Is Love worth the Risk

Ok so everyone that i know has been burned or hurt in a relationship, my question,..Is love worth the risk in the end when someone hearts gets broken. Yes, some say in love there's pain but love is suppose to feel Good right? In reality if one is in love there will come a day when one will feel the pain,..is it worth the pain or do you only give a small percentage of yourself to save You the pain in the end?...Do you turn cold to everything and everyone to not allow yourself to feel pain? Everyone wants love and to be loved

I remember a study that said 95% of American adults where have serious heart breaking experience before the age fo 30.

Wow thats a high % , when you think realistically about this it almost makes one think theres no hope, but when you do see the old couples that been together for many many years they are Really Lucky and gives one hope: ) In life we takes chances but being an aqua i am Very Vey protective of my feelings

"No its not worth the risk. I would prefer to keep it physical"

Brahn, I like you, you are a very intelligent young man and i do learn alot from reading your interesting post but this sounds so cold and empty to me. Can you say that you are truly happy with that in every sense of the word??

"I've alwaays learned to rely on myself, and I believe you are too vultenerable in relationships"

Oh No!, youre read me totally wrong with a capital T: )I may appear that way threw by my posting but I will/can switch with a quickness. I rather show the good not the cold defensive side, this doesnt mean im susceptible

"understanding of you through the boards, you will not feel right doing small % and being cold...love is something very important to you...you just need to be the fixed aqua and keep searching for it ....all the way"

DB, are you looking at me threw that crystal ball lol: ),your right, I dont do small and do not like being cold.I'm cold Only when necessary, im the type that likes to give and help unselfishly not looking for any returns,but also know when one is trying to be deceptive. Right now im learning mr scorpio,im not really searching for love but if it finds me at which it seems to,i might give it some thought; )