs that show attraction and interest. As I've said even Stevie Wonder could see that one.
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What about Ray Charles ? 😎
Time will tell I guess?
Obviously he's interested otherwise he wouldn't bother trying to talk to you.
He CLEARLY likes you; however I can understand why you’re confused because he hasn’t made any moves to ask you out outside the gym. That can cause confusion in me as well because I would interpret that as “I’m just an eye candy or someone he likes chatting with at the gym as we both have this place in common.”
Having said that, I feel like when a man is into you he does take an initiative to ask you out; however he could be shy or doesnt want to come on strong. You can drop a hint that you want him to ask you out if you’re opposed to making the first move. Otherwise just ask him out.
Personally I wouldn't do the things he did if I didn't find a woman attractive, but I wouldn't wait a month either
This is why I like Aries, Scorpio, Taurus, and Sag men. Now flip this on Cancer, Pisces, Cap and Aqua men and it will go nowhere - too busy fearing a rejection. 🤣
This aqua guy I didn’t know approached me at the gym last month when I had my headphones on, which to me says please don’t talk to me I’m working out!
Anyway he tells me his name, wants to know mine, gives me a few compliments and tells me random stuff about his life, such as him being recently divorced.
Since this time he virtually always approaches me, and either offers his hand for a handshake or fist bumps me, smiles, and the last wk winked and smiled. Sometimes he does ignore me, but being an aqua I just give him the same m treatment.
Once he called my beautiful and another time he waited for my outside with his friend and chatted.
Yet a couple of days ago I approached him, we had a brief chat, fist bumped me. then he walked off saying he felt poorly!
I’ve not seen him fist bump or approach any other girls at the gym, but I don’t know him outside the gym to be able to tell what he’s like
I’m an aqua myself and I can’t work out if he’s just being friendly or has a slight attraction to me.
He called you beautiful so yes he is attracted.
Recently divorced means he is prob ..new to this and shy
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This aqua guy I didn’t know approached me at the gym last month when I had my headphones on, which to me says please don’t talk to me I’m working out!
Anyway he tells me his name, wants to know mine, gives me a few compliments and tells me random stuff about his life, such as him being recently divorced.
Since this time he virtually always approaches me, and either offers his hand for a handshake or fist bumps me, smiles, and the last wk winked and smiled. Sometimes he does ignore me, but being an aqua I just give him the same m treatment.
Once he called my beautiful and another time he waited for my outside with his friend and chatted.
Yet a couple of days ago I approached him, we had a brief chat, fist bumped me. then he walked off saying he felt poorly!
I’ve not seen him fist bump or approach any other girls at the gym, but I don’t know him outside the gym to be able to tell what he’s like
I’m an aqua myself and I can’t work out if he’s just being friendly or has a slight attraction to me.