is an aqua male just being polite or interested?

How about both?
Anyway, I'd say, most of the time, polite.

Posted by whenyougethysterical
How about both?
Anyway, I'd say, most of the time, polite.

Hmmm... yeah I'm hoping both. We met online a couple of weeks and I had the chance to vacation to the country where he is based for work. We got intimate twice, but I told myself that once we part ways (me back home while he returned to his country for a vacation) we never have to see each other again. I was surprised when I got a message from a number I didn't recognize (obviously it was him) informing me that he has landed. Our routines (the daily texting upon waking up and going to sleep) continues.

Polite or interested? Polite or interested?

I'll give the same answer, both and probably more so polite.

So which twin is wanting it to be interested and which wants it just to be polite? 😛 I'm not saying all Aquas are the same but there's truth in that we are slow movers if we're unsure ourselves. We probably ask the same questions you do but our first step is to reach out and befriend you.

We like being your friend, and given the time it might just give us that answer.

Posted by gemjam

Posted by whenyougethysterical
How about both?
Anyway, I'd say, most of the time, polite.

Hmmm... yeah I'm hoping both. We met online a couple of weeks and I had the chance to vacation to the country where he is based for work. We got intimate twice, but I told myself that once we part ways (me back home while he returned to his country for a vacation) we never have to see each other again. I was surprised when I got a message from a number I didn't recognize (obviously it was him) informing me that he has landed. Our routines (the daily texting upon waking up and going to sleep) continues.

Polite or interested? Polite or interested?

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Haha, how "intimate" did you get? Friends or turtle doves?

I agree that it's "unsure", both him and you (gemini right? Very similar to us). So I don't need to elucidate the fact that we always have a hard time making up our minds in matters of the heart. Just a note for you, it's almost impossible for Aquarians to keep something a "routine" if they don't like doing it. May that be a sign that he's "interested" in you?

Aquasnoz: "So which twin is wanting it to be interested and which wants it just to be polite"
HAHAHAHA hmmm... honestly I want it more to be interested than polite 😉

Whenyougethysterical: intimate as in we had sex. After the first time I was careful not to break our routines. Business as usual, but no hints of clingyness. He was the one who asked for the second time. SO I don't know if that counted for something. You know how it is with guys sometimes... a lay is a lay 😄 (no offense meant).

On my last day, he asked me for the time of my flight and told me where he was. I know I should have been reading between the lines (meaning that he could have been hinting that he wanted me to go there), but I don't know... I don't really do well with grey. I prefer people to be direct with me and tell me what they want.