Long-distance Aries bf broke up with me

AquaLady526

I am an Aquarius who met an Aries man back in October of last year. We have been in a long distance relationship since approximately December of last year. I went to visit him for the New Year and everything was great up until about a week ago where I noticed that he had started to become slightly distant when at first he showered me with attention; talked to me several times a day via video chat and text message. The day before yesterday he abruptly broke up with me via text message accusing me of disrespecting him by not showing him enough attention and seemingly blowing him off. For a short while I found myself sort of begging him to not do this to me because I was so caught off guard by the situation because he described me as his soulmate and was the first one to declare that he was in love with me. So, needless to say I was taken aback by the break up out of nowhere over something seemingly so small. But as I reflect I decided that I would leave the situation alone and give him his space. I decided that either he would realize how frivolous him breaking up with me is and want to work it out or either he never really loved me in the first place and was just playing games. My question is has anyone else had an experience with an Aries similar to this? Are they prone to react hastily and break up only to want to come back later on or should I write this up as a total loss? If he does try to come back, what should I expect?

I had similar experience but with an Aqua. We've been together for more than a year with all kinds of crush, text, phone etc and one day the Aqua just showed her ignorance, distance, aloofness and the like. I've been through devastation for few month and I think I had one possible explanation only. Her feeling for me has faded. So in your case, regardless of the reasons, once he does not have genuine feeling for you any more, he will find excuse to part. I think you are still lucky because your time together is still much shorter, it will be much easier for you to come though this breakup.

In my case, since we have been so committed over almost 2 years, I was totally broken down and I don't know how long it will last. I still love her very much but she gave me no choice.

Wish all well with you soon.