Ok another ex Aquarius bf ? From a Virgo

Ok... Another thing he mentioned when we were ending was that I was too negative.. And he couldn't live with all my "negativity" I don't consider myself to be that way really but I do become emotionally obsessive in a relationship.. Esp. Being it was LDR,, I needed constant reassurance. But wouldn't call it negative. So is this a typical Aquarius trait.. ? I mean no one likes negativity I know but do Aquarius' need to be surrounded by only positive stuff..?? Idk.. Thanks for your replies in advance🙂

Virgos tend to be critical...sooooo, if you're criticizing people and places, openly noticing where they can improve.....an aquarius tends to see that as negative, because their nature is so accepting and encouraging of people's and place's uniqueness, the things that make them different from everyone/everywhere else. That's probably the negativity he's referring to. To you, you're probably just seeing it as a way to help someone/somewhere be better, but to him it feels like complaining.

- Just one perspective from a cap moon who's learning to turn off the negative thoughts.

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Posted by truecap
Virgos tend to be critical...sooooo, if you're criticizing people and places, openly noticing where they can improve.....an aquarius tends to see that as negative, because their nature is so accepting and encouraging of people's and place's uniqueness, the things that make them different from everyone/everywhere else. That's probably the negativity he's referring to. To you, you're probably just seeing it as a way to help someone/somewhere be better, but to him it feels like complaining.

- Just one perspective from a cap moon who's learning to turn off the negative thoughts.

Awww truecap, you explained an Aquas true nature. I love it!!!
That's exactly why I can't be with Virgos. They criticize and complain about everything!!!! Where as I see the beauty and uniqueness in all things, both living and non.

I see it this way we're kinda like the hippies of the stars and your the uptight business man.

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Aquarius energy is good for me. As a cap sun/moon, I can have a tendency to be pessimestic and worry about what could happen. He's really taught me a lot about just appreciating what is and not worrying about what is not.

Thank you all for your explanations! They all really made sense and he did use that word "attack" a lot! This is perfect for giving me some of his perspective of our previous volatile relationship lol.. Thanks! He even said our relationship is doomed..not so soon. Before we were history.. And I'm my eyes I wasn't attacking I was just trying to make our relationship stronger and understand him. He saw it as an attack.. It sucks but oh well we can never be together in that way at least we know now.

Posted by truecap
Virgos tend to be critical...sooooo, if you're criticizing people and places, openly noticing where they can improve.....an aquarius tends to see that as negative, because their nature is so accepting and encouraging of people's and place's uniqueness, the things that make them different from everyone/everywhere else. That's probably the negativity he's referring to. To you, you're probably just seeing it as a way to help someone/somewhere be better, but to him it feels like complaining.

- Just one perspective from a cap moon who's learning to turn off the negative thoughts.

truecap is alwaya spot on with aquarius info... this is correct

Awwww, shucks!
Thanks aquaguy.