Inlove with someone BUT don't wanna spend your li

Inlove with someone BUT don't wanna spend your life with them...Anyone in this place, or been here before?

I guess you never know where things end up...I think I've had an idea in my head for years of what I want in someone before I end up settling and I think I'm wrong in that. We can't just make up some unrealistic perfect person we need and toss people aside until we get that. We'll always be unhappy then.

So if I fell inlove with someone that doesn't match my criteria at all, what the F is that?!! You know what I mean? I think you're right Branh, that it's a common situation.

There is no perfect person... but why stick with one person for the rest of your life? Or you can marry someone whose terminally ill so you have the peace of mind that they aren't really permanent and won't stick around for too long LOL that's kinda mean

I've been thinking about why people think they HAVE to get married... ? After much thought I came up with an astoundingly simple answer... BOREDOM. That would be the only thing left to do if you feel that you're accomplished...

Then there's the thought that you have to do it before a certain age but there's so much more important things to do! Marriage really is a 'miscellaneous' in life... it should be overlooked unless love, compability and harmony kick you in the ass in perfect unison...................................

Ooh I forgot my friend gave birth to her life-stumping mistake... better go visit her! later later later later later!

Note: Rambled while not all there, thoughts subject to change.

I might. Not sure anymore though.

Oh and that learning thing, um, I take that all back. My judgement was right and I was gonna go back on things. Bad idea. Don't second guess yourself.

YOu know? I think alot of people force the relationship when it was never meant to be a lasting thing, simply because they are in love and breakups hurt.
Also, the dating scene has shifted magnanimously over the last few years, and people are more hesitant to marry. But the few married couples I know, are not necessarily satisfied. They fail to see the importance of having other priorities autonomously outside of the marriage.