How to know if an aqua guy is into you or not ?

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radar10
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I been single for a little over 9 months now and have been enjoying it, my ex boyfriend is an aqua I'm a cancer. That relationship turned out to be so bad, we constanly fought, he really had no emtions what so ever, he was pretty boring and just dry, and I could hardly ever understand what he was thinking and when I was upset about something it didn't even seem like he cared or took me seriously half the time. Now recently I'm talking to an aqua guy who I think is really cute. I always thought he was very good looking but never said anything to him really because I didn't think he would be into me at all cause I've seen him maybe once or twice at a friends. Out of nowhere he gets at me on fb and we just start talking and then echanged numbers. Come to find out we have a lot in common, and he even called me beautiful and said to me that its crazy we have so much in common. Now I know he talking to other girls clearly cause he's a good looking guy, but he doesn't come off as a player type at all. I should know how to talk to an aqua guy cause my ex bf of 2 years was one but its been so long and him and my ex seem completly different so I'm not really what to make of him. I do like hin a lot and I plan on seeing him this weekend hopefully at a friends. I don't know if he likes me or just thinks I'm just another girl with a cute face to talk to. What should I do about getting to know him more, what do aqua men typically like and don't like ? What should I say or not say ? How do you know if an aqua guy is even into you ? I can't read him at all. Any insight u have on these men please help !
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BeatrixBecks
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Just be yourself and don't really stress of what you should do or not do . We're laid back people ,so don't stress yourself while we're relaxing. Aqua's love people with a great sense of humor,and always,i mean ALWAYS be sincere and trustworthy.If he will trust you then the key is to keep his trust, cause if he finds out that you lied to him then believe me that you will see the aqua not wanting to trust you and he will be more careful with the things he tells you,etc.

So..just be yourself,honesty and a great sense of humor is the key.Also,he doesn't have all those female friends just because he may be good looking.We have a lot of friends of the opposite sex. But don't forget to make him feel like he IS wanted,cause we aqua's when we don't get attention anymore then we kinda pull away to see if you notice any difference if we ain't in the room.

And if he called you beautiful then he may like you,but don't forget to playfully also stroke his ego from time to time,cuz we love that. 😛
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NZAqua
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16 Years500+ PostsAquarius

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Be different.

Be independent, be interesting - as in don't give too much about yourself away. Don't chase him, don't kiss his ass. But be open and friendly - and LAUGH, because laughing is very addictive. Share fun stories with him - overload him with drama and he'll disappear.

If he likes you he'll talk to you, he'll make time for you, he'll ask you about yourself, instead of talking about himself only.

The easiest way to know if he likes you? ASK HIM. Yep, ask him. People spend far too much time wondering and trying to guess and it's rare that someone will actually say "Hey, I'd like to get to know you, want to go out for a coffee?". It's a shock when people do because it's just not part of life all that much anymore. It takes guts to ask and that's why it stands out - he'll remember it, it'll make him want to get to know you.

Think about this:

There's a bunch of women trying to get his attention and let him know they like him. They're playing the "chase me, make the first move" game. Blerk, yawn.

And there's you (or the potential you) standing up from that group of women and basically saying "Hey, i like you, get your crap together and get to know me because I can be open and forward and someone else will snare me if you don't pay attention. I'm strong, I'm here, take the offer or lose out on a fantastic woman".

It's a way to get notice and Aqua's like different.

Keep us posted.