Mr.B, I Agree With You ...

NO I DO NOT AGREE THAT A MAN AND A WOMAN CANNOT BE PLATONIC FRIENDS WITHOUT SCREWING ... that's just silly. I definitely respect your opinion but you can't change my mind 😉

However, it's really pathetic how men and women deceive each other (whether your gay, straight, bi ... whatever). Our interpersonal relations between gender really suck and it seems that the cycle will not be broken anytime soon ...why? Because their more to lose and more to gain as the years progress.

If I'm naive and idealistic to think that men and women shouldn't string others along then I don't care ... let me be damn it. We are adults, but I find that pre-schoolers are more humane then most 50 year olds are -- this is absurd !!!

Tips for Men who screw with women for quick sexual relief and/or for an ego boost -- learn how to use your hand a little better.

Tips for Women who screw with people for quick sexual relief and/or an ego boost -- take the money you were going shopping with and two or three toys

This cycle needs to be fixed or else I will be living in a generation filled with unhappy, unsatisfied, and unstable people.

You tricked us Cappysweetie! 😛 I was like "What?! You AGREE??" LOL Good one, good one hee hee hee

Cross gendered bonds are just awesome 🙂

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! That was all apart of the plan TC 😉 *** giggles *** I agree to disagree 😉

Hey ST, You're cool man!

Of course I don't mind if you tail me 🙂 Hahaha, most bully boys love to tail goatie girls anyway *** wink *** wink *** J/K 😄

Yeah ST, most people won't admit that they feel "imcomplete" without a significant other ... I'm glad you are man enough to admit it 😉 It's hard to believe the both genders were destined to quarrel the was we do 🙂

It's alllll bullshit. When we are in a relatinship with our significant other we don't bitch about 'men this or that' or 'women are so la la' we learn to understand how we each work and resolve our problems. You have the dark moments (that are necessary) and then all the good moments (the point of being in a relationship) 🙂 If things don't balance out then you move on in hopes to find someone else who compliments you better. That's all.

*complements

Also, I am afraid to reveal my true feelings for a guy again because it seems that I always get hurt 😢 This doesn't mean that I won't let a guy know how I feel, but it's very scary for me now.

Feeling vulnerable is a pain because you don't know what's going to happen ... once someone has the upperhand on you emotionally ... it could be all down-hill .........

I will continue to be honest because I see no other way to be, but it still frightens me ............ 😢

'... once someone has the upperhand on you emotionally'

Thats exactly how I see...and you never really know the intentions of others.

Yeah, but I don't want to do the whole "mind games" crap, it's pathetic and annoying too. If I'm not honest with the way I feel about someone it drives me insane. But then again ... what if you confuse how you feel to someone and then things start to change because of it. Then what? You screwed yourself just because you decided to be open instead of being elusive —?

Oh dear oh dear oh dear me 😢

"I will continue to be honest because I see no other way to be, but it still frightens me ............ "

-- You definitely have to approach things carefully no matter what. Everything's a gamble really. But as long as you're real you'll have no regrets. There's a chance you'll get hurt but it won't kill you... you learn. If you don't put yourself out there then you could be missing out (for the ones who might have found a great person)

Okay TC,

I know what you mean ... I don't want to seem whiny so I'll just like things be. Contrary to popular belief, cappies do feel deeply when it comes to matters of the heart.

Feeling trapped is the worst feeling when you have no idea how to escape ... if he has the upperhand, then he's trapped me because he can play "mind games" or string me along and I don't even know it ...... ~sign~

Oh well, it is what it is I guess 🙂

What you say is true, but don't be sad 😢 The right guy will strut right along one of these days 🙂 Happy thoughts happy thoughts 😛

Hahahaha, OOOO I'm fine but I have my cappy mood swings every once and a while 😄 It's just reflecting on things that I choose NOT to think about on a regular basis but when I do it really hits home

Anyway, how are you with and your cancer sweetheart 🙂 My cancer buddy and I have cooled WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY down 😉

"Anyway, how are you with and your cancer sweetheart My cancer buddy and I have cooled WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY down"

-- You keep any contact with him at all anymore? Ah well it was for the best... you know, you're very smart for your age. Most chics whine n complain bout a guy but can't seem to let go... they stick around because of their feelings for him and end up getting really hurt. Anyway I'm happy for you.

As for moi and my crabby, things are good 🙂 We've had our moments but all in all he's great, very understanding and I admire him a lot. I think we've learned a whole lot about each other... it's nice *sigh* *hearts* LOL 🙂

Yeppers TC, he's gone 🙂 I haven't called him since April or was it March. Hell, I don't remember.

It's hard for me to keep feelings for someone who treats me like I can be SO EASY discarded. I may have low self-esteem, but I know I'm worth more then that. I need a strong man, not some boy who runs and hides from responsibities ......

... you know, you're very smart for your age. Most chics whine n complain bout a guy but can't seem to let go... they stick around because of their feelings for him and end up getting really hurt. Anyway I'm happy for you.

*** giggles *** thank you TC 🙂