Nervous Aqua :-(

Repost from Cappy forum.

Posted by bareitall
Repost from Cappy forum.

So today I decided to run a compatibility chart for the both of us and I read some things that are very disturbing. Please take a look and let me know what you think I should do. Below is everything negative, he does not believe in astrology, but I do and this makes me question if we should continue to see one another. 😢

-118 Square Sun - Uranus

Negative aspect: Here is an aspect that speaks against any long-term understanding. At the beginning, they will appreciate each other a lot, and will have pleasure in being together but, quite quickly, this life will become unbearable with disputes, conflicts and crying replacing love.

-81 Square Venus - Pluto

Negative aspect: A very strong passion but destructive, to be avoided if at all possible. Jealousy, possessiveness, and resentment are very possible. If the relationship ends, it is difficult to remain friends, as one person feels burned.

-41 Opposition Mars - Uranus

Negative aspect: They make each other impatient and easily frustrate each other. The sexual attraction is unique and powerful at first, seeming to arise suddenly and unexpectedly. However, it is a temperamental attraction and can leave just as suddenly. Erratic responses to each other.

Sun Square Uranus 2.01 -118
Sun sextile Neptune 0.35 82
Sun Trine Pluto 0.42 80
Mercury sextile Venus 0.13 130
Mars Opposition Uranus 3.33 -41
Jupiter sextile Mercury 1.43 61
Saturn Conjunction Jupiter 1.41 102
Saturn sextile Saturn 1.58 35
Uranus Trine Jupiter 2.08 50
Neptune Trine Mars 0.13 67
Pluto Square Venus 1.45 -81
607 -240 367

The VnP aspect might sound some alarms because from experience it is pretty damn destructive lol.

All I can say is it really depends on what kind of person you are. I've stepped into relationships before without trying to figure the inner workings of anything but realise there's always going to be some negative aspects to anything so if you want this dictate the relationship you've already taken one step in the wrong direction.

Thank you both! Whats weird is that we already very possessive and the attraction is super powerful right now, if that dies, we are in trouble. But I agree, we can work on it all.

Well, it's just a guide. It's all about awareness. Now you know where possible weakness are and that is 90% of the battle. You can recognize what's happening (if it does start to happen) and take steps to avoid all that.

If three negatives are all you pulled out of it, then that's not really that bad. All the rest must have been positive aspects.

Just to be aware, most people's compatibility reports contain some negatives. Hardly anyone's would be all positive.

It'll be alright.

Posted by bareitall
Thank you both! Whats weird is that we already very possessive and the attraction is super powerful right now, if that dies, we are in trouble. But I agree, we can work on it all.

See, the possessiveness is something you're already aware of and that is something you can work on and turn into a positive. It's all in perception.