Oh god I need advice and help pls...aquapath!!!

I was on here as hote204 and spoke to blueribbons and tiki333. I left my ex has he had been messaging other women on Facebook and I saw it. It was about getting naked etc and we split because we already split last year because of the same. He promised me change but never delivered.

The girls who he wAs messaging are calling me and coming to my house!!!!! This is crazy!!!! One called on Friday (the one who is married) and apologised! She said she didn't know I existed even tho we had been together 3 yrs and she was worried I wud tell her husband.

Now another one has just been to my house saying I've got it all wrong and I shud give him a chance. This is do screwed up, why is he giving them my address and telephone number—? Help me pls. I need serious advice. Have I got it all wrong...is he messing with my head— This is messed up

Sorry about the desperate rant but I really do not know what's going on!!!!!! I was doing great, been counselling and was getting over it. What is he doing?

Oh girl, that sounds bad. I'm sorry, what an awful thing to have his indiscretions not only paraded in front of you, but on your doorstep.

Stay classy, don't contact him, politely tell the women that their behavior is their behavior and smile sweetly when you say you want nothing to do with him.

It's horrific, what is up with him!!!? I can't believe it!! I got upset in front of her and now feel humiliated. Is he sending them round to make me doubt what I saw and think, surely no girl would do that on the instruction of a man? Thought it had been quiet for a while.

wow, I would get out now and change my number. Seems like he does not have his "butter" together.

They told me he had given them my phone number and address. I don't know them they wouldn't know where I live. I would never go to a girls house like that, he's obviously laid it on to them. Ive calmed down a bit now. The whole things messed up. Blueribbons, u are very cool headed and I like if no butter attitude

I'm not going to do anything, I'm disgusted with him. He wants a reaction. He's kept my belongings and I haven't responded so he has done this!!! Getting wise to this maybe!?! He's a police officer so I could try and use that against him if he tried anything else. The crying and wailing he knows won't work so he's trying this?

OMG A police officer....This is really bad. He needs professional help, he's desperate to get you back under his control, they tend to do these kind of tactics, he can not only convince others around them to HELP him bombard and harass another person the actuality is they'll do it, the people around him are easily persuaded b/c they believe everything coming out of his mouth, feel sorry for him. BE CAREFUL and document everything, be prepared to get a restraining order, record calls, save them all, be prepared to rally your whole family behind you, DO NOT TRY TO HANDLE THIS ALL BY YOURSELF.

This could get really bad really fast. Thankfully he's kept his distance but that could all change once he realizes you are not coming back. These women are desperate to win his affection so they'll say and do anything, DO NOT BELIEVE THESE WOMEN and please start to look for a new place to live if you can afford it, change your phone number, make it unlisted and tell everyone you know DO NOT GIVE OUT YOUR NEW NUMBER without your permission, under no circumstances should they give it out.

I'm with Blue, DO NOT RESPOND TO HIM, do not engage in long winded conversations, if you have to absolutely respond keep it short, don't share your hurt feelings, don't share anger, don't do anything to keep this going, don't say or do anything that feeds his ego and gives him hope. He'll try anything, I mean anything. Be prepared for anything. Hopefully he'll stop, you better pray he stops.

Do your best to protect yourself...

Believe me I am praying he stops..fast. I've told everyone and they know what's going on. Their reaction is "I can't believe he keeps our streets safe". I've calmed right down but I have documented these things so I have this to fall back on. I'm so shocked they are calling and coming here, I didn't know what to say!!! I don't believe them, the married one was pretty honest and said he never told her about me and that she was sorry but this one tonight, I dunno, but was kinda weird like trying to convince me to go back, guilty I imagine. I am thinking about moving or at least getting somewhere to stay for a bit. This loser has ruined my life for long enough!!

Blueribbons, ah hell I'm sorry you had to go thru that!!! I don't get what's with them? It's like they can't stop and I know what you mean about feeling like you have to watch them. Before when I split with him he had a girl from work texting him saying she had had a dream they were screwing and it was amazing, she text this at 2am. I've become to hate his cheating butt and his constant need for validation is gross. How long were you together with your ex?
I'm tired of him letting me down.

Although these last set of messages were mild, it's the reckless he shows that I hate. These women are freaking married, and this isn't the first time he has been connected to a married women, it makes me want to vomit. Plus I risked everything to be with him and he hang honoured that at all, just trampled on it in fact.

I know what you mean about he hasn't done this be cuss he's an aqua but because he is a tool. I think it's the latter. Im glad you've met someone you can trust, I'm pleased for you.

Update!!! I get a text today saying I'm abusive and he has found out something's about me that disgusts him. He said I am abusive and I hit hi
(I pushed him away as he was restraining me) and then he pushed me up the wall. He said I have committed an offence by law for reading his personal things and he denies giving them girls my phone number and address. I thank him for today as he has completely made me see him for what he is. A rodent. The scum of the earth. It's amazing how love turns to hate so fast. I am even bored of talking about this chump but I have learnt a lot.

I know you are drawn into his drama and it's hard not to respond/react but please stop communicating with him or he will not go away, you are RESPONSIBLE for your actions and behavior and you can't cry about his behavior if your actually encouraging communication. He hasn't found out anything and even if he has SO FRICKEN WHAT.

I didn't I got a solicitor instead, this is my evidence ha. If you hear of a brutal murder where a girl gets her head cut off, bring this to the police's attention lol. He hasn't got anything about me. I haven't done anything. Dealing with the mentally unbalanced teach's you a lot.

Sorry I wasn't crying about it, I'm just amazed at it. This place helps ease head pressure but I am probably boring with it now lol.

I've put everything together to take to the police. It used to stress me cos I know he would lose his job but now I don't care. He doesn't care about what he does to me so why should I? Best part was at the end he said "I would consider forgetting the disgusting things I've learnt about you to try again" ha how's about stick consideration up ur unhinged ***! u guys are ace, I've have such help and support it's untrue. I really struggle to tell this to people I know, through embarrassment and not wanting to worry them. Off loading on here to people who don't know us is great,

Sadly we live in a tiny town but I will do my damn hardest to avoid him. I wouldn't put him out if he was on fire. I've threatened legal action, my position is crystal clear. If he doesn't accept it, I'll call the cops.

Aquadiesel, that's pathetic!!! What a loser. You can imagine how pleased he was paying you less, imagine if u cud spend a day in their heads and now what they are TRUELY thinking...I bet you would be very alarmed!!!

Aquadiesel, that's pathetic!!! What a loser. You can imagine how pleased he was paying you less, imagine if u cud spend a day in their heads and now what they are TRUELY thinking...I bet you would be very alarmed!!!

Ha go taurus mother! My mum is taurus too (I'm actually an Aries on the last day) it seems to show as Taurus in the USA on the last day for some reason. My mum has hated aquapath since day one, she said she got a very bad feeling about him, then she heard him ranting and he called me a bi t ch and she clocked it. She actually said she's going to run him over if she sees him. I love her to bits, loyal as hell and kind to a fault.

I love Taurus, not to date, but as family. Best friend is cancer and I find she compliments me well. She calms me down and I pick her up. What has been your most successful relationship so far? Don't tell me aqua ha—

To be fair to aquapath, altho he was a complete jerk, when we were happy we were good. Laughed like friends, bounced off each other. I doubt he will find someone like me that he gets on with. That's why I couldn't understand why he wasn't happy, we used to laugh till we cried. I guess it just wasn't what made him complete and settled. I doubt anyone ever will.

I'm off exploring new grounds. I can't wait to have that excitement of meeting someone new. You know when you get butterflies in your tummy when you see someone??

Gotta look forward x

Omg whatever u do, my advice is to NOT GET BACK W/ THIS DUDE. he's using them to help him get u back. i mean it's nice that they're apologizing -- and physically coming to you to do that! i respect that n u shud to too -- BUT THAT'S IT! accept their apology AND THAT'S IT. b/c @ the end of the day, if u kind look @ it... this dude was inappropriate w/ these skanks while he was with, used them for pleasure, n is now using them to help him get u back. he's using all of u! pshhh... don't buy into it.

like i said, kudos to the girls apologizing but that's it. keep it movin.

Aquarius21 I'm moving so fast I can't keep up with myself ha....if I could put money on it I would say he has called them crying saying they are to blame for our split. Guilted them into coming round and no, no way will I ever get back with this dude

I don't know where you live but if they have restraining orders, get one against him. And if you have evidence, file a complaint against him. He needs to know you cannot be messed with and his games must stop because he is not above the law.

Every woman I know involved with a cop has dealt with abuse and infidelity and the threatening of how no one will believe her since he's a cop.

You know when I met him and told people he was a cop, every one grimaced. I thought they can't all be bad...but I imagine they are all similar. Never again. It must be their training but when we split up last year, he used to drive past my house and wait outside in a cop car!!! With his partner inside! I mean how bad is that!

I had a friend who too dated a cop and his treatment of her was vile. Saying that I do know one nice one, he is soft and kind. But then again I suppose mine seemed like that if you dont know him.

Lesson learnt...don't date crazy aquas, esp if they are cops

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Aquarius21 I'm moving so fast I can't keep up with myself ha....if I could put money on it I would say he has called them crying saying they are to blame for our split. Guilted them into coming round and no, no way will I ever get back with this dude

u go girl 😉

How to piss off an aquarian in two words...

An insecure Aquarian...."you're crazy"


A secure Aquarian...."you're unoriginal"