I am confuse....

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Joama
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I am confused, this guy said I will love to see you, if your happy- I am happy, he wants to know thing about me, he will notice any thing on me that I don t even see. My nails, a spot on my skin... If he does not like what I wore to work that day he will straight out tell me I don t like that what ever you wore. He will comment some times that we are alike. He gets jealous of other guys around me. And sometimes he will ignore me. It has been over a year. He is flirt but when I am around, he will act different. We are not dating... Is he in love with me - he is aqua.
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Sounds a little controlling...

Or maybe he has a lot of virgo placements. If that's it, I'm sure he thinks he's helping. Virgos are critical like that, but they only point it out because they want to be helpful.

He may have a crush on you, but he seems like a waste of energy. After a year and he hasn't made a move? Aquas usually aren't THAT slow. Then again, maybe he hasn't been given the "green light" that you're interested.

You can try planning an outting with all the coworkers, like a drink after work, and see if he shows up. Get to know him outside of work.

I'd just beware of guys that want to tell you what to wear...that's the beginning of possessiveness and controlling behavior. I'd come right out and ask him why he cares what you're wearing and he's making these nitpicky comments and see what he has to say.

Sorry, I don't mean to give mixed signals.
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Joama
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I don't know what his moon is but I would say in Leo- his child like and I am too and we laugh about everything sometimes without a word said.(l'm Leo) He means well and compliments positively on the outfits he likes. He writes and calls but he stopped now.
At the same time, he watches and wants to know about anything I am doing. He is kind and nice to me in his rational aqua ways, he will ask if I have a bf and I told him I don't. He has said several times for us to kiss to experiment - I have not and I can be aloof sometimes. He means well and compliments positively on the outfits he likes. He writes and calls but he stopped now.
At the same time, he watches and wants to know about anything I am doing. He is kind to me in his rational aqua ways - but I am confuse on his true feeling. Does he love-like he really thinks we are alike in He means well and compliments positively on the outfits he likes. He writes and calls but he stopped now.
At the same time, he watches and wants to know about anything I am doing. He is kind/nice to me in his rational aqua ways - but I am confuse on his true feeling. He really thinks that we are alike in someways and that I understands him. Does he love me?