New Cappy girl with Aqua man, please help!

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Caprionna
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19 Years

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Hello everyone... I am new to the message boards, and I have a questions for all of you.

Since I am a Cappy girl, I have tendencies to appear aloof, unemotional and I do not express myself alot. I am dating this Aqua guy who has some Aqua characteristics, but some things do not add up. He is 7 yrs older than me, and for the past month has been talking about wanting to marry me! Seems odd for an Aqua? He tells me that he loves me all the time and talks frequently about a future together!! The problem... he needs his space (which I expected) and will not call for two and three days sometime. Sometimes I need my space too (I'm a Cappy!), but he gets mad at me when I do not call him for a couple of days. He then retaliates by not talking to me for an additional 3 to 4 days or so. Does anyone see this as game playing, double standards, or immature? I do not know what to think of this. Please help!
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Caprionna
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19 Years

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Wow, and I thought that people came here for advice. I am not stupid enough to think that the answer is in "astrology". I only asked for ADVICE! Since when did that make someone stupid because they want to know the opinion of someone from the outside looking in. I came across this message board a couple of days ago and found it interesting that people were helping other people with relationship issues and figured it may help me also. I did not ask you to solve my problems. Anyways, thanks for your feedback!
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MellowDee
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Caprionna these guys sometimes are more than blunt in the way they express themselves. I have had a few arguments with them about this in the past. One of them was even about something on the same lines as asking for relationship advice. Don't take it personally. But actually they have a kinda point. And I ask myself why is it always so easy to poitn out where others are going wrong and I'm clueless about myself