How to know if a Venus Aquarius is in to you

I've been talking to this girl that's a Sun Pisces and Venus Aquarius for a few months. For awhile she seemed really in to me, but for the last several weeks she's gone cold.

Which, as I understand it, is very much a Venus Aquarius move.

The things I'm reading seem counter-intuitive: if she likes a guy then she'll be cool and aloof, act standoffish and detached... she doesn't like rules and restrictions, she needs a lot of space and freedom...

That's all fine and dandy, but that's also exactly how a girl that DOESN'T like you would act.

If I message her she's replies almost immediately, every time, but lately the replies are super short... 1 or 2 words, or sometimes just an emoji. I've asked her out a few times and she always acts like she wants to, but has to work or something; to which I always say "let me know when you CAN go", but she never has.

So help me out here, guys... how am I supposed to know whether she's lost interest, or just acting "cool"?

She's bored.

I have a friend with those placements. Don't worry but dont bother her too much. When he works, he is in full work mode and he doesnt communicate with me. After a while, he always wants to meet up and catch up. This is a good thing. You both do your own things and if she likes you, she will come back.

No worries but she is still a pisces and I know if I bother him he will tell me to stop (Virgo moon)

You really have to just go with her. Talk when she does, dont talk when she doesnt because the like to go back and forth. They can switch up so you gotta be careful lol luckily in my case, I just don't care

No worries but she is still a pisces and I know if I bother him he will tell me to stop (Virgo moon)

OMG, that would be incredible!!! Clear and straightforward? Practically unheard of!! lol

She's a Leo moon so I'm not sure what that exactly means. I'd be tickled to death if she was that clear, though. Girls trying to make me read their mind has been the #1 obstacle in every relationship I've ever had.

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No worries but she is still a pisces and I know if I bother him he will tell me to stop (Virgo moon)

OMG, that would be incredible!!! Clear and straightforward? Practically unheard of!! lol

She's a Leo moon so I'm not sure what that exactly means. I'd be tickled to death if she was that clear, though. Girls trying to make me read their mind has been the #1 obstacle in every relationship I've ever had.

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Hey, I'm a leo moon and Aqua Venus... and I act cold sometimes to someone I'm interested in. She's replying to You so that's Good for sure, But yes I act cold whenever I don't know where we stand in the relationship... but I'm boiling underneath lol.

Any suggestions on how to get from cold to hot again? It could be that she's just lost interest... she wouldn't be the first... but since she's not being clear I don't think I'll know until I make the effort.