The best way to break up with an Aqua?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by taurusgirl9000 on Monday, August 28, 2017 and has 14 replies.

Profile picture of taurusgirl9000
@taurusgirl9000
9 Years

I need to know the best way to break up with an Aquarius. I just feel like he likes me so much more than I like him and I don't want to waste his time anymore. I know that he will be hurt, but is there something that I can say to soften the blow? I will still be his friend, I just want it to end well.

Profile picture of taurusgirl9000
@taurusgirl9000
9 Years

Posted by Fafa

Posted by taurusgirl9000
I need to know the best way to break up with an Aquarius. I just feel like he likes me so much more than I like him and I don't want to waste his time anymore. I know that he will be hurt, but is there something that I can say to soften the blow? I will still be his friend, I just want it to end well.

how long you guys been together? damn i am sad for him... could this had been prevented

click to expand

Almost two years. And we live together. We broke up before but then got back together. I think the main problem is that he lives with me and he has nowhere to go. So when we break up, he has to then look for an apartment and continue living with me until he finds one. And we live in a studio (yup, that was a dumb decision). We got back together before because the sex and physical connection was so good, I'll be very honest. He isn't a bad person, I just feel like the longer I'm with him, the more damage I'm doing because I can't see myself marrying him, even though in the short term he makes me happy... It's complicated I guess.

Profile picture of hbbrnaqua
@hbbrnaqua
9 Years

It's important to be very clear with him.

After you break up he will probably overthink until he finds a plausible reason that suits his view.

To stop him from overanalysing and wishful thinking you should be very precise and clear with your feelings and intentions, otherwise he might try to come back.

Profile picture of LadyNeptune
@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by taurusgirl9000
I need to know the best way to break up with an Aquarius. I just feel like he likes me so much more than I like him and I don't want to waste his time anymore. I know that he will be hurt, but is there something that I can say to soften the blow? I will still be his friend, I just want it to end well.

Tell him in graphic detail how your fucking another dude on the side. Embellish and tell him the Cancer's dick has ruined you for anyone else.

Profile picture of saggurl88
@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by taurusgirl9000
I need to know the best way to break up with an Aquarius. I just feel like he likes me so much more than I like him and I don't want to waste his time anymore. I know that he will be hurt, but is there something that I can say to soften the blow? I will still be his friend, I just want it to end well.

Tell him in graphic detail how your fucking another dude on the side. Embellish and tell him the Cancer's dick has ruined you for anyone else.

click to expand

Image Not Found

Image Not Found

Profile picture of saweetz1988
@saweetz1988
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by taurusgirl9000

Posted by Fafa

Posted by taurusgirl9000
I need to know the best way to break up with an Aquarius. I just feel like he likes me so much more than I like him and I don't want to waste his time anymore. I know that he will be hurt, but is there something that I can say to soften the blow? I will still be his friend, I just want it to end well.

how long you guys been together? damn i am sad for him... could this had been prevented

Almost two years. And we live together. We broke up before but then got back together. I think the main problem is that he lives with me and he has nowhere to go. So when we break up, he has to then look for an apartment and continue living with me until he finds one. And we live in a studio (yup, that was a dumb decision). We got back together before because the sex and physical connection was so good, I'll be very honest. He isn't a bad person, I just feel like the longer I'm with him, the more damage I'm doing because I can't see myself marrying him, even though in the short term he makes me happy... It's complicated I guess.

click to expand

Which needs are you missing from him! R u the one with Aqua moon!!!!—? From memories? What is he lacking not givingyou? Physical touch?

Profile picture of saweetz1988
@saweetz1988
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by taurusgirl9000
I need to know the best way to break up with an Aquarius. I just feel like he likes me so much more than I like him and I don't want to waste his time anymore. I know that he will be hurt, but is there something that I can say to soften the blow? I will still be his friend, I just want it to end well.

Tell him in graphic detail how your fucking another dude on the side. Embellish and tell him the Cancer's dick has ruined you for anyone else.

click to expand

Is this true?

Profile picture of taurusgirl9000
@taurusgirl9000
9 Years

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by taurusgirl9000

Posted by Fafa

Posted by taurusgirl9000
I need to know the best way to break up with an Aquarius. I just feel like he likes me so much more than I like him and I don't want to waste his time anymore. I know that he will be hurt, but is there something that I can say to soften the blow? I will still be his friend, I just want it to end well.

how long you guys been together? damn i am sad for him... could this had been prevented

Almost two years. And we live together. We broke up before but then got back together. I think the main problem is that he lives with me and he has nowhere to go. So when we break up, he has to then look for an apartment and continue living with me until he finds one. And we live in a studio (yup, that was a dumb decision). We got back together before because the sex and physical connection was so good, I'll be very honest. He isn't a bad person, I just feel like the longer I'm with him, the more damage I'm doing because I can't see myself marrying him, even though in the short term he makes me happy... It's complicated I guess.

Which needs are you missing from him! R u the one with Aqua moon!!!!—? From memories? What is he lacking not givingyou? Physical touch?

click to expand

Yes, it's me lol!! We lack intellectual connection. I am getting it big time elsewhere from a Cancer. I'm starting to have feelings for him...

Profile picture of taurusgirl9000
@taurusgirl9000
9 Years

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by taurusgirl9000
I need to know the best way to break up with an Aquarius. I just feel like he likes me so much more than I like him and I don't want to waste his time anymore. I know that he will be hurt, but is there something that I can say to soften the blow? I will still be his friend, I just want it to end well.

Tell him in graphic detail how your fucking another dude on the side. Embellish and tell him the Cancer's dick has ruined you for anyone else.

Is this true?

click to expand

No I'm not cheating. The Cancer and I are getting closer tho... we had sex when the Aqua and I were not together... it was just one time. Then grew apart but are now getting close...

Profile picture of taurusgirl9000
@taurusgirl9000
9 Years

Posted by GeminiGirl052388
Welcome to my life. Breaking up with an aqua is so damn hard. My aqua ex wont let me go and i already told him a million times that i dont love him anymore. He cries, begs me to come back then gets drunk, gets angry and we are back to square one. He just wont accept it even if he knew i slept with the guy already. So good luck on your breakup plan. Hope hes not as crazy as my aqua ex.

My Aqua is very needy... he's in love with me and he gets clingy when he senses something is wrong... I'm worried because we live together... it's gonna be hard...

Profile picture of taurusgirl9000
@taurusgirl9000
9 Years

Posted by Fafa

Posted by taurusgirl9000

Posted by Fafa

Posted by taurusgirl9000
I need to know the best way to break up with an Aquarius. I just feel like he likes me so much more than I like him and I don't want to waste his time anymore. I know that he will be hurt, but is there something that I can say to soften the blow? I will still be his friend, I just want it to end well.

how long you guys been together? damn i am sad for him... could this had been prevented

Almost two years. And we live together. We broke up before but then got back together. I think the main problem is that he lives with me and he has nowhere to go. So when we break up, he has to then look for an apartment and continue living with me until he finds one. And we live in a studio (yup, that was a dumb decision). We got back together before because the sex and physical connection was so good, I'll be very honest. He isn't a bad person, I just feel like the longer I'm with him, the more damage I'm doing because I can't see myself marrying him, even though in the short term he makes me happy... It's complicated I guess.

damn i feel bad for you both... can you maybe help him find a place?

click to expand

I will have to. I would leave but my name is on the lease and I really like the place. I furnished it all myself and bought all the stuff in it...

Profile picture of AquaCapLove815
@AquaCapLove815
8 Years

I am an Aqua female and have got a lot of scattered thoughts to say haha. First of all those of you who want to get rid of Aqua make sure that you dont want to ever see them again because it may take foreverrrrr for us to get over a relationship but the day we finalllly get over it, its wayyy done n will never come back and we will eventually feel so embarrassed for hanging on for so long, and you will never get that "caring" aqua again. ever. especially if they were rejected and felt like they were the ones who failed. aqua are perfectionist and easily upset if things didnt fit perfectly in the picture we have imagined to be going well. another thing is Aqua love respect and laying out everything on the table with good intentions since we are extremely aware of changed energy that feels like a lie or bad intentions we can and will sense that. Aqua is a fixed sign so change can be overwhelming if we were fixed on things being how they were and comfortable with it even if our emotions arent comfortable our physical life is stable and easy with an earth sign. Taurus people are notorius for breaking hearts. but aqua and taurus couple never ends good and the relationship is very difficult to withstand...

Profile picture of AquaCapLove815
@AquaCapLove815
8 Years

Another thing is I am married to a Capricorn and my moon sign is in so its good to look at the whole chart instead of just the Sun sign... Hope this helps