Jealousy for God's sake

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AceOfSpades
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10 Years

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*long distance relationship without give commitement because of her* She puted herself in a facebook relationship, I was annoyed and asked her what's up, but then changed my mind and told her that I dont care and keept talking to her like usualy, all thing were great for an week, we had sweet calls and were making plans and stuff, so I considered that with that it will be OK if I put myself in a relationship too to get rid of the OTHER annoyng girls that chased me trough facebook...

Boom!

Instant call from her after 2 minutes. She is to proud to even ask about it, but I realised that this freaked her out a little bit so I told her in an express way that I haved to firendzone some other girls that annoyed me after a party. She didn't seem to understand.

Boom!

The simple mention of the "other girls" world blow her up completley... She told me that she dont hear me well and she have to close the call. No response on facebook message this evening. Seen. "God dammit, what I have done?" i told myself.

Is a so damn stupid reason to get jealous, but i tought that you girls are logic persons (even if you have a crush on someone)... I suposed that she got a little bit mad, becomed aloof and now she will not respond for while but if I DONT call she will start to make presumption. I cant go to her house with chocolate and ravage her like I will normally do, so when you suggest to give her a call? After a day? Or 2? And what should I say? Or I have to wait her to mesage me? She is guarding her up very well and she is also very insecure because she likes me a lot...

I will be visiting her next weekend anyway. We planned this for weeks.
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4fresh
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10 Years

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Me too man... She is so strange... I mean I told her I like her and I want her to be my girlfriend for 10000 times but she doesn't seem to trust me even if for almost 4 months now I was constantly keeping in touch with her and I promised her that I will be just with her, no matter what.

She likes me back like mad and she told me that if I want I can move to her place to make my last year of highschool in her city. Her mother likes me like mad too and she told me that I am the first boy ever to be liked by her. She dated just jerks who taked advantage of her until me.

And damn, I love this girl... I mean, she is so smart, and chill, and hot and she just radiates when I'm around her. If we could be togheter we could have the best relationship ever because I can give her all she ever wanted.

But we are stuck in simple problems like this one... And I'm like "Why, for God's sake, why?"...
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Angmodurian
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10 Years

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i dont think its jealous, aquas hardly let emotions rule the heart. The mention of "other girls" just get her analyzing nature firing, so she has to reconsider again whether you will be a trustworthy partner to her. After all its a long distance one, she cant really see u often so she will wonder whether you will be seeing other girls in your private time.

A call is nice but never does the thing right. Go find her & let her feel your sincerity & genuinity in person. A deep look into her eyes, very sensual touch will already give her the answer she needs without saying the L word. It works 1000x more than a call although you dont have other option but to call her now to pacify her a bit.
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Pandora101
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Posted by 4fresh
Yep, when I'm with her she totally act like a leo... And when I first meet her she became jealous and aloof on some girls I was just talking too... It tooked me one whole day to fix her mood up 😐 But she will never ever admit it.
maybe she is just not sure about you, it seems you are flirting a lot with other girls.......
why to mention you had to get rid of some girls from the party? This is never a good thing to say in a long distance relationship, where you can not smooth things over immediately with your personal presence.....

I don´t know why you are provoking her........ Or maybe you are doing this, because she didn´t say she wants to be your girlfriend? Are you doing some kind of "revenge" ?