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Composite Jupiter in Libra (7° Lib 43') Composite Jupiter in the Third House

Jupiter in the composite chart reveals the area of your shared experience where you will find mutual good fortune and faith in positive outcomes.
Jupiter in the Third House (or sign) magnifies the charming, talkative, and clever aspects of your relationship and promotes growth through communication. You tend to move in similar rhythms through your day and enjoy your time together, whether it is scheduled or free time that you share. Although you two may become somewhat scattered in each other's company, you share an inquisitiveness about life and an appetite to learn more and more regarding just about any subject.
In a romantic relationship, your penchant for good communication in written or verbal forms brings a great deal of interest to your conversations with each other. You will never tire of things to talk about, and may get into a joint writing project of some kind. Your relationship also grows through travel, intellectual pursuits of all kinds and any sort of effort spent on education. Optimistic and changeable, you two see the value and benefit of many different pursuits, so that it may be wise for you to narrow down and attempt greater focus. You also benefit when you think matters through together before making decisions and learn to keep your own council. When you are operating at your highest level your relationship's tendency toward superficiality and the scattering of your energies becomes the cultivation of depth as well as breadth of awareness and a universal curiosity that leads to higher wisdom.

Composite Jupiter in Libra (or the seventh house) emphasizes the refined and idealistic aspects of your relationship. You two tend to experience the relationship itself as the true source of your shared happiness and this placement is one of the very best for romantic relationships . Together, you work well with other people, and may become known for your fairness. You each grow when you engage in these kinds of activities. You may form the type of partnership that will make a habit of championing both sides of a dispute and making sure that the underdog has his say.
You may also be outwardly-directed as a partnership, and concerned with what others might think. Ina romantic relationship, you are likely to find enjoyment everywhere together. Your relationship grows through exploring art and beauty wherever you may find it. You benefit when you develop your shared capacity to stop and smell the flowers and follow your energy to serve each other and the relationship, so that rather than pursuing the socially derived mandate to steam ahead, you allow your focus to be on simply getting your boat down the river.

Composite Venus in Gemini (20° Gem 44') Composite Venus in the Eleventh House

The placement of Venus in the composite chart reveals the area of your shared emotional focus and love and where mutual enjoyment and benefit lies.
Venus in the Eleventh House (or sign) there is a solid basis of friendship between you and a shared propensity to network with others. Your relationship thrives on mutually agreed upon goals and an appreciation of group activity in support of social agendas that you favor. If you have a common group affiliation it is likely that you shine together in a leadership position within it.
In a romantic relationship this propensity that you have for agreement on societal goals adds meaning beyond the emotional connection that you share with each other, or may also become a distraction from it. At least you always have a solid understanding of where the other partner is coming from. As a partnership you excel in areas of group interaction and future orientation, with a scientifically detached outlook and a genial humanism that colors your approach. You may be just the ones, acting in concert, to bring much-needed ideas to collective concerns or to press for the integration of society into a more unified whole.

Composite Venus in Gemini (or the third house) indicates a relationship where discourse is valued between you. You appreciate written and spoken communication, both between you and with others in your circle, as well as the literary arts. Whatever your ages, you also may jointly reflect a lively curiosity of the world around you that is the best part of being young.
In a romantic relationship, you take delight in conversation together. You appreciate each other's intellect, and find that a significant part of the appeal for each of you. You tend to look on the bright side, and you probably like to laugh with each other, which is obviously an important component of any longterm relationship. As a partnership, you are interested in the pursuits of mental recreation, including computer graphics, puzzles, and the written word. Your good communication with each other ensure that you will at least try to get the best out of every situation that you find yourselves in.

Composite Moon in strong opposition
(within 2.9 degrees) with Saturn
The planetary energies are polarized; outer events stimulate their interaction; integration is the challenge.
With this aspect between composite Moon and Saturn, your relationship has a responsible, centered and hard-working basis that also might be experienced as a blockage of emotional connection between you. Regardless of how either of you behave on your own, you may find that together, you respond to each other in unusually formal, or even rigid, ways.
Watch for a tendency to withhold feelings, or to stop yourselves before completing a thought or an action. This formality tends to work well in a professional environment. In a romantic relationship, it benefits you to consciously work through this potentially strange sense of rigidity, putting extra effort into the enthusiastic mining of your feelings You may reflect for each other problems you both experienced with the parental care and guidance received as children.
You benefit when you learn to cultivate a deeper understanding of yourselves and to discover the roots of your being. This leads to real security and true self-acceptance. When you feel a tendency to slow down or stop in your expression with each other, it benefits you both to push forward. You will likely be surprised at just how much more you get out of the relationship, and of life, in the process.

Composite N Node in Sagittarius (12° Sag 14') Composite N Node in the Fifth House
Lunar North Node in the Fifth House (or sign). South Node in the eleventh house or sign. This placement in a composite chart signifies that within this relationship you each have a focus on being recognized and admired for the personal creativity that you manifest. You are fortunate in this lifetime, for few people have the capacity, as the two of you do, of actually making your dreams come true.
In the past, you may have specialized in ideals and imaginings, without giving much thought to working these out in the real world. But in the context of this relationship you find that your focus bends toward actually manifesting these into form. When you are on your true path with each other, you find that you must act and create, for in acting you give shape to the otherwise indistinct and ideal, and in so doing fulfill a major purpose of your coming together.
Composite Lunar North Node in Sagittarius (or the ninth house). South Node in the third house or sign. This placement in a composite chart signifies that within this relationship each of you will likely focus on some aspect of higher mind activity, teaching or learning or perhaps travel that enhances your understanding of moral or ethical belief systems. You may have tended to scatter your energies in the past, as you concentrated on a variety of superficial connections within the everyday world. Although curiosity regarding details and enjoyment of a multiplicity of points of view comes naturally to you, you must now learn to see the forest instead of the trees.

Now in the context of this relationship, your purpose seems to be to lift your attention toward a synthesis of higher consciousness. Together you will find great joy in pursuing the broader picture, whether in terms of educational perspectives or perhaps participation in cultures other than your own. One important emphasis in this partnership will be the pursuit of higher knowledge and a deeper understanding of the motivations of others that was meant by the phrase "to understand all is to forgive all." A true philosophy of compassion, for yourselves and for each other, is your goal.

Composite Mercury in strong conjunction (within 2.9 degrees) with Venus
The strongest blend of the energies represented by these two planets.
This aspect between composite Mercury and Venus lends ease and charm to your interactions. You two actually enhance each other's ability to communicate, often finding just the right words to express a feeling. You are likely to drop into very creative conversations together, and you write as well as you speak. Together, you are friendly and sociable, with a strong leaning toward the artistic and beautiful side of life.
Your relationship exudes an extremely persuasive force in a quiet way. Just be sure not to use the grace inherent in your communication to candy coat things that need to be spoken in clear, strong light. Mercury and Venus aspects also address the background of the relationship, the space between the words and the quality of the connection in between direct encounters.
Composite Mercury in inconjunct (within 2.6 degrees) with Uranus
The planetary energies do not flow smoothly, one or the other predominates; discrimination must be employed.
This aspect between composite Mercury and Uranus brings to your relationship an unusual communication style and mental acuteness, with a unique ability to grasp new concepts, although it helps you both to remain as aware as possible that the unpredictable and erratic quality of your shared thought processes may need translation in order for you to share your brilliance with others.
You may also benefit from toning down your opinions at times, curbing a potential "know-it-all" attitude. You win when you bring discipline and persistence to the practical realization of your shared visions, which ultimately serve both the relationship and the larger world that surrounds you.
Composite Mercury in inconjunct (within 2.6 degrees) with Neptune
The planetary energies do not flow smoothly, one or the other predominates; discrimination must be employed.
This aspect between composite Mercury and Neptune indicates a clever and imaginative relationship but one with the potential for miscommunication and deceptive illusion between you. In a romantic relationship with this placement, you do well to develop alternative modes of communicating.

It benefits you to share your secrets, developing a regular practice of revealing more and omitting less, and to experience the vulnerability and joy that comes from breaking through limiting fantasies or the appearance of aloof detachment. As you work through these challenges, you gain access to your capacity to experience visionary and poetic realities with each other, and to enjoy your incredible sensitivity together, hopefully learning to clearly channel the truths that arise out of your joint imagination for the benefit of yourselves and the society around you.

Composite Venus in inconjunct (within 0.4 degrees) with Uranus
The planetary energies do not flow smoothly, one or the other predominates; discrimination must be employed.
This aspect between composite Venus and Uranus brings to your relationship an eccentric and unconventional method of relating to each other, with a unique ability to come together in new ways. In a romantic context, you may act unpredictably at times, making it hard for you and others to feel stable and comfortable around your relationship. You may have difficulty, for example, settling down into the nuts and bolts of partnership with each other. Your potential with each other is quite variable, making it hard to know exactly where this relationship is headed. You benefit from attempting to bring a steady and consistent focus to your many interests and activities together, and when you allow space for your shared need for freedom.
Composite Venus in inconjunct (within 0.5 degrees) with Neptune
The planetary energies do not flow smoothly, one or the other predominates; discrimination must be employed.
With this aspect between composite Venus and Neptune, your relationship possesses a high degree of sensitivity. You can give a great deal to each other without expecting anything in return. You two are likely to share an intense love of beauty and the arts, especially music and painting, together with spiritual interests.
In a romantic connection, your relationship is charged with a magic that may weave you into a fantasy world together. If you can work through the projections you have about each other, this relationship can transform from an opiate that puts you both to sleep into a sensitive catalyst for awakening. You profit when you develop a more discriminating attitude in general and strive to discover the reality of your own feelings, and more clearly communicate them to your partner.

Composite Mars in inconjunct (within 1.4 degrees) with Pluto
The planetary energies do not flow smoothly, one or the other predominates; discrimination must be employed.
With this aspect between composite Mars and Pluto, your relationship has a passionate intensity and also the potential for conflict. There is a powerful connection between you based around the concept of self-assertion, either yours or your partner's, and one reason that you have come together at this time is to attempt to heal this issue in your lives. In a romantic connection, your sexual magnetism and activity is likely to be strong, as well as issues of power and control that are likely to crop up between you.
The pattern of your relationship may be such that one of you appears timid or unsure to the other partner much of the time, since the power urge when problematic commonly hides deep underground, but there is the potential for sudden bursts of anger when repressed emotion finally finds its way to the surface. These issues will come up in the course of this relationship for the ultimate purpose of working them out and eventual healing. It is of course quite helpful when you both stay as conscious as you can regarding the underlying dynamic of your reactions. It profoundly benefits your relationship if you each can move away from blame and outbursts of resentment or rage, and instead tune into your inner process, or simply surrender to Spirit and the beyond. This simple act can make you feel a little more humble and a lot more whole.

Composite Uranus in inconjunct (within 3.0 degrees) with Chiron
The planetary energies do not flow smoothly, one or the other predominates; discrimination must be employed.
With this aspect in your composite chart your relationship has a strong spiritual connection with it's own unique brand of philosophical outlook. One or both of you may have an unusual combination of personality traits in which you are very unconventional yet also somewhat unsure of yourself in your very departure from the rest of society, so that you may surprisingly show flashes of a conservative side. Since you are simpatico with each other on these types of issues you provide important support for each other, and your relationship can be extraordinarily healing for you both, especially in the area of your own uncertainties regarding your resistance to the straight and narrow. Acting as a team, your partnership may well make its mark in the health fields or the helping professions. You have a creative perspective that allows you to go far in pursuing your own unique brand of spirituality.
Composite Saturn in weak square (within 5.5 degrees) with Pluto
The planetary energies conflict; internal and creative tensions bring rich rewards through effort over time.
This aspect between composite Saturn and Pluto brings forcefulness to your partnership as formidable as a tidal wave and as transformational as a bonfire is to a pile of wood. With this placement, you find yourself part of relationship that comes with a focus on issues of authority, power and control, with also the benefit of radical transformation. Saturn represents the controlling powers-that-be, while Pluto represents the urge to transform or destroy this status quo, and in your relationship these energies are in conflict.
In personal relationships, you may have to beware of turning this immense force onto each other. You benefit when you work through any compulsion that arises within the relationship regarding personal power or attitudes toward established authority. You have the opportunity here to help each other re-evaluate and transform your urge for power and control based on a deeper understanding of the very nature of power itself. It may be difficult to achieve, but if you can work through these issues, you are likely to develop a more conscious and socially responsible use of personal power that could assist in your own evolution and that of the world around you.

Thank you for letting me review your chart and good luck in your relationship.

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Relationship Report for : John Ukraine & Carla Ukraine ( not real names, I never ask for real names)
John: Sep 2, 1989, 7:18:46 AM Sunrise Chart Kiev, Ukraine (50N26, 30E31)
Carla: Feb 12, 1994, 23:30:00 EET Kiev, Ukraine (50N26, 30E31)
In the following report, each planetary placement and aspect is examined to reveal the basic qualities of your relationship, with the most important factors described first. Please keep in mind that these descriptions are not meant to put limitations on the relationship, but merely to describe its inherent tendencies. Challenging aspects can become the greatest strength of a relationship if you can both learn how to successfully navigate those issues, with good communication between you playing a vital role.

Chart Patterns: Bowl, leading planet Jupiter
Since your planets fall within half of the available chart space, in the planetary pattern called the 'bowl' shape, the hemisphere in which they are located tends to be your strong suit. You may also notice a focus on achievement in the unoccupied area of your chart, where innate talent may be lacking. You may feel a need to fill this space, perhaps focusing on the mid-point of the empty hemisphere. In the use of your talents, as represented by the occupied side of your chart, the planet that is the leader of the bowl shape symbolizes energies you utilize in achieving your purpose.
Jupiter in the composite chart reveals the area of your shared experience where you will find mutual good fortune and faith in positive outcomes.
Jupiter in the Twelfth House (or sign) gives you a quiet and unassuming relationship that grows very powerfully with emotional tending. You value being good and kind, and these values are magnified by your relationship with each other. You also tend to be considerate, friendly and easy-going in the context of this relationship. If you are business partners, you likely need to feel an emotional sympathy in order for your work to be satisfying to you.

In a romantic connection, as a couple you are likely to be fond of cinema, or other imaginative flights of fancy. There is some danger of escapism. As a partnership you tend to work behind the scenes, and do not seek personal glorification from your actions, but are content to do what you do because it is helpful to other people. You may jointly suffer from being overly sensitive to the needs of others, or seek to retire with each other from the casual cruelties of the world at large.

Composite Jupiter in Virgo (or the sixth house) gives a relationship that has an unusually optimistic outlook on everyday life, such as the mundane details of the daily workweek. You two are capable of enormous output when you get inspired, and approach the practical necessities of daily existence with a quiet joy and a gentle humility. Together you have a love of service to the greater good, whether that is a cause, a work environment or each other.
In a romantic connection, your relationship grows through small increases, in a very practical and concerned way. It also grows through a regular emphasis on health and well being. Like finding the perfect fitness regime, you two do not need to go to extremes. You benefit when you can discover the balance between abundance and abstinence. Together you have the gift of being able to turn small advantages into success over time. You excel in the natural religion of the ordinary, and take a practical and responsible view of life.

Composite Sun in Sagittarius (1° Sag 47' 41") Composite Sun in the Second House
The placement of the composite Sun defines the core identity of your relationship, and the place where it finds its greatest vitality. It gives you a sense of the predominant flavor of the relationship.
With Composite Sun in Taurus, your relationship centers on a strong practical base and a shared fondness for the pleasures of life. You work best together when focused on practical concerns. In a romantic context, you two tend to crave the comfort of relaxing in the warmth of a secure, enclosed environment.
Your ruling planet is Venus, and you likely focus on pleasure and material things Material rewards seem to come easily to you, and you often find yourselves in the middle of the good life without being excessively concerned about it.
This relationship may take a while to get started, but once it has gotten its momentum, it tends to move along in a steady and very secure way. Although you two may seem quiet and almost passive from the outside, you possess a strong sense of joint will, and as a duo can be quite stubborn at times. You benefit when you work to keep your thinking flexible. At its best, your partnership provides a practical, purposeful, productive and stabilizing influence for you and those around you.
With the composite Sun in Sagittarius, this relationship centers on the principals of freedom, expansion and exploration. You almost always know where you stand with each other, and those around you know where they do, too. Regardless of how you operate on your own, this relationship will bring out your direct, good-natured and optimistic side. In a romantic relationship, you two are likely to enjoy adventure, sports and travel, perhaps gambling and risk-taking.

As a partnership you go for the adventure of life and foster a sense of honesty and truthfulness with each other. The world is your playground; mentally, physically and emotionally. At the highest level, this relationship is concerned with understanding and joy in the service of high ideals for the benefit of mankind.

Composite Mars in Sagittarius (0° Sag 31') Composite Mars in the Second House
The placement of Mars in the composite chart reveals the area of your shared activity in pursuit of partnership goals, and where ego needs may be identified.
Mars in the Second House (or sign) brings out a persistent and patient drive in your relationship and gives it an endurance that may outlast many others. Your shared energy may not burst from the gate and it may take one or the other of you working individually to get things started, but once you do get things going, they will tend to keep going. Since money and security are important shared concerns this is a good placement for business partnerships. Taken to an extreme, your relationship can also bring out inflexibility in each of you or possessive attitudes. In romantic relationships, you may go out of your way to experience sensual pleasures and luxury. If there are challenging aspects to Mars, you could find that you need to work through a tendency for acquisitiveness, or resentment toward each other. You benefit when you cultivate an attitude of sharing and a more relaxed approach toward money matters.

Composite Mars in Sagittarius (or the ninth house) brings a friendly and optimistic quality to the energy of this relationship, inspiring a spontaneous and impulsive drive for results. You tend to work well and joyfully together, with competition and jealousy at a minimum, although you are sometimes scattered in the application of your joint energies, and are perhaps best suited as a partnership in focusing on the big picture, and delegating the details. You are likely to explore sports or perhaps gambling when with each other. You also have a synergistic propensity for growth, which makes this an ideal placement for joint learning and development, or for a student-teacher relationship. While your mutual perspective on the big picture comes easily, you benefit when you slow down, pay attention to details and concentrate your energies.

Composite Pluto in Scorpio (20° Sco 25') Composite Pluto in the Second House
Pluto in the composite chart reveals the area of your shared experience where you will encounter your mutual drive for power and which will be transformative for the relationship.

Pluto in the Second House (or sign) indicates a relationship in which the two of you are strongly motivated by a core need for a sense of stability. In a romantic relationship, you may also associate security with possessing or being possessed by one another. Your goal in this relationship, may be to transform out of fear-based emotional need to a more conscious connection where each partner becomes self-empowered and more fundamentally self-sufficient.
As a partnership, you have a natural resilience that helps you bounce back from struggles with your material attitudes, or if resources grow scarce. You benefit when you can be as open as possible to each other around these matters. It also benefits you when you are as aware as possible of limitations that might be preventing you from allowing necessary growth to occur and also when you choose not to resist what comes up in the course of working things out with each other.

Composite Pluto in Scorpio (or the eighth house) gives a relationship with a focus on powerful emotions that arise between you, and on behaviors of dominance and self-reliance. You may have strong desires in the context of this relationship and find that you are single-minded about pursuing them. You seem to feel more deeply when you are together, and you may have an almost psychic awareness of each other's energy.
In a romantic involvement, boundary related issues are likely to come up between you, reflected in passionate sexuality, deep and powerful feelings of intimacy and questioning where one stops and the other begins. You may also exhibit compulsive behavior around sex and emotional closeness, or be forced to contend with a habit of insisting to get your own way. All these issues will likely become transformed in the course of your shared life together. This relationship's very survival may depend on how deeply you are each are able to concentrate your attention on personal transformation as a result of working through your issues with each other.

As a partnership, you may also exhibit a tendency to manipulate others for your own purposes. In order to grow, both of you need to turn away from manipulating others and use your power to regenerate your own lives. You win when you learn to empower each other and enable each other's self-reliance, and when you realize that you have come together for purposes of healing.

Composite Moon in Sagittarius (25° Sag 29' 25") Composite Moon in Third House
The placement of the composite Moon defines the core emotional focus of your relationship. It indicates the most sensitive area between you.
The composite Moon in Gemini symbolizes a relationship where a high level of verbal communication and exchange provides a sense of emotional security between you. Together, you tend to keep in close touch and enjoy a shared glibness of tongue when conversing. This placement enhances your shared experience of the changing moment rather than the long term. While enjoying the smartness and versatility of your exchanges, you may also need to soften what can be an overly critical approach at times.
In a romantic relationship, your ability to express your feelings to each other allows for great flexibility and mutual satisfaction between you. You will also never tire of conversation with each other. Together, you like to express your opinions, and tend to react to situations by thinking, rather than with feeling or direct action. In a community or business setting, this placement brings excellence to networking, mediating, promoting and the general dissemination of information.

The composite Moon in Sagittarius symbolizes a relationship that provides freedom, adventure and exploration to meet its need for emotional security. Your connection with each other tends to be enthusiastic and uninhibited, and you share an infectious humor that is enjoyable to those around you. Together, you may tend to view life through rose colored lenses, seeing the best side of everything.
In a romantic relationship, you two are generally happy and fun to be around, though you may have an impatient streak. Regardless of how you operate on your own, you tend to jointly react to situations with action rather than reflection. As a partnership you find that your enthusiasm for the untested and untried carries you a long way. You may need to remain aware and attempt to stay grounded in your approach to situations, tempering your idealism with reality checks as you set out to capitalize on your high aspirations.

Composite Mercury in Sagittarius (21° Sag 54') Composite Mercury in Third House
Mercury in the composite chart reveals the quality of the communication process in your relationship, and an area of your shared experience where intellectual compatibility is to be found.
Composite Mercury in Gemini brings a keen, alert and expressive mentality to your relationship. You two have a great versatility together, and have the ability to take up many different skills. You love variety in your shared life. You two constantly perceive the world around you, and relate these perceptions to your previous thinking and to those around you. Your approach to mental pursuits is intellectual, rather than practical, and also may be broad and varied rather than deep and philosophical. This placement is valuable for both personal and professional relationships in this Age of Information.
You speak rapidly and well with each other, and enjoy conversation with each other, and also with many different types of people. You may find that you get restless and anxious with each other from time to time, so that it is beneficial for the relationship when you cultivate periods of inner stillness, either separately or together. It also serves this relationship well to cultivate an awareness of the less obvious but equally powerful nonverbal modes of communication in addition to the verbal mode which comes so naturally to you.

Composite Mercury in Sagittarius brings a keen-witted and idealistic mentality to your relationship. Together, you have great powers of logic and deduction, though your shared thought process may also be somewhat scattered. You are likely to be very direct in thought and expression with each other and those around you and will say exactly what is on your mind in as many variations as your audiences will allow. This gives you and your partner a reputation for great veracity, and perhaps a lack of tact. You also may find that communication in this relationship can leave you impatient or with a tendency to jump to conclusions.
You two often visualize the grand possibility and center your perceptions on the larger issue, rather than on the boring details. Your joint thought process is best suited for advocating your position on a particular topic and for generating enthusiastic overviews. You make a good teaching team. You benefit when you take a step back and work individually, or bring in others before making a determination or a commitment. In your partnership you represent the Johnny Appleseeds of communication, offering each other and the world an air of positive enthusiasm for life's many possibilities.

Composite Uranus in Capricorn (12° Cap 43') Composite Uranus in Fourth House
Uranus in the composite chart reveals the area of your shared experience where you will encounter unusual and unexpected circumstances and where the relationship benefits from lack of structure.
Uranus in the Fourth House (or sign) symbolizes a relationship with a unique sense of what constitutes security that may bring out some volatile emotions between you. If you live together, you may change your residence frequently, and regardless, the shared emotional or physical space inhabited by your relationship will design itself to be especially stimulating and challenging.
In a romantic connection, you two may tend get insecure about where the relationship is headed at times. To remedy this, you are asked not to lean on the security of home and partner, but to focus on your own subconscious process, and develop a strong sense of your own unique individuality. The development of individual emotional assets may be challenging, but it may prove necessary to survive the tests of this relationship. Together, you are on the path of transforming your sense of self, creating integration and stability from your own efforts, rather than what comes through from more conventional attitudes of society or your early parental environment. As you mature in your understanding of this process and of each other, you benefit when you allow your unconventional domesticity to express the values you've grown into.

Composite Uranus in Capricorn (or the tenth house) brings to your relationship an ambitious and willful quality that can be both rebellious of authority and also somewhat hung up about it. With this placement you are definitely non-conformist as a duo. Together, you have a strong imagination and are so sure of yourselves that you often cannot be argued out of your opinion, which can be unique at times. In a romantic relationship, you may feel that you have an important destiny together, but you are not always sure what it is.
You need space from each other at times as much as you need closeness, and your joint motivation tends toward the social rather than the personal. You may find fluctuation in your concept of the reason that you have come together. Regardless of the type of relationship you share, you have an impulse toward prestige and authority, but may find yourself bored with conventional approaches to attain it. You benefit when you challenge yourselves to move away from knee-jerk reactions against established authority, toward setting yourselves up as your own personal authority, in your own way, making your highly articulated and original vision available to society at large.

Composite Neptune in Capricorn (15° Cap 52') Composite Neptune in Fourth House
Neptune in the composite chart reveals the area of your shared experience where you will encounter idealization and nebulous spiritual feelings that will lead you to self-discovery.
Neptune in the Fourth House (or sign) highlights the emotional sensitivity in your relationship and indicates a sense of love between you. Together you idealize home and family settings, which can be a basis of strength, or else a source of potential confusion for you. You may also have a strong sense of idealism regarding environmental issues, or building a home together. If you share a desire to invest in real estate, you might need to do some reality checks on the viability of the project.
In a romantic context, this placement adds a sweet and gentle intimacy to your connection that can be easily confused with a deeper connection than romance. You two may have experienced very similar influences in your early childhood that create a deep even if less than conscious bond between you, and you might be together in order that you help each to clarify what these patterns are and how to rework them so they better serve each of you in your adult lives.
Since you idealize home and family, it benefits you to realize these ideals by tapping into your present situation rather than living in a nonexistent future tense. As a partnership, you benefit when you apply a grounded and sober-minded mentality to your shared environment.

Composite Neptune in Capricorn (or the tenth house) brings an idealistic nature to the way that you jointly interact with the world. You may achieve much together in helping others. On the other hand, you may also experience some degree of confusion regarding this relationship or your role within it. You benefit when you make an extra effort to understand what you are trying to accomplish together and stay on top of your responsibilities to each other and with the world around you.
In a romantic context, this relationship has some very high ideals, and perhaps illusions, associated with your joint interaction. You each have an idealistic streak that carries over into the way you see yourselves in relationship with each other, while others may not be able to understand what's going in your relationship at all. You may find that it helps to clarify your mutual goals and to stay open to the idea you to have come together to respond to a joint calling. At any rate, you enjoy giving more than receiving when it comes to shared service or mutual employment.

Composite Venus in Sagittarius (24° Sag 07') Composite Venus in the Third House
The placement of Venus in the composite chart reveals the area of your shared emotional focus and love and where mutual enjoyment and benefit lies.
Venus in the Third House (or sign) indicates a relationship where discourse is valued between you. In a romantic relationship, you take delight in conversation together. You appreciate each other's intellect, and find that a significant part of the appeal for each of you. You tend to look on the bright side, and you probably like to laugh with each other, which is obviously an important component of any longterm relationship.
As a partnership, you are interested in the pursuits of mental recreation, including computer graphics, puzzles, and the written word. Your good communication with each other ensure that you will at least try to get the best out of every situation that you find yourselves in.
Composite Venus in Sagittarius (or the ninth house) indicates a powerful interest within your relationship in factors of higher mind, such as teaching and learning together. Each of you likely has a deep respect for knowledge, and you admire these traits in each other.
In a romantic connection, this love of learning may make for a fun partnership, with never a dull moment. You may want to pay attention to and make a place for deeper feelings between you that may be supplanted by your love of learning. As a partnership, you value education in others as well as yourselves, and may be extremely interested of spreading light as a team. Your strong sense of the beauty of higher knowledge will always sustain you.

Composite Saturn in Aquarius (4° Aqu 34') Composite Saturn in the Fourth House
Saturn in the composite chart reveals the area of your shared experience where you will encounter limitations and build long-lasting success through trials of accomplishment.
Saturn in the Fourth House (or sign) symbolizes a blockage or a deepening and concentration between you regarding your sense of safety and security in your relationship and also your capacity to express feelings. One or both of you may seem to be rigid and unemotional to the other, and this behavior might stem from problems with the parental care and guidance received in your early years, so that these issues are up for healing.
You may also feel limitations around the creation and maintenance of any shared space that you might establish. Security is very important to your relationship and may take the form of a joint striving for material rewards. The more that each of you can accept and integrate the personal and intimate world of your own and each other's feelings, the more you will break through barriers of fear and isolation and experience true intimacy and love with each other. You are also quite likely to have a focus on your home environment. If you share a home or plan to, there will be a strong mutual interest in making it a good one, and also difficulties to overcome in this regard. You may put a tremendous amount of work into this project, but the eventual result creates a powerful bond between you.
Another major lesson in this relationship is to more fully and deeply understand and value your partner's true origins, as different as they may be from your own. This will bring about greater understanding and acceptance between you, and eventually build a sense of security within the relationship.

Composite Saturn in Aquarius (or the eleventh house) indicates that in your relationship there may be a blockage or a concentration of energy around socializing in groups and relating to the larger community. This is likely to become an important focus, and over time may create a powerful bond between you.
This relationship can exacerbate problems that you each have in feeling as though you fully belong to a particular group, or you may draw back from the circles in which you participate together from a fear of not being fully accepted.
On the other hand, this placement of Saturn can also serve as a bridge between you, making a larger whole out of the amalgam of two kindred souls, and enabling you to make your way to higher states of awareness regarding the world around you.
One of the main lessons of this relationship is to transform a narrow view of social acceptance on a personal level into a broader vision, one in which you both can meaningfully participate in creating a sharing society that has transcended the current level of materialism.

Composite Chiron in Leo (10° Leo 48') Composite Chiron in the Eleventh House
Chiron in the composite chart reveals the area of your shared experience where you will encounter patterns of wounds and deep connection and where eventual healing and empathy will occur.
Chiron in the Eleventh House (or sign) indicates a relationship that provides an opportunity to face and heal deeply held wounds regarding your vital force around belonging to a group consciousness and integrating with the human family. In this relationship, you find yourself vulnerable to losing your personal identity to a group cause or belief system.
You may find yourself attracted to membership in groups or social organizations and then have painful realizations while in the midst of the crowd. It may be that membership in a group or "in-crowd" was denied you in your youth.
It may be that your partner reflects the influence of a parental-like authority figure who forced you in a particular direction that you had no real calling for. You may have had to make the tough decision between abandoning your parental guidepost or your own true self. In time you can heal these wounds as you create a partnership and other friendships that reflect your actual ideals rather than consensus reality. Though it takes time to develop deep self understanding, it may be one of the most worthwhile of undertakings, especially If you want to become truly self-determined and independent of the strictures of society.
You may find you are truly called to become an exemplar of a particular group ideal that is just breaking into the awareness of the world at large. You may be called to go where no (wo)man has gone before. Though it may take many trials and tribulations before you both begin to realize the extent of your true potential, the gold at the end of this particular rainbow is worth the effort.

Composite Chiron in Leo (or the Fifth House) indicates a relationship that provides an opportunity for you to face deeply held wounds with regard to your vital force and expressing yourselves in a magnetic way. With this placement, one or both of you may have experienced pain around your sense of who you are and how you express your individual self-hood, both within the relationship and out in the world.

This relationship will be an important factor in your on-going exploration of these issues within yourself, and a trigger for future healing. One or both of you likely have a deep desire to share your unique sensibility with others and move them or enlighten them in some way. Yet you may find yourselves thwarted in your attempts to shine, perhaps because of painful experiences in your formative relationships in which you were put down or made to feel insecure.
These experiences may cause you to be wary of actually coming out with who you really are. You may feel a strong desire to be your own unique and independent self, fully in touch with your inner being, but fail in the actual event. You may even have experienced radical blockages, such as accidents or other "acts of God" that have prevented you from achieving your full creative potential. You will continue to have painful experiences as long as these issues and their deep-seated emotions remain unconscious within your psyche.
You may feel a need to help others in achieving their goals, rather than yourself. You may even make a career of helping others in this way, leading them toward the path that you might have taken yourself. This is valid as long as it comes from a place free of resentment and unfulfilled promises. It is important to try to become conscious of all your inner dynamics as you explore your life's path. Then you can shine out as a beacon for others, and achieve dramatic results in your own life in ways you would never have dreamed possible.

Composite Sun in strong conjunction (within 6.6 degrees) with Mars .
This conjunction between composite Sun and Mars brings a fiery punch to the relationship, a level of amperage that neither of you may experience alone nor know exactly what to do with when together. You may find yourselves on the verge of exploding with a desire to express yourselves in a larger than life way.
In a romantic relationship, this placement can enhance an erotic desire to express love. Together, you tend to be extra daring and assume great physical vitality. You may find that you enjoy recreational activity and initiating projects. This combination lends strength to each of you, and you may find you can easily support yourselves and the other to each hold your own when in a dispute.
Be sure you utilize the extra creative energy generated here in forward-moving ways. When you find yourselves in the midst of a fiery explosion, it benefits you to give each other welcome room to vent. With this aspect, anger transforms quickly when you allow it to move.
Composite Sun in strong sextile (within 6.6 degrees) with Saturn
This aspect brings a deepening and concentration to the very essence of your relationship. Though things may start slowly and build gradually, this relationship will tend to provide you both with a strong sense of stability over time. Together, you two can be strong-willed and determined, and may have a tendency to appear cautious and reserved to each other, or to those outside your relationship looking in.
As the relationship matures, it tends to acquire a firm basis and together, you accomplish your goals in a careful and industrious way. It benefits you to bring a sense of lightness and play forward when you are together to balance the inherent seriousness of your connection. Deepen and broaden the knowledge of what this relationship is really about at the level of its innermost soul, and learn to love what you find in this process.

Composite Moon in strong conjunction (within 3.9 degrees) with Venus
This conjunction between composite Moon and Venus brings a loving, calm and steady presence to your relationship. You two go out of your way to please and accommodate each other and tend to take special care of each other's feelings. You may make better dreamers than doers, but that shouldn't stand in your way; since you travel far on your good vibes alone. This is a wonderful aspect for a romantic connection, and also serves well for parents or for professional colleagues working in an artistic environment.
One of the most positively blessed of all the composite aspects, it can make up for other more challenging ones.

Composite Moon in conjunction (within 1.7 degrees) with Mercury
This conjunction between composite Moon and Mercury brings a verbally expressive and affectionate quality to your relationship. You two have a gift for expression, both within the sanctuary of your private relationship and as a partnership in your dealings with the larger world. You share the capacity to deeply explore and express how you feel, which goes a long way toward creating mutual understanding, empathy and a sense of natural rapport. Your powerful thinking and fertile imagination lend a witty and entertaining twist to your joint expression, and you share a knack for putting your ideas into words.
You also may occasionally get lost in words, and miss the point of simple heart connection that requires no words. Sometimes silence between you speaks best of all. It may also be the case that at times between you thoughts and emotions will not share the stage, but one or the other will predominate. When thoughts take over emotions, emotional mishaps could occur and attempts to clear things up end by taking much longer than it took for the mishap to occur in the first place. When emotions take over thoughts, you may find yourself saying things with an uncharacteristic intensity that surprises you both, or you may also find yourselves trying to reform each other.

The key here is to stay on top of difficulties each time they arise, and to be careful to take responsibility for your own issues. There is a creative tension to the verbal and emotional realities of your relationship that can be a force for powerful expression, as long as you can find necessary common ground in your shared desire for love, understanding and acceptance between you.

Composite N Node in Capricorn (12° Cap 15'R) Composite N Node in Fourth House
Lunar North Node in the Fourth House (or sign). South Node in the tenth house or sign. This placement in a composite chart signifies that the relationship has a strong need for emotional security. Each of you may feel like you are special, a person of great achievements, and you may in the past even feel isolated in your singularity, as though in previous lifetimes you had spent a great deal of your energy on getting to the top. But as the refrain goes, "It's lonely at the top" and your focus now as you relate to one another will be on getting a better sense of who you really are, at the level of your emotional roots.
You will find that as you advance in your life, and especially in the context of this partnership, that your home life is increasingly important to you. Exploring the depths of your beings through meditation or some sort of transpersonal process work will also be extremely beneficial as you explore your deeper sides. Although as a partnership you may feel tempted to go out and achieve in the world of career and public life, for which you have a natural affinity, it is in the area of establishing a secure base of operations, and of nurturing your immediate community of friends and family that you find your greatest fulfillment, this time around.
Composite Lunar North Node in Capricorn (or the tenth house). South Node in the fourth house or sign. This placement in a composite chart signifies that within this relationship you will emphasize recognized achievement. Perhaps you will form a business together, or it may be simply that you are good at cheering each other on in your respective careers. Although you are comfortable in your private home life, which is what comes naturally to each of you, you are determined, as you mature and as the relationship develops, to move beyond the personal and secure enclosure of your home and family and out into the public sphere.
Something is calling to you to come forth and shine your light so that the world can see it. Your search for public recognition is not however a goal in and of itself, but connects you into a larger picture of social commitment and service to the collective ideal that reinforces your sense of self as a part of the greater whole, an important cog in the turning wheel of world events.

Thus together you come full circle to a self-concept that includes its own sense of security in beneficial interaction with the social matrix that surrounds you.

Composite Mercury in conjunction (within 1.3 degrees) with Venus
This aspect between composite Mercury and Venus lends ease and charm to your interactions. You two actually enhance each other's ability to communicate, often finding just the right words to express a feeling. You are likely to drop into very creative conversations together, and you write as well as you speak. Your relationship exudes an extremely persuasive force in a quiet way. Just be sure not to use the grace inherent in your communication to candy coat things that need to be spoken in clear, strong light.
Mercury and Venus aspects also address the background of the relationship, the space between the words and the quality of the connection in between direct encounters. With the conjunction, you two share a strong intuitive link and tend to feel each other's presence even when you are days and worlds apart.

Composite Mercury in semi-sextile (within 2.8 degrees) with Pluto
This aspect between composite Mercury and Pluto signifies a powerful intensity of communication between you. As a partnership you are also likely to be quite interested in the occult, or other hidden and potentially taboo areas of thought.
Together, you see the deeper aspects of any subject matter that you single out for study, and have the capacity to discourse forcefully about it. When you use your powers of insight and expression responsibly, you can become a great source of inspiration to each other, the community around you and the world at large.

Composite Mars in sextile (within 7.7 degrees) with Saturn
With this aspect between composite Mars and Saturn, your relationship has a responsible, centered and hard-working quality that also might be experienced as a blockage of activity. You tend to be reserved in your actions , and if this is a sexual relationship, you will tend to move along slowly and carefully . The purposeful expression of your shared will may be inhibited by subconscious fears, but this can be overcome. It benefits you to strive to overcome your fears of self-expression, and thus come to a better understanding of yourself and others.

Composite Uranus in inconjunct (within 3.6 degrees) with Chiron
With this aspect in your composite chart your relationship has a strong spiritual connection with it's own unique brand of philosophical outlook. One or both of you may have an unusual combination of personality traits in which you are very unconventional yet also somewhat unsure of yourself in your very departure from the rest of society, so that you may surprisingly show flashes of a conservative side. Since you are simpatico with each other on these types of issues you provide important support for each other, and your relationship can be extraordinarily healing for you both, especially in the area of your own uncertainties regarding your resistance to the straight and narrow. Acting as a team, your partnership may well make its mark in the health fields or the helping professions. You have a creative perspective that allows you to go far in pursuing your own unique brand of spirituality.

Composite Sun in weak conjunction (within 3.5 degrees) with Pluto
This conjunction between composite Sun and Pluto brings out the power drive in your relationship and signifies a powerful intensity of connection between you. This relationship is likely to change your whole life. It's all about your own personal evolution with a capital E, and your joint transformation as well. Pluto's house position may tell you what part of your lives together will be most impacted by the changes that this relationship has in store for you, but in any case, power features strongly into the equation. Powerful feelings, powerful attachments, and power plays could abound.
Pluto's presence may also express itself as an almost compulsive joint urge for self-transformation, and the relationship may itself go through many changes, as you transform both individually and in the way that you express yourselves as a unit. This may be a large part of the reason that you have come together, and together you have tremendous capacity for regeneration and rebirth.
If this is a romantic relationship, you may find that you use your sexuality to play with and work through power issues. As you learn how to get out of your own way and to treat each other with kindness, you surrender control while maintaining your powerful focus in a more conscious manner. Then your relationship can become a focal point for the transformation of society itself.

Compromise is the key, bringing you to your shared purpose. . Planning and organizing together is beneficial for you, with agreements needing to be strongly and clearly made. Although there may be differences of opinion between you, most likely the two of you will have a happy connection with each other, productive of joy and wisdom.

John's Venus in weak square
(within 4.2 degrees) with Carla's Neptune

The planetary energies conflict; internal and creative tensions bring rich rewards through effort over time.

With this aspect, of Venus in square with partner's Neptune, there may be illusions or deceptions to work through. True motivations are hard to express or realize. There is likely to be a warm feeling of sympathy between you, but it is also possible that what is promised may never actually be delivered, even though both sides operate in good faith. In a romantic context, this aspect indicates idealized love, spiritual feeling, and artistic sharing. This aspect represents a heightened sensitivity in which both parties are almost magnetically attracted to each other. Unfortunately, there also can be a subsequent loss of empathy, or a lack of true consideration of the other's needs. The illusion of love may be difficult to metamorphose into a reality. Infidelity, or eventual drifting apart, is possible, although the artistic side of the relationship can benefit. Sympathy and compassion are definitely included in this connection, as you can see your way to it, through the pitfalls of the potential illusions.

John's Sun in inconjunct
(within 2.6 degrees) with Carla's Mars

The planetary energies do not flow smoothly, one or the other predominates; discrimination must be employed.

This aspect, of Sun in minor dynamic relation with partner's Mars symbolizes a partnership energy that tends to be energetic, athletic, motivated, and passionate, and may also include manifestations of will or ego conflict such as outbursts of temper. There is a strong chance for some type of rivalry between you. Your partnership benefits if you can keep your focus on your mutual awareness of vital life pursuits, and your drive to succeed together. In a romantic context, you feel physical passion but also tension, and benefit from rational control and planning. Your achievement together can be easy or difficult, depending on how well you can get along with each other. You feel the impulse to do and move together, yet there may also be discord or you may get the feeling that you are working at crossed purposes, with partnership direction not fully aligned. Consciousness and foresight can go far to offset the possibilities for impatience and conflict between you.

John's Pluto in strong square (within 0.4 degrees) with Carla's Midheaven

The planetary energies conflict; internal and creative tensions bring rich rewards through effort over time.
This aspect, of Pluto in square with partner's Midheaven, brings powerful purpose to your relationship, along with development and depth of character. There also could be problem areas such as hidden motivations, authority and control issues which can arise between you, or ego conflicts in which the strength of purpose between you turns into battlefield intensity. The nature of Pluto is to realize and transform its objectives, and this impulse is part of your partnership energy, so that if you can achieve unity you are likely to accomplish much together as a team. You may be drawn into areas such as healing, depth psychology or research. This aspect also supports regeneration careers, such as recycling or criminal rehabilitation. There is a powerful drive to succeed, with strong ambition between you to gain economically. In a romantic context, there is a strong movement for sexual connection and growth between you, and there may be a sense of coming together for karmic reasons or to break up old patterns, although ego conflict is also possible, or two leaders wishing to take charge. You should beware of potential antagonism or power plays, and it is important to steer clear of resentment or any alteration of feeling that may occur. One person, likely John, provides incentive and development of profound purpose, and may also instigate and be the protagonist in these dramas, while Carla provides focus and leadership. The sexual link between you is strong, but may not mix well with business or shared objectives, and there are always the control issues, but if you can exercise discipline and thus achieve unity in your relationship there is incredible potential for powerful and profound achievement together. In addition to bringing forth issues and healing them in your own personal lives you may participate in planetary healing as well.

John's Mars in strong opposition
(within 1.5 degrees) with Carla's Moon
The planetary energies are polarized; outer events stimulate their interaction; integration is the challenge.
With this aspect, of the Moon in opposition with partner's Mars, your partnership is active, bold and enthusiastic. You feel support for each other, with a definite drive to succeed and to express your emotional selves strongly. There could be volatile emotions expressed between you at times, in a mostly congenial relationship. In a romantic context, this aspect inclines towards energetic responses to each other, with magnetic physical attraction, sympathetic passion and appeal, real enjoyment of family and friends together. You may encounter open expressions of volatile emotions, even anger, but for the most part these can be resolved in short order. Your relationship involves active participation with each other. It is likely that John more often engages, and Carla more often responds with feeling. Together you have a strong desire for things of comfort: home, security, or a sense of protection. Your primal instincts are engaged, along with joyful and energetic physical expression, a sense of athletic enjoyment with each other. There may also be a drive to control on the part of one of you, and some disagreement about home life or shared domestic agendas. This aspect can also indicate the potential for indiscretion, an inclination to temper, or acting out. Carla may dislike John's impatience or desire for action for action's sake. On the plus side, you experience the will to be bonded in some way with each other, the drive for more feeling and just being more alive together.

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