Is it just me? Marathon flirt-ist

Sometimes when I meet somebody I basically melt and I go all gooey and I'm so charmed, and it truly makes my day? Does this happen to you as well? I'm so curious about all your opinions. I'm talkign about the odd flirt and chit chat and smiling in the tube or wherever, that gives you a kick for the rest of the day?

Well, I flirt with lots of people. But I don't do it for sport or because it makes me feel good, but...well I don't even know why I do it. =p
Sometimes I'll flirt because I know it'll make someone else look at me and wanna come over and flirt. 😄 *smiles and thinks of special someone* But for the most part when I'm flirting with a guy a really like, after a while I think about it and realize that I don't really like them. Then I'll go back and try to get the attention of the person whom I want to flirt with...

Let me revise that. I mean that I'll go back and try to get the attention of the "other" person of whom I really want to flirt with...

I just flirt,it just happens doesn't matter with who,male,female,etc.I do it more in a joking manner so I don't feel anything when I do it except for gigglely.For good mood purposes is the reason I do it.

I am like Tiamat....I seem to flirt with both males and females....I wouldn't even call it flirting - more like playfully connecting or teasing....
I get into trouble sometimes when a guy who thinks I am into him because of something I have said "flirtingly but innocently"...gets taken up the wrong way...they come on strong, I say hey, back off, what's this about? and they accuse me of leading them on.

Strange thing is when I do see someone I find massively attractive, I become so shy, stuck for words, won't make eye contact, even blush, can hear my heart beat!!! - and then they think I don't fancy them!!!Oh you can't win......

A x

When I flirt, I find myself able to approach guys that I feel more comfortable around, like who I see as close best friends. Too bad I can't talk to this one guy though. I've liked him for the longest and I will never approach him 'cause I'm just so shy. That's why I'll flirt with other people just to get his attention, which I know is wrong.
People say that flirting is a very unhealthy habit and that it stems from self esteem issues. But I wouldn't say that I'm a flirtatious person...I'm just very friendly. I smile and talk a lot. I flirt with every guy I work with...even the ones who aren't that good looking or that I'm not that interested in. I'm just very friendly. 🙂

Hmmm...exactly what is "flirting?" I enjoy meeting and talking with people and it does not matter to me whether they are male or female - they are HUMANS! I have been accused of "flirting" but I don't see it that way at all....why is when a female talks with a male she is automatically labeled as a flirt? hmmmmmm....guys make great pals and one can learn sooooooo much from them!

I luv's the menz!

I agree. I'd rather talk to guys all day than any of my lady friends. It seems to me that trying to enter friendships or conversation with other women, there is so much cattiness involved. And I'm not trying to be anyone's competition, so I just leave them alone and talk to my male friends. By the way, I say my Taurus male friend last night at a late night concert. It was so good to be back with an old friend again. And my ex Cancer, his best friend, was there but as usual wouldn't say anything to me. *sighs* Oh well.

Well, toodles!

Crimson

Yeah,I do that too,alana.The intimate ones scare me.

I find that as well, being friendly and open to people then they come to you being surprised howcome you refused their invitation to dinner or a gig. Probably the odd 'flirt' is nothing than connecting to people; probably the more insecure and jealous people cathegorise flirting as a 'sport ' ---> which kinda makes it sound bad doesn't it?I think that's a wonderful way of living your life amongst other people. I am sick of the 'blank' faces that i see day by day, when most of people are masquing theirselves.It's almost frightening ( probably living in a big city as london uk doesn't help)

a rectfication.. I said i got 3 PT jobs.. then i said im not gonna quit.. what i meant was that i'm not gonna quit one of them just because of this guy who is one of my customers. then my interractiom with him may be just my imagination , it may not.. and so on 🙂