I keep gettn myself into this....

For some reason I keep dating dudes that "wont let go" My ex who is also an AQ has cheated and I tried working it out after that but I cant get the trust back PLUS I have met other people and have told ex man that I am moving on and he said that I am not moving on and that if I even thought of moving on he would make my life miserable...smh

What is it?Anyone experienced this with another AQ...How did u back them off? My bday is 2-16 and his is 1-24.

dated an aqua- he cheated, told me about it and we never saw each other again. Very clean break. I guess he didnt find me special, lol. Oh well, no love lost either way. U must have crazy placements in your chart or maybe u bend it like beckham in bed, who knows? Just be careful in dating if this thing is a pattern, lol. Or tattoo your inner thigh with 'im like a drug'. If they go ahead its their choice, at least u warned them. Look out for 'crazy eyes' too, eyes do give away the crazies. Dont be nice to men who act crazy, it encourages them believe me- tag that arse with an order if he thinks he owns u!

omg i had an aqua ex too who couldn't leave me alone n his bday is jan 24th also! hmm.. i wonder if all jan 24th aquas r stalkers like that haha. my bday is feb 15th, so we're almost the same 🙂

but yeah, omg i was w/ him for 4 years. but man, i only stayed w/ him that long b/c he made it hard for me to break up w/ him. id say i was breaking up w/ him, n he'd say "no you're not" -- like wut do u say to that?! n then wen we finally did break up, it took a year to finally leave me alone completely. b/c after, he wouldn't stop bothering me and it only took my new boyfriend to tell him to leave me alone and threaten to kick his ass to where he actually stopped. he lives in my city now n i actually saw him @ the store this past weekend and immediately hid!

dang n ur ex said he'd make ur life miserable? ahhhh! lol i believe that esp cuz w/ our fellow aquas wer so unpredicatable, that means wer capable of anything. i wouldn't do too much to piss him off. my aqua ex pulled a gun out on me when i tried leaving him b4 -- that was unpredicatable for sure! so yeah, id def take his ass seriously. id think about getting a restraining order if i were u. if he hasn't dun n/e thing too crazy yet, mayb propose that option. n then if he starts actually doing stuff, id seriously get a restraining order if i were u.

good luck and leave an update! i want to know what happens! tc 🙂

Posted by WaterCup
Look out for 'crazy eyes' too, eyes do give away the crazies. Dont be nice to men who act crazy, it encourages them believe me

Lol! that's so true. crazy eyes r scary! ahhh!!!

Posted by aquarius21
omg i had an aqua ex too who couldn't leave me alone n his bday is jan 24th also! hmm.. i wonder if all jan 24th aquas r stalkers like that haha.

My aqua ex is the 25th. She told me, "I'm never going away, you may as well enjoy my company".

Wow...that's strange... I always thought aquas wouldn't give 2 flippy flops if their partner wanted to leave. From what I've read you would shrug and sigh and reply we can still be friends right? I guess you can't believe everything you read.

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omg i had an aqua ex too who couldn't leave me alone n his bday is jan 24th also! hmm.. i wonder if all jan 24th aquas r stalkers like that haha.

My aqua ex is the 25th. She told me, "I'm never going away, you may as well enjoy my company".

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LOL! omg thats too funny, but crazy nonetheless haha

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Wow...that's strange... I always thought aquas wouldn't give 2 flippy flops if their partner wanted to leave. From what I've read you would shrug and sigh and reply we can still be friends right? I guess you can't believe everything you read.

i still think its true, cuz i've never met an aqua who was so forceful like that except my ex. most of the aquas i personally know r born in feb n the guys r careless. so maybe its the first decan aquas, born jan 20-30th. not exactly sure on the exact decan dates. but yeah, im thinking maybe its those aquas that are psycho. no offense lol

no its not a 1st decan thing, im 25 january (so was my aqua ex) and i dont do crazy things like that. I leave ppl alone. Yeesh. They are making us look bad, me angry now.

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no its not a 1st decan thing, im 25 january (so was my aqua ex) and i dont do crazy things like that. I leave ppl alone. Yeesh. They are making us look bad, me angry now.

lol o no! its prob not a decan thing. mayb jst a coincidence

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omg i had an aqua ex too who couldn't leave me alone n his bday is jan 24th also! hmm.. i wonder if all jan 24th aquas r stalkers like that haha.

My aqua ex is the 25th. She told me, "I'm never going away, you may as well enjoy my company".

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LOL thats funny..and crazy

they say 1st decans have a dark side, so maybe being crazy is part of it, lol. I have my crazy days, but stalking is 100 percent not one of my illnesses. Those dudes are just plainly insane.

i dated an aqua too his bday was 2/1 mine is 1/26, and he cheated. i cussed him out so bad he didnt bother me anymore.

lol chem, u american girls are so aggro. When mine cheated i said 'fine and goodbye', never to see the loser ever again. Heard that he is a pastor now, that made me lose faith in religion. Cheaters preach, lol.

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lol chem, u american girls are so aggro. When mine cheated i said 'fine and goodbye', never to see the loser ever again. Heard that he is a pastor now, that made me lose faith in religion. Cheaters preach, lol.

aaaww, im not aggressive. 😢 im a sweetie. 🙂 but i think i am a little aggressive. i think its from being the only daughter (i have 3 brothers) and working in a male dominated field.

and he was yelling at me and trying to tell me i was the reason he cheated. that set me off. i have a bit of a temper. my father was a scorpio, i get it from him....lol

lol he's a pastor..wow.

what!? Your ex must have been brain damaged, lol. Who blames others for their actions, thats just silly. My niceness is fake lol, i got too much scorp to be nice- i burn slow. Do u have mars contacts to sun (for the temper)?

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what!? Your ex must have been brain damaged, lol. Who blames others for their actions, thats just silly. My niceness is fake lol, i got too much scorp to be nice- i burn slow. Do u have mars contacts to sun (for the temper)?

LOL my mars is in taurus...😢

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lol chem, u american girls are so aggro. When mine cheated i said 'fine and goodbye', never to see the loser ever again. Heard that he is a pastor now, that made me lose faith in religion. Cheaters preach, lol.

aaaww, im not aggressive. 😢 im a sweetie. 🙂 but i think i am a little aggressive. i think its from being the only daughter (i have 3 brothers) and working in a male dominated field.

and he was yelling at me and trying to tell me i was the reason he cheated. that set me off. i have a bit of a temper. my father was a scorpio, i get it from him....lol

lol he's a pastor..wow.

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LMAO..my ex said he cheated and it was my fault. He said I stopped holding him WTF...So I tried to hang in there but eventually me the cappy dude in my other post and he is a trip 2. Everyday I tell Mr. Aqua Im DONE and have moved on and everyday he calls me and we talk as if nothing ever happened. Funny thing is before we met..he was dating an aqua girl...she cheated on him and he left her so why wont he let me do the same thing lol. He said "we shouldnt have never met and ure not going anywhere" so sometime by this evening I will remind him that I have moved on...he will threten me and in the morning he will text me "I love U" and the cycle will repeat itsself. Its so sad and sick. AQ's are genuine sweet people but nuts when its all said and done.

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Posted by aquarius21
omg i had an aqua ex too who couldn't leave me alone n his bday is jan 24th also! hmm.. i wonder if all jan 24th aquas r stalkers like that haha.

My aqua ex is the 25th. She told me, "I'm never going away, you may as well enjoy my company".

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Thats funny....how is is working out for u?

ur a libra decan aquaj, thats why u dont give up easily, like Sid says- up hill. I'd have to agree about the moon thing, it takes a long time for me to be upset about something and once i do, i dont forget. U say/do something now and i'll get pissed in 2020, lol. Common theme among my fellow mooners.

I dont know what yall talking about but I am a floater. Something that may even look or feel better I am gone. I do not stick with it. Marriage is probably not for me

i hope to NEVER find it and i wont because im not searching for it either

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Posted by aquarius21
omg i had an aqua ex too who couldn't leave me alone n his bday is jan 24th also! hmm.. i wonder if all jan 24th aquas r stalkers like that haha.

My aqua ex is the 25th. She told me, "I'm never going away, you may as well enjoy my company".

Thats funny....how is is working out for u?

It was said 1/2 playfully. She and I have been through a lot. This was said when we were talking about trying a relationship again and I wasn't too keen on the idea. When we first met as teens she had to look me up in the phone book because I never gave her my number. A couple years later we had lost contact and she found out from friends where I was working so she could come by and take me out. This came after our divorce, I was 1,000 miles away when she said that... now she moved here. It is not as stalkerish as it may sound, none of it was creepy or anything, she just is drawn to me I guess.

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Posted by aquarius21
omg i had an aqua ex too who couldn't leave me alone n his bday is jan 24th also! hmm.. i wonder if all jan 24th aquas r stalkers like that haha.

My aqua ex is the 25th. She told me, "I'm never going away, you may as well enjoy my company".

To me that's funny only because that's how I feel about marriage, too! Take divorce off the table completely (I do't believe in it except in extreme extenuating circumstances). Once you accept the fact that you are stuck with this person forever, it's all uphill from there because then you begin to make the best of the situation😄

She must be a Saturnine Aqua

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Why would you change this uphill to downhill — Haha, I don't look at marriage as being 'stuck with someone forever', but as 'committed to someone'. Ultimately it means the same thing, I ain't going anywhere... but that is a good thing in my mind, not a negative.

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Because downhill is easy!! lol

Ahh, I got ya. I took 'downhill' to mean getting worse.

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LibraSid, all those years you've been flip-flopping on your Aqua, eh? :p

Damn indecisive Libras... hah

Posted by tbird
Wow...that's strange... I always thought aquas wouldn't give 2 flippy flops if their partner wanted to leave. From what I've read you would shrug and sigh and reply we can still be friends right? I guess you can't believe everything you read.

Not neccesarily true. They're fixed sign for one so if they think you're the one, you're the one. No question about it. No doubt. They won't care whatever it takes , how long it takes to get you to see their "vision". You will know it if they give a damn about you. And when they do..."damn you" 😄

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Everyday I tell Mr. Aqua Im DONE and have moved on and everyday he calls me and we talk as if nothing ever happened. Funny thing is before we met..he was dating an aqua girl...she cheated on him and he left her so why wont he let me do the same thing lol. He said "we shouldnt have never met and ure not going anywhere" so sometime by this evening I will remind him that I have moved on...he will threten me and in the morning he will text me "I love U" and the cycle will repeat itsself. Its so sad and sick. AQ's are genuine sweet people but nuts when its all said and done.

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that's so funny. my aqua ex was w/ an aqua before me too, n all those bipolar threats and love declarations is so familiar. i love wen aquas get crazy -- but not wen its directed to us! lol good lord! i hope he leaves u alone! i remember talking to a cap girl b4 who had an aqua ex that wouldn't leave her alone too. maybe its just most of the guys that have the capability to b so possessive like that? who knows! but whatever it is, it's clearly a trend!

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Wow...that's strange... I always thought aquas wouldn't give 2 flippy flops if their partner wanted to leave. From what I've read you would shrug and sigh and reply we can still be friends right? I guess you can't believe everything you read.

i still think its true, cuz i've never met an aqua who was so forceful like that except my ex. most of the aquas i personally know r born in feb n the guys r careless. so maybe its the first decan aquas, born jan 20-30th. not exactly sure on the exact decan dates. but yeah, im thinking maybe its those aquas that are psycho. no offense lol

No. While I wouldn't say I'm a stalker, I definitely do NOT give up easily. A promise is a promise, after all.

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i guess there's just diff types of aquas

Posted by WaterCup
U say/do something now and i'll get pissed in 2020, lol

LOL!!

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no its not a 1st decan thing, im 25 january (so was my aqua ex) and i dont do crazy things like that. I leave ppl alone. Yeesh. They are making us look bad, me angry now.

maybe you haven't discovered that side of you yet

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lol u never know haha. idk it's looking like its more common w/ aqua guys but who knows. i DO know of one crazy aqua girl (idk her birthdate) n she's been stalking my sagi bff for years. when i found that out i was surprised cuz i thought all aqua girls were mellow and cool, but mayb its just certain placements that will throw em off n make em more psycho than others. wish there was a definite explanation for it. its like i have to know how this is working!!!!!!!! lol

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Posted by aquarius21
omg i had an aqua ex too who couldn't leave me alone n his bday is jan 24th also! hmm.. i wonder if all jan 24th aquas r stalkers like that haha.

My aqua ex is the 25th. She told me, "I'm never going away, you may as well enjoy my company".

Thats funny....how is is working out for u?

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It was said 1/2 playfully. She and I have been through a lot. This was said when we were talking about trying a relationship again and I wasn't too keen on the idea. When we first met as teens she had to look me up in the phone book because I never gave her my number. A couple years later we had lost contact and she found out from friends where I was working so she could come by and take me out. This came after our divorce, I was 1,000 miles away when she said that... now she moved here. It is not as stalkerish as it may sound, none of it was creepy or anything, she just is drawn to me I guess.

nope thats not stalking. i say that because thats how i met my bf. lol...i was at his favorite coffee shop every morning, smiling with his favorite brew. finally after 3 weeks we went out. been together ever since.

UPDATE:My aqua wont let go. I have TRIED EVERYTHING. I had to come clean with capp dude.He said he would wait for as long as he could but that ultimately I was being weak for giving crazy aqua so much power over my life.

To be honest im miserable. I feel like I am being forced and jailed. I dont know how to shake dude. He goes on daily as if we are together. Its crazy.

Ew. That's creepy.