My Aqua isn't feeling loved?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by taxidermymermaid on Saturday, August 20, 2011 and has 3 replies.

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@taxidermymermaid
15 Years

The other night I was getting off the phone with my Aqua BF and he sighed and asked, "Why don't you like me?" and I was a little shocked and confused. I told him, "Whaaaat? I don't just like you, I looooooove you.".

He said "Yeah...I love my mom, but sometimes I don't like her."

I don't know what he is trying to say. I show affection, I tell him how I feel. We're a LDR. I'm a Scorpio. I want to make my Aqua happy and make him feel loved AND liked.

Thoughts? :\

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@nimbue
15 Years1,000+ Posts

don't you think he's yanking your chain?

or...just being spicy?

it sounds a bit tongue in cheek; it's a true enough statement...like the ones we love? not all the time. what do you think hes getting at?

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

Maybe he's just down/depressed about something else & is paranoid about you all of the sudden

If you've really been doing your part, giving him lots of affection & showing him love like you claimed, there's no reason for him to doubt you

And if he is doubting you, I doubt it's b/c of something you've done/said. It's probably just him & a "funk" he's in right now.

Aquas get like that sometimes. When they're down about something, they may start questioning every thing. Good news though is that it's normally only a temporary phase...well unless he's severely depressed..in that case, this phase may last alot longer

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@taxidermymermaid
15 Years

Hm, well I'm not sure what he meant by it still, but it all kind of faded away. I realized I may have been drifting a bit, but things are good again.