Me and My Aqua

Alright. So me and the aqua had been in what we call exclusively dating stage. Together but did not really promise to be together although we did plan to move in together soon.

Like y'all know he's in the process of divorce and has a son that he sees once a week. Not really a big prob. I don't mind now. Just being a gemini. Anyway, last night he messaged me saying "I am thinking that maybe you and I can get serious. What do you think about that?" And I knew he was referring to "committment" as he had been asking me about it for weeks now. Only in questions like "what do you think about us?" Or other forms which pretty much leads to again-- committment.

Tbh, I was surprised. Not that I don't like it but I never asked him that. I was happy and contented that we find time for each other, we get along so well, we're like a happily married couple though we're not. He would tell me I am gorgeous, I'm perfect, I'm the right one and all those mushy stuff. We fall asleep holding hands. He tells me being with me feels so right. That our bodies seem to fit each other too well like we're one... And he never felt anything like this before.

Whatever happened to him? Lol. Not that I don't like it but do aquas have the tendency to be very romantic at times? Mind you, he's the type of guy who would pleasure me in bed before I pleasure him. It was amazing.

LOL! Are you expecting us to rain on your parade? Not me, though. My Aqua behaves quite similarly, but just a bit better than yours!

Eat your heart out.

There.

In case you are wondering why mine's is better than yours...he waited to complete his divorce before he went dating!

Yeaahhhh...i'd wait.

Those guys who havent "left" the back door and the "key" out are just, well, they might be waiting to get back in to the ex-wifey for some rebound action.

You never know. Up to you. Saturn tells me you need to tighten your chastity belt.

I was just sharing the good experience. Of course it's not perfect but I live in the moment... Not worrying about the future. Come what may. Whatever will be, will be. Life can only give me so much to be happy about every waking day and possibly, I am not too worried about the divorce. Not that I trust him. But I trust me and my belief that I deserve to be happy. 🙂

Aquas can be so cold & unexpressive of their feelings that when they finally do say something sweet, from the heart or 'emotional' it's so shocking & catches the other person so off guard that they may even put more emphasis on what was said than necessary simply b/c they're in shock

Aquas are so hot/cold

And when we're being cold, it's like the other person yearns for that 1 moment, 1 day or 1 conversation where we're emotionally vulnerable & open about our feelings

And then as soon as the other person starts getting used to us being so emotional & open, we go right back to being/appearing unemotional & aloof lol